my husband don't do it for me what can I do
2007-05-05 13:24:39 · 12 answers · asked by dizzy76 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do it for YOURSELF!
Don't wait on him. Buy some toys, oils, sexy outfits, videos, books, etc.... and GO TO TOWN! Love thyself... it's GREAT!
He will notice, be pleasantly surprised and things will pick up!
2007-05-05 13:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by Kia A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, are you taking birth control? If so, you may need to change the type. Some forms of birth control decrease sex drive. If not, you possibly have a deep rooted emotion caused probably by something he did or does that annoys you and you haven't talked with him about it. If that's the case, then search your soul and get it fixed, quick! Sex isn't all a marriage is about, but the lack of it can be devastating to a marriage. Good Luck!
2007-05-05 13:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by greghllwd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must have done it for ya at some point! REMEMBER WHAT ATTRACTED U TO HIM! Couples tend to get in a sexual rut. It gets bland and way too routine. Guys get lazy and so do we.
Hmm, ever try role playing? pretend you are someone else. dressup. surprise the hell out of him when he gets home. It can be a big turn on. And dont just let him jump right on and go for that ride with out playing along. make him want you bad and visa vera. Tease the heck out of him. Explore your mind girl. Im sure you have some fantasies up in there. Get some toys, go to an adult toy store. Go together. Dont be shy. Vibrators and dildos are awesome when used alone or with your hubby. Make it more fun your self. Like I said before to someone else..... GUYS ARE EASY..... find whats gets you going and then include him.
2007-05-05 13:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by teena662002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Reading some Adult Stories or look a some video
2007-05-05 13:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by Answerman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy him a good book on how to do it and tell him he isn't getting any of it if he doesn' apply what he read.
2007-05-05 13:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
role play, try new things, go to a sex store and try out different things.
2007-05-05 13:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by sprklstephy08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pathetic. I feel sorry for your husband being stuck with someone like you.
nicole
2007-05-05 13:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by nicole 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
WELL MY NUMBER IS......just kidding. buy a dildo and show him how to do it !!!! some guys are slow he'll get the hint
2007-05-05 13:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get toys....spice it up...get play roles from movie ...for example become mr. and mrs. smith ...go to adamandeve.com for ideas...read about kama sutra....
2007-05-05 13:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by luciouskisss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat oysters
2007-05-05 13:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