Family & Relationships - 5 May 2007

I tell her how nice she looks when we go to town. She always tells me "I don't feel it" and sometimes in a blue moon she sais "thank you" I cannot remember the last time she complimented me. Do you think that telling a spouse shes beautiful is destructive somehow?

2007-05-05 04:35:45 · 40 answers · asked by tyler d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

but u only liked him/her as a friend.

2007-05-05 04:35:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-05 04:29:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anjali P 2 in Singles & Dating

If someone could give me advice I would appreciate it. I had called 911 this morning to report my new neighbors had left their 4, 2 and 2 month old children unattended. The 4 and 2 year old were playing in my yard next to a BIG highway and when i told them to go home because they are too little to be outside alone they said that no one was home with them. after calling the police we found out that the father was sleeping in a back room and the kids didn't know. he was offended that i called 911 and I told him honestly that his kids are way too little be outside alone 20 feet from a major highway. I said that his son told me noone was home with them and that they leave him home alone alot. Not even 5 minutes after that conversation with him which I thought would fix that situation the 4 year was opening my door to come in. I have a huge yard and a big barn separates their property from mine but they act like what's mine is theirs. they bum money and once at 9 pm the oldest child

2007-05-05 04:26:42 · 9 answers · asked by feelingfroggee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

It seems like just about all of the messages I get from beautiful and sexy women on on-line dating web sites are all from gold diggers! Why do so many of the beautiful and sexy women on-line try to sucker men into their money making schemes? Aren’t there any women out there, who are beautiful and sexy, that aren’t gold diggers? Aren’t they aware of the consequences their actions have on them, their victims, and the other non-parasitic women out there?

2007-05-05 04:22:35 · 9 answers · asked by plsletmepleaseu 1 in Singles & Dating

he did apologise for not turning up
i have not contacted him since
i don't know what to do
i really like the guy however

2007-05-05 04:16:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

youve known someone for a while you like them and they like you but they still havent made a move! they flirt with you obviously but still they havent asked you on a date or moved in for the big kiss! what do you do?

2007-05-05 04:12:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sorry if this is confusing trying to put it in a few words is hard, if your married to a man on disability pension you seem to have to get a doctor to fill forms out he is diabled , find that confuising after all he been on it for years. but to get care payment this seems the way,need clarification
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2007-05-05 04:08:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What can I do if my wife is threatening me, but says if I call the police she will lie and say i've been molesting my kid and beat herself up and say to the police that it was me. Please answer promptly thank you all

2007-05-05 04:08:30 · 8 answers · asked by sexycindybee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-05 04:08:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So i rented an elks club for my reception and they said all linens and dishes were included I have 2 months till my wedding they tell me now they fired the guy who told me that and now I have to pay for all that stuff. So to cut cost I guess I am going to get plastic dinner ware but what about table cloths it is a luau theme reception would paper table cloths matter or what if I made them out of something also what about plastic table cloths HELP what should I do I am way over budget and need to set 22 tables!!!

2007-05-05 04:00:35 · 14 answers · asked by Baby Girl 1 in Weddings

I have been with my boyfriend for 9 years now. We have a house together and a child. So why is it he hasnt asked me to marry him yet? We do bicker like any other couple but to him he thinks thats not normal. Other than that no other relationship problems. He has nothing to compare our relationship to because I was only his 2nd serious relationship (his other in highschool and little beyond) Everytime I bring marriage; I get one of 2 answers "when we dont fight" or nothing at all (which with him is better than a no) I try to talk to him but it just seems hopeless. We do not have the best "talking" relationship. He is not a talker; so what do I do to get his view on this!! We have been together for so long if marriage or at least an engagement is in my near future, I will feel the past nine years of my youg life (im only 26) has been wasted! And how do I let him know if marriage isnt in the future neither am I?? I also feel his "single" friends may have an influence.

2007-05-05 03:58:19 · 9 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this lad at my school and i know he fancys me but im too shy to approach him i think he is going to ask me out soon but if he doesnt how do i ask him im really shy and have never asked anyone else out before i sit next to him in german but he got moved in science so someone else had to sit there

2007-05-05 03:52:20 · 1 answers · asked by fumas 2 in Singles & Dating

Thanks for reading. My sister's a genuine, giving, gorgeous girl who REALLY wants to get married to the right guy. (Who doesn't) She thought she'd found the right one. We all agreed. There were some initial reservations but that's another story. He asked my parents if he could marry her & told our family he'd do it on her upcoming birthday.

