Family & Relationships - 6 May 2007

My husbands son, who is living with us called his mother in California and asked her to move out here to Oklahoma to take care of his son. She devorced her husband of several years and packed every thing she owned into a uhaul and moved here. The son lived with us, so now, she lives with us. My husband and I have moved out of the house, and into our motor home in the back yard, so she could have the house with her kids. I have no idea what to do about this situation. What do you think? Now she wants my daughter to call her mom number 2. I don't think so. I am having a hard time with this, but trying to make it work for her kids.

2007-05-06 23:49:24 · 23 answers · asked by Janet R 1 in Family

If you came home from a long business trip to find out that your wife/husband had been sleeping around, BUT they also won a million dollars.... what would you do about it?

2007-05-06 23:47:08 · 10 answers · asked by Berries Dingle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I 'am agay guy and i live in acity where people cant andersatand that i almost have no friends so is there any advice to help me get along with that !!!
thank u :)

2007-05-06 23:45:52 · 9 answers · asked by freespidys 1 in Friends

Like she's always dicking a guy over or like she tells one guy she likes them but then starts talking to another guy; i think thats plain rude because this boy mike likes her andeevrything and he always trys to make time for her and stuff like that because hes very busy but then she'll be like yeah but dick him over anyways.. but he doesnt stay mad at her.. Sooo then theres this other kid jason that tells her shes beautiful and that he likes her and all this stuff so shes playing them both but i know mike is going to take it hard if he finds out "mike and this girl both go to different schools" but jason and her go to the same school"......... Should I tell mike that shes doing this ??because she doesnt have to see him for the rest of her life and deal with him i do because something with the family and stuff..I feel bad because hes such a good/nice kid and you usually dont find someone like that to often. I dont know if i should tell him or not any suggestions?

2007-05-06 23:38:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

As part of my work on male gender & sexuality with straight men, when I brought up the issue of man's sexual need for men with young unmarried men, who had not yet 'established' their manhood (since they'd not reproduced as yet)............ they were extremely open to the idea & say they all have such feelings. They refused to label men who had sex with men as 'homosexual' even if it was exclusive (since homosexual in my society means a non-man, a transgendered, a ****** (i.e. one who takes in anally/ orally). Of course they also make advances towards me............. that's the done thing.

But when I raised the issue with married men, some of them (though they're a minority, others just remain silent) would say all kinds of derogatory things about male-male sexual need........ even call them 'homosexuals' ( a great term of abuse in our society) but still make advances towards you.

Of course the advances are made in a disguised/ indirect manner.

What's the deal here?

Can u explain?

2007-05-06 23:32:53 · 1 answers · asked by Dost 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my partner are engaged and found out i am pregnant a month ago. Before finding out that, we used to go out alot! and drink a lot, but we used to be affectionate!
But when ever we got physical it was after we had a drink!
Since finding out i was pg we havent been out and i havent even had one drink and im fine about that, but we havent been physical once and i know its more me, than him why do i feel like this?
sensible answers only please!

2007-05-06 23:29:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

were 14, nd had oral but he keeps pushing for more..
then he will suddenly start fighting..
i dunno if i shuld have sex with him or is it to early and to far?
plz advise me

2007-05-06 23:26:13 · 13 answers · asked by frizzhopalong 1 in Singles & Dating

1) Boys
2) Girls

2007-05-06 23:25:36 · 23 answers · asked by Shibin V 1 in Friends

i found out that somebody i thought was so cool, and i always was on her side because i adored her, think im weird. yup, straight out. i was so hurt, becasuse i was so loyal to her, always defending her and everything. now, i can understand if she thinks im annoying, which is still hateful, but weird? how mean can she get? and i cant ask her why she would say this, because the person that told me so is a best friend of her's, and the ONLY person she told about what she thinks about me. so if i mention anything, she'll know it's her friend, and she'll get mad. what do i do?

2007-05-06 23:20:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I used to be so positive now it seems an effort to get up in the morning. After all, in 100 years no-one will remember anything we have done.

