I have posted recently about a nasty email from my ex...yet I feel like I will always care...we were friends for a long time before we were together...and I do think I made many mistakes. He did not give me the closure I needed, and often avoided confrontations in our relaitonship he was much younger. So, in the last year, instead of making him comfortable enough with me to get back together, as I guess he wanted, I always closed every effort with talking about the conflicts we never discussed before, and pushing unasked-for communication upon him....I feel badly for this. There is still much love in my heart for him...more, I think, in fact, than there has been for the past year. I cannot explain this, because he sent me the nastiest message. There is something healing in his having set a boundary...historically, he has had no boundaries. I have not written him back for a week...I feel a kind of peace in my heart, but I want him to know I understand. Does anyone understand? Ideas?
2007-05-05 13:31:10 · 2 answers · asked by myrtlebough 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, when a guy tries too hard, it's so easy to shut him down. When he stops trying and shows you he's done with you and that's it, it's like a totally different thing.
I know what you mean. Don't write him anything. If the two of you broke for reasons that can be overcome by you two, then just go to him and tell him he has your heart and you love him now like you never did before. Give it a shot.
2007-05-05 13:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry..to long 2 read
2007-05-05 20:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by ♥RachelRocks123♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