There is this cute girl that is on my co ed recreational soccer team that i play on. We have said hey whats up when we see each other. I really do like and want to get to know her, what is the best way to go about this? What should i do or say to show that I am interested in her? And How can I get her to become interested in me as I am to her?
Thanks
G
2007-05-05 14:19:36 · 19 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go talk to her. We all need friends.
2007-05-05 14:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be kind of nerve wracking to try to form a relationship with another person. Don't try to force her into liking you go slow, not to fast,the more you get to know her the better.
Maybe even sometime invite her to play soccer with you or you and some Friends. Make sure you invite some of her Friends too. Just so it won't be awkward.
As far as Talking to her, well girls love compliments! If you see she made a good move in a game or pulled of a tricky move (idk) compliment her on that. Say ," Nice shot, can you teach me how to do that?" but don't sound desperate.
hope i helped! good luck!
2007-05-05 21:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by Alexa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great that you want to get to know her. I know this sounds crazy but I always fall for the guy who teases me, in a friendly way. You should smile at her and if she likes you she'll smile back. Be casual around her and seem interested in what she has to say. Ask her if she wants to hang out, to make it seem more casual get a group of a few soccer friends to come along too. If she seems interested too ( if she flirts back, smiles at you, touches you casually ) ask her out.
2007-05-05 21:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start a couple of conversations about soccer until you find out other things that she is interested in, and then if all goes well... ask her if you might be able to call her sometime.
2007-05-05 21:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by christa h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mention something random (not too random though). Ask her questions about herself. Talk to her about soccer (you already have one thing in common). Talk to her about her school. Ask her questions and make her answer them. The more you talk to her, the more interested you'll seem. You can't make a girl be interested in you, but you can be nice and friendly to girls and see where it goes from there.
2007-05-05 21:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her and talk to her... Ask her about herself... favorite sports, tv shows, music, etc. And you can make her become interested in you, but if you show her the nice side to you and treat her right she may become interested in you.
2007-05-05 21:25:01 · answer #6 · answered by STF11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could ask her to go eat after a later game.
or go see a movie with a couple of your team mates.
talk to her after the game and if you talk to her often enough you might want to get her screen name or email or phone number
something so you can talk to her more often.
2007-05-05 21:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by _loveeeeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the 2nd time you ask this question.
Try talking to her or inviting her to a coffee or something and you will know whether she is interested or not.
2007-05-05 21:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang out with her more. not too much at first because that will freak her out. and just be yourself. if you be yourself then she could become interested. if you don't know how to just start hanging out with her then ask her for help with your soccer or something. then just gradually hang out with her more and more. gradually though
good luck
<3/blondy4ever
2007-05-05 21:44:56 · answer #9 · answered by ♥.blondy4eva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a conversation with her and start talking to her more and more often. ask her to hang out some time but keep it light nothing too serious until you see obvious signs that she is into you
2007-05-05 21:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by footballgrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest just getting into a deeper conversation.
Ask about weekends, ect. I think the second you ask her something, she will answer and it will spark a conversation.
2007-05-05 21:22:52 · answer #11 · answered by freedom.peace_love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