2007-05-06 23:16:43 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have recently met a guy and we started dating. There is a part of me that really likes him, another part of me that thinks he is really ugly and looks like a loser. I am ashamed of myself for being so shallow, but I think I would be embarassed to introduce him to my friends and let alone my family. I know that looks fades, and I am pretty but no model. So why am I so concerned???!!!!

2007-05-06 23:16:11 · 15 answers · asked by Jodie 2 in Singles & Dating

i was due to got to a friends wedding on saturday but took ill on the friday nite and got progresively worse during the nite and was really unwell by that mornin .I decided not to got to the wedding as i would rather not be there than ruin it by being sick during the ceremony (its not like u can just get up in the middle and got to the toilet) I didnt want to bother the bride so tried phoning a few friends who where going but as all where busy gettin ready , i decided to leave a voicemail on a friends phone to let her know i was unwell and also left a message at the hotel reception . Its a few days on and everyone is pissed of at me and arent speakin to me , did i do the right thing or not ?

2007-05-06 23:06:32 · 20 answers · asked by miss_ninety_ukuk 2 in Weddings

My father wants us to merry like in the old days, the church and and the church venue, but we live in the 20's now. We went to a place with the most beautiful chapel and venue with the good price. The venue must be book this week or we lose the place. Every time my father talks about the wedding and saying we must be wed in the church or there will be no wedding and then it's war between my father and my financee. He saying that he is paying for everything but that is not true we tried to tell him that everyone is helping us but he won't listen. My financee said he is not going to hold his mouth and he is going to tell my father excactly what he thinks of his attitude and if that happens I can not describe what will happen then, me and my mom are trying to keep the peace but I don't know for how long we can do that. The wedding is next year but the way he is going you can say he thinks it's tommorow. I love both of them very munch, but what happens if I must choose.

2007-05-06 23:03:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

when he shows no interest in you and if he is Interested he doesn't step forward .What should one do ?

2007-05-06 23:02:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies, do you think that there are dating rules that a guy should follow when he tries to ask out a girl? for example, the right time for calling a girl after he got her number, or the right topic to talk about the first time calling, or where to go on a first date and so forth. what do you think?

2007-05-06 23:02:05 · 11 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Singles & Dating

What things should you try and do before you get married. Or perhaps for those of you who are already married what things do you wish you had done before you got married? Someone once told me live in a 1 bedroom apartment/house for a year to get to know yourself better. I think this is for sure one of them...

2007-05-06 23:01:23 · 27 answers · asked by shanghai_sami 2 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this guy i was withhim about 3 months ago for 4 months! we both broke it off and i stopped contacting him, but he kept sending me emails so i decided to talk to him again. should i give it another go if he wants to??

2007-05-06 22:43:35 · 12 answers · asked by x..sarah..x 2 in Singles & Dating

should this be revealed? If its so unusual the other person might not think its sexy, just plain strange or never even known people like that kind of thing, how do you explain it without them getting put off you? Should they accept it as a funny little thing that you like or would they be justified to run out the door? Just wondering cos I got this friend who knows someone who..well actually it might be me LOL By the way its nothing way out its just unusual its getting the guy to make stuff up like stories but they wouldnt see the content as exciting??

2007-05-06 22:42:52 · 4 answers · asked by Marilyn's Sister 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-06 22:40:04 · 33 answers · asked by sweet_sunshine 2 in Singles & Dating

or i should wait and watch whether he dares to tell me the name

2007-05-06 22:38:17 · 7 answers · asked by rupal k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-06 22:36:51 · 36 answers · asked by bren 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I just dated this guy for a month. But we have known each other a year plus before we started off. We just have sex, is it too fast?