Then she got a call from a girl who obviously got her # from his cell, saying they'd been together since a year ago off & on, she's pregnant(!) but possibly going to terminate (another jacked up story). She told only me. He knows I know as well.

I'm willing to support her as she tosses around whether to stay or go. Then he proposed last Saturday. I HATE that he cheated & they have only even been together since like Feb./ March. Going forward I'm thinking of years of uncertainty she's going to be able to share with JUST ME. I don't even know how to ask, but what the H to tell her?

Because she loves him, he has some celebrity &

2007-05-05 03:42:23 · 21 answers · asked by Sleek 7 in Marriage & Divorce

at highschool and didn´t think any subject was boring...I thought all of them but 2 were very boring !!! do you think it´s possible to never feel bored??? PS He told me it´s because he´s a simple being, and that is actually very hard to be one...

2007-05-05 03:36:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In our first year of marriage he actually invited the girl he was cheating with to our son's christening. I haven't had cause to suspect him lately, but i just found out that he was actually going out with the girl i suspected then. Can he ever change since he cheated before we got married and also in the first of year of marriage. We are have been married for five years now.

2007-05-05 03:26:36 · 14 answers · asked by worriedlady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We’ve been together 4 ½ years, lived together for a 1 ½ years and got engaged last week. Ok, he wakes up in a bad mood almost every morning and I am sick of it. He was pissy so I let him be. I made little casual comments, tried to make little jokes and he just sits there with little one word answers or pissy comments. I'm very aware of non-verbal communication and it hurts me to live with this kind of tension. (this is not a new thing) I can't ignore him because we live in a small apartment and there is really no way to get away from his negative energy. I love him very much but this tension can drive me insane b/c it always escalates into a fight unless him or I just leave to do something else (school/work). Sure enough, he finally made a comment to indicate his irritation (although, he will deny up and down that he is in a bad mood). He called me a lazy, worthless b****. Mind you, I was doing nothing except telling him not to use our fish tank bucket for chemicals, b/c we can use the spare trash can. (Putting chemicals in a fish bucket and then using it to change the water in the fish tank could kill them very easily). So, I took my engagement ring off and threw it at him. I couldn’t stand having it on my finger at that time b/c I felt chained to him…a man that hurts me so much. He accuses me of that probably 2-3 times a week minimum, b/c I don’t choose to work as much as him and I am in nursing school full-time (most of the girls who go don’t even work in the first place b/c of the time-consuming nature of nursing school). When we moved out, he knew the situation and he rubs it in my face all the time. I was very hesitant to move in w/ him b/c of this, I knew he would be footing most of the bills and so did he. He still wanted to do it, I had a good arrangement living w/ my mom. He wants me to be like his mom and cook and clean 24/7...I find other things in life more important. I’m not like her in that way and he knew I wasn’t. I keep the kitchen clean and do some stuff around the house but I am not obsessive about cleaning like he is. I don’t live in filth or anything, but he sees messes that I just can’t see. I’ve been spending 9hrs a day for the past week tutoring a friend who may fail out of nursing school b/c I felt it was the right thing to do, and I haven’t been able to clean like he wants. He even encouraged me to do this for her. Well, I asked for the ring back about 5 mins. later (even though he was still being a jerk) and he refused to give it to me. He then left for work. It really hurts me when he says those things and I know I may have over-reacted throwing it at him, but I just felt so tethered to him when he was hurting me while I had that ring on…it was weird. I looked at it and it made me feel nauseous. So, I’m taking my dog and packing up some stuff to go to my mom’s for the weekend (at least). Am I wrong? He will inevitably call me like he always does and beg me to come back, say he’s wrong like always…but….I’m sick of it. Does that nauseous feeling I felt when looking at the ring at the time mean anything? Did I over-react way too much? Am I completely wrong? Is this common for newly engaged women to feel burdened by the weight of the commitment? I’m a product of a divorce, so marriage does not appeal to me like it does him, it scares me. My childhood was tumultuous b/c of it. I do love him, but I’m just scared I guess. There are lots of other good qualities but his negative attitude is just eating away at me and overwhelming all of his good stuff. Sorry this is so long, but I have to get this out. Thanks for all your advice.

