Family & Relationships - 6 May 2007

There is this guy named Adam that I met 10 months ago while camping with my family.
(He came with my cousins)

We started dating 7 months later.

I really like him a lot, and he is really into God, and so am I, but he lives all the way in Pennsylvannia, while I am in New Jersey.

I recently joined my schools marching band, taking the position as a Color Guard member.

After going to a few practices, I met this guy named Mike.

Mike is really nice and funny, and well....kinda cute..

I guess I like him, but I am trying not to cause of my boyfriend. It sounds awful but I don't know how else to put it.

Mike is here in New Jersey and Adam is in Pennsylvannia, and it is so hard not to be tempted by Mike.

What should I do?

2007-05-06 09:59:58 · 20 answers · asked by Diane N 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-06 09:59:55 · 33 answers · asked by TJ 2 in Singles & Dating

I know this sounds awful, but after a year of deployment it is hard to find new things to talk about when it calls , its just good to hear his voice. for the both of us its just the same old stuff happening day after day, was wondering what i can say when there is silence.

2007-05-06 09:59:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'M VERY STRESSED AND I THINK TICKLE TORTURE WILL MAKE ME FEEL BETTER. IF U R VERY SADISTIC WITH TICKLE TORTURE, PERFECT! IF U LIVE IN BROOKLYN, NEW YORK EVEN BETTER. I NEED TO BE TICKLE TORTURED! I HEARD IT'S FUN BUT IT CAN BE PURE TORTURE! IF U REALLY WANNA TICKLE TORTURE ME, ANSWER WITH HOW U WOULD DO IT AND FOR HOW LONG U WILL DO IT FOR. I HEARD THE MOST POPULAR WAY IS BEING TIED SPREAD-EAGLE AND TICKLE FOR HOURS (LOL)! LET ME SEE UR IDEAS I BET I COULD PASS THE TEST :P! (IF I DON'T PASS UR LITTLE "TICKLE TORTURE" TEST, U KNOW WHAT TO DO)!

2007-05-06 09:59:33 · 3 answers · asked by faileider_lucky7 2 in Friends

hes my first love an everything else an lately we've been fighting horribly .i think we might break up. but in your expierence if you had a chance would you go back out with your first if you could? an why. tell me your story.

2007-05-06 09:58:19 · 4 answers · asked by mexica mami 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-06 09:53:13 · 25 answers · asked by Nadia Miller 2 in Singles & Dating

I've lived in the same general area my entire life and want to move away to a beach town so bad! I've planned on going to the local community college for Psychology, but now I'm thinking I might want to move to Florida or the Carolinas for college. The only problem is, I'm a little intimidated about moving away from home so soon. I think it's something I could get over, but I'd just feel better hearing your advice too.

Did you move away for college?

If you did, did you have a great time and feel comfortable being away from home so young?
If you didn't, do you regret not moving away or going (in general)?

I really appreciate the advice, tell me everything! Thanks!

2007-05-06 09:51:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am still sad about the sitaution i am in. i really like this boy richie but my best friend has him and i really want him. yes i understand that he is probably not interested in me but still i told her that i like him but she still went out with him. what is your opionion dont ou think that is messed up aint best freinds supposed to be nice and not do things to each toher like that. i really like him like from the united states to china lolsz wat should i do can u plase help me i really miss this boy and i am going to be even more sad when i see them kiss. i am kind of scared to tell her how i feel because then she gets mad.i just want to tell her how i feel. and also if i tell her how i feel then she will say oh then i am going to call him and say its over and i dont want her to break up with him becaus ei want her to be happy but i really like him and i just get sad and depprersed sometimes please help!!!!!

2007-05-06 09:47:21 · 7 answers · asked by DESIREE N 1 in Friends

what are some signs that are considered flirting???

2007-05-06 09:46:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im seeing this guy and i have strong feelings 4 and i actually geel so comfortable wit and i can actually b myself but the thing is we have 5 yearz age differences. Do u think its gonna work or am i wastein my time?

2007-05-06 09:43:12 · 7 answers · asked by BeAuTiFuL 1 in Singles & Dating

i m 55 years oldman, i wants to live a lady who wants real love. i will give her love seriously.