2007-05-06 22:33:39 · 22 answers · asked by AK 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf and i have been together for 2.5 years now.

anytime he touches me (except for when we are in public) and i mean anytime (giving me a hug,holding me from behind,snuggling w/me on the couch,holding me in bed) he gets turned on. sometimes it happens with him just brushing my hand!!

does this mean we are just really emotionally connected and that he really loves me or is it just b/c he wants sex all the time?

we have been sleeping together since the 3 month mark of our relationship and we sleep together about once a week

2007-05-06 22:31:43 · 17 answers · asked by sadiesmom28 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a homosexual and been living with my gal for the past 3years.we both get along really well.but my parents are not agreeing for this,we've not yet married.my parents are well educated my dad a business tycoon,my mom a neurosurgeon.actually i live out of india,i'm an nonresidentialindian.wen i came last time to india i've seen this gal.she is well educated has a good family background,even we happento be distant relatives.i wanna live with her.she give's me the confidence i'm the best.we've gone to bed for atleast 6 times by now.how can i make my parents accept her.

2007-05-06 22:14:11 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 17 and my bf is 18 and he invited me (really wants me to go) to his uncles wedding. Their is a ceremony and a meal..and i guess they will pay for my fancy meal. We are going with my bf parents and family and i was wondering if i am supposed to bring a present. It is a spanish family in Spain soo if any of you know what they expect and if I will seem cheap if i dont..i mean i only met this uncle and his fiancee once and i am not very close to his parents and immidiate family. What do you think??
- Thanks for your help.

2007-05-06 21:56:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i am just 12 and how can i chase him ? mummy is ill so she cant do anything now. my sis and we r worried. he doesnt behave that good that other fathers behave 2 their family.

2007-05-06 21:52:32 · 10 answers · asked by Neeta 5 in Marriage & Divorce

in the teenage more guys/gals are roaming on roads, enjoying in cinema theaters and dating with the name of "love"( they are saying it is love.. ) Really it is love?

2007-05-06 21:41:31 · 16 answers · asked by srrajaramesh 2 in Friends

here it goes I have been with a man off and on for about 15/6 years or so well our relationship had been rocky and it got rougher over the years. I can accept resposibilty with some of our problems but not all I knew he was a drinker which I'm not and nor do I do drugs then I find out he's a gambler I also knew he fooled around on me yet we have been through many things together. These last 6.7 years has been very bad I became very ill and @ times my pain was so intense i could hardly walk and this ended up to be a big problem. He became my caregiver and then one day I realized all we done was argue he did the best he could yet .... for many many years i was the bread winner.I had enough one night when he just had to go meet his son whom in all the yrs never came to see us .. ok here goes i few nights ago I called a wrong number and this man started laffing and stuff little did i know he had been searching for me almost 20 years what should I do I still care about my longtime mate help

2007-05-06 21:32:46 · 1 answers · asked by northernlady54 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin & me are married to two cousin sisters. We are of same age & are good friends. We live in different towns & meet occasionally on family functions & events. Whenever we meet we enjoy together with sharing adult jokes, cuddling, permissible touches etc. I find tremendous difference in my wife after such events. My cousin also has the same opinion. In last 10 years we have came very close to each other that once we saw xxx movie together sitting on same bed. Now we are going on vacations together for the first time leaving kids to grandparents & all are excited I am not sure what will happen..? Should we go for it..or??

2007-05-06 20:59:54 · 7 answers · asked by Rockey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for a really short time. We have had lots of problems in our relationship but none to big they couldnt be fixed. Everything was going ok that morning, he got mad just because I couldnt answer a question right off, I was in pain from a dental procedure so he called me a slut, and kicked me out and said I wasnt welcome back. I have NOT cheated on him and no desire to. I married him understanding a problem of him not being able to have sex and him being 18 yrs older. I didnt care, I love him a lot and I didnt care about any problems in that area he had. I didnt base my relationship on that. I miss him and love him, but I dont understand what is going on, he has changed a lot since our marriage and has been acting funny lately. He said he loved me more then I would ever know and he said the night before he needed and wanted me. What happened to make him be so quick to kick me out just because I couldnt answer him? I am so lost and hurt, what should I do?

2007-05-06 20:59:10 · 19 answers · asked by Boo47 1 in Marriage & Divorce