2007-05-05 03:25:38 · 14 answers · asked by SNAFU 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My BF & I were making love & for some reason he couldnt orgasm.I worried that I was doing something wrong, so I asked.What he told me upset me so badly I freaked out & started crying.He says I overreacted,I say that no one in their right minds would have TOLD their lover this,even if it was true,some things you just dont reveal out of common decency. Here is what he said: "I knew I wasnt going to be able to (O) & I didnt think it was right to fantasize about someone else to make it happen when Im w/you." I could have gone my whole life not knowing this. I think he's horribly insensitive to say this,even if it was true.We all fantasize about other people than our lovers,but thats not a thing you would TELL them.Hes been open about his sexual fantasies w/me & tells me he masturbates frequently to diff. 'topics'.I have no problem with that. I didnt need to hear this in so close conjunction with ME. He says he loves me and that Im irrisistable, we have great sex but this makes me feel bad.

2007-05-05 03:13:03 · 16 answers · asked by idigplants03 1 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for an indoor wedding venue with lots of gardens and where we can bring our own catering service. Our wedding is set for May 2008, but we are not sure if we want to do it indoor or outdoor, a dance floor is a must. Thanks for your help!

2007-05-05 03:12:47 · 2 answers · asked by Carlos N 1 in Weddings

RAVE Motion Pictures, AMC Theaters, Cinemark, Regal, or Studio Movie Grill. What is the best place to experience a Motion Picture in its true essence?

2007-05-05 03:05:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-05 03:02:24 · 27 answers · asked by BOND_BOND2001 3 in Weddings

what do you like about abs, 6 packs, big arms, big chest, lean muscles......why do you find this attractive and how attracted are you.....?

2007-05-05 02:55:47 · 9 answers · asked by fahd_dogg 3 in Singles & Dating

My spouse does not have an issue with me looking at and or using pornography, however I do. That is I feel a little guilty for doing it but I can't seem to stop. I'm not addicted in the sense that I don't need to see it in order to be intimate with my spouse, however because we are aparted due to work comments a lot, I do feel a little guilty sometimes. So the question is, am I just being stupid? or should I be concerned about this?

2007-05-05 02:44:10 · 18 answers · asked by lisa s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 64 years old, and I've been getting callouses on my vagina for many years. I can't afford to see the doctor so I have no idea what may be causing this problem. My husband is turned off by them and asked me if it was ok for him to go outside of the marriage. I was wondering what may be causing the callouses and if there is any possible way for me to get rid of them.

2007-05-05 02:43:34 · 10 answers · asked by 17 years young 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-05 02:26:15 · 13 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I stayed in a marriage where I was mentally abused and now we are getting a divorce but I feel so alone sometimes even when im around friends and talking to family will this feeling ever go away I don’t want to date anyone right now because I just cant handle that, I hate this feeling inside me

2007-05-05 02:18:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 26, he is 56, we have been together for over 2 years, we love each other and we have been through a lot. I tried hard in this relationship and so did he, I finally brought up the idea of breaking up with him yesterday bcos Im not happy about the age difference, and I am worried about my future with him, there is too much pressure and it gradually worn me out. He was pissed off and hurt, he said I didnt leave a good form to him, and he is not impressed. He said I wasted his 2 years, he said Im only playing games.
After breaking up, I felt so bad, I couldnt sleep, I couldnt get him out of my mind, and his words hurt me so much... I love him very much, also he is the first one I had sex with, now Im nothing to him, he only considers me as a game player! The pain is so much... we havent contacted each other ever since, and I dont think we would...
maybe we cant even stay friends...

2007-05-05 02:10:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-05 02:07:21 · 21 answers · asked by Arielle J 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband likes to gamble and we're always fightin' about it...i wanted him to stop , what shall i do?

2007-05-05 02:06:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married a very long time, but will be divorcing soon.
Why is it that men seem to stop looking & wanting their wives after a couple of years?
I have treated him like a king, had sex countless times a day.
I keep the house clean & food on his table.
I always fix myself up in sexy clothing,,,but he just seems like its all old for him...like been there done that.
What am I doing wrong ?...all he ever does is scream at me & say I never do anything right.
He degrades me & insults me infront of people...Are all men this way..ive neem married 22 yrs and will be 40 in August.

2007-05-05 00:56:14 · 15 answers · asked by earthangel_candy 4 in Other - Family & Relationships