2007-05-06 09:22:34 · 2 answers · asked by surjeet_paul 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know what to do. I'm 33, in a two year relationship and engaged, but have been having second thoughts. I love him and think he is great, but I'm also not sure he is the one. I get this feeling that I'd be settling with him, even though when I think about it rationally, he is a great guy. What is going on? Fears or instinct telling me this is not right? Also, when I imagine our future together, I can't help but get happy and teary thinking about how we'd get married, have kids and etc. But, those moments are replaced but doubts about if he's going to be enough, good looking enough, smart enough, fun enough etc. He is sucessful, responsible, easygoing, loving, puts me first in everything, supportive, we have great time together, BUT I get anxiety constantly. My parents also think (not so much say) that he is not good enough...

2007-05-06 09:22:21 · 11 answers · asked by GG 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-06 09:22:14 · 40 answers · asked by GaNdA T. R Viii 2 in Singles & Dating

How would you explain love? Have you ever been in love? Can you explain what conflicts you went though? Were they perfect or can someone that pisses you off beyond believe but still make you really happy be your love? Should RACE, AGE, GENDER, or ETHNICITY/RACE be of concern? What if you family makes a big deal of it? What did/would you do? Please, give as much detail on how you think you should answer this! (None of these really pertain to me I just want to know your opinions on love.)

2007-05-06 09:14:51 · 10 answers · asked by hi 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it always the cheaters fault?
and
Why isn't it looked at as bad when the woman cheats out of unfullfilment

2007-05-06 09:13:52 · 8 answers · asked by Angry EX-DEM 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Do guys bring random chicks around their family and children?
I have been dating this guy for sometime not very long. Last night as you all know the fight was on, and he invited me to come and watch it with him and his famliy. The crazy thing is I met his daughter for the first time. She is in 4th grade, i wanted to know does this mean anything that im chilling with the family and meeting the daughter. I have met his family before not all of them but a good portion. We are not in a relationship just dating at this point. My question is do you think his easing me into his life slowly, does he want to maybe get into a relationship with me ? And do men bring random chicks their dating around their children what do you guys think i need help.......

2007-05-06 09:01:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Friday was my b-day,I went out to dinner w/family and then spent the night w/my boyfriend,he needed money,I loaned it to him and he was suppose to pay me back last night and never did,says he will Monday,now I am short for on my one of my bills..This is not the first time.Please do not call me stupid when you answer this.

2007-05-06 09:00:33 · 23 answers · asked by shy_smileyfun 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-06 09:00:18 · 14 answers · asked by brian w 4 in Marriage & Divorce

which = feelings.....she doesnt like expressing her feelings at all? i wonder why this is? we have been dating for 7 months, have had sex for the 1st time a few months back and everything is going great. so why doesnt she be more expressive with her words. she hugs, kisses, touches, and all that great stuff...she claims that i am amazing and all that and we even have a pet name for each other, but she doesnt speak what she feels. how do i change this, or do i change this, or does she have to come out of her own shell on her own accord?

2007-05-06 08:59:21 · 11 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Singles & Dating

2 weeks ago this girl would stare at me and smile and look away when I looked back. It was her idea that we go to see spiderman 3. So we went, on the way there she wanted to wear my jacket and kept hugging me because she thought I was in a bad mood. On the way there I asked why she would stare at me and she said cause I was the hottest guy in the class. So at the movies she would play with my hair, poke my cheeks, blow gum into my face and tell me to pop it. She would also stare at me and we would look and stare into each others eyes for long time, this happened atleast 50 times.

Problem is she has a BF and she told him she was at volleyball. Well he found out and got mad that she lied to him. She then told him we were just best friends and its not like that other time.

I understand most of you are going to tell me to stay far from her, I understand that I just want to know what she is up to.

2007-05-06 08:52:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to go to college in nyc and live there. i want to major in theatre, they think im too smart to do that. i am smart, but i want to act. they say theyll disown me if i go into theatre, i don't want that to happen. they also want me to stay in alabama, because they think ill get murdered or something in nyc. they also think all actors are really terrible, immoral people. i want my parents to be happy with me, but i also want to be happy with myself. what should i do?

2007-05-06 08:51:33 · 2 answers · asked by filmnoirgirl16 3 in Family

I have a very stressful job. I love and respect my wife so I would never do the crap with her that I do with a ho. I treat my wife like a queen, I would lose all respect for her if she allowed me to do the dirty raunchy crap I do with ho's to her. That's why God made ho's and that's why you don't marry ho's or strippers.
Do other guys feel the same way?

2007-05-06 08:51:24 · 25 answers · asked by bettercockster1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

MY boyfriend 33 said to me to be playful and I hope seroius :-) Getting married soon right? I want to come up with a response that I will text to him so its got to be short and playful. Any cute ideas? I might want to mention about the ring or something just playful. Best answer wins 10 points

2007-05-06 08:48:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine has asked me to be a bridesmaid for her. I have already een married myself for 2 years and was just wondering if you keep the title of bridesmaid if you are already married. I thought you were called a matron of honor but this only goes if you are chief bridesmaid as such. As I will just be one of the other bridesmaids can somebody please tell me the correct title? Thanks for the help!!!

2007-05-06 08:47:41 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I always knew and it's always been clear in our house that our dad spanks our mom just like he spanks us whenever she disobeys him but he usually does it in private so we've only just heard it. But the other night we BOTH got spanked in front of each other. Here's the story, I went out to a party, which I wasn't suppose to go to, and let's just say I drank a little, HUGE NO NO! So I was suppose to be home at 12 but didn't have a ride home so I had to call mom to come pick me up. Well she could tell I had been drinking and i told her not to tell dad cause I didn't want to be spanked tonight. Well when we got home there was dad, he asked what was wrong mom said nothing, I was just sick. So dad went over to me and smelled the alcohol. So then him and mom got in an argument when mom cursed him out, which I've never heard her do before. So he was pissed! He told me Id be spanked first and told mom to stand and wait. He grabbed me lifted up my skirt and spanked the daylights out of me. Then told me to wait right there. He wanted me to watch mom's punishment too cause he said that since mom lied and acted like a child then she should be spanked no different then me. Mom was shocked! She kept asking him to take her in the other room and do it, it's too embarassing, but dad said too bad.(I laughed a little after he said that, cause now she knows how I feel) So mom went over his knee, dad pulled up her skirt and spanked her for what seemed like forever! I told mom later that I was sorry I got her in trouble but she said it was her fault and she was the parent and she deserved it. ANYWAY, anyone else seen their mom spanked?

2007-05-06 08:47:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

do they truly care about their girlfriends... how much would they do for them??

What are their honest views on girls?


I really dont get men at all...

2007-05-06 08:44:37 · 2 answers · asked by catherine_5543 1 in Singles & Dating

For starters, I'm 13. I've noticed that i can talk to guys more easily than girls about things. I don't know, I guess its just easier because I trust them that they won't go off and tell everybody in my school what I just told them. But basically, I like to hang out with guys more than girls, like on weekends and stuff.
But sometimes, my friends (girls) get mad at me and start saying that I'm a whore and stuff like that...then some of the girls tell the guys that I am a whore, which kind've causes problems whenever i have a boyfriend. For example, I got dumped the other day because my boyfriend "got tired of hearing about how much of a whore I was" and just didn't think he could trust me anymore. I DONT purposely flirt, i swear. most of the time i dont even think i am, but girls look at it differently. I don't even know if they realize it, but sometimes it really hurts knowing that some of the same people that you call your friends, go behind your back and call you a whore.

2007-05-06 08:42:34 · 77 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

recently ive noticed that i tell little white lies a lot- mostly too my friends and i really dont like to lie to them but its always just something that would either hurt their feeling or they are being nosy and if I told the truth it would be embarassing so i just make up a little story-but the I feel really bad but its just so much simpler than trying to explain it to them!

like when my friend asked me if my other friend hadnt had a bday party or if she had and just hadnt been invited...akward cause my friend had had a party and not invited her but i wasnt about to hurt her feelings so i just said that she had done some family party-bad? is it worth hurting someones feelings or being embarrased about something stupid that no one really cares about just to tell the truth???

2007-05-06 08:39:44 · 2 answers · asked by Emily 1 in Friends

what should i do?
keep sneaking? cause that gets me in SOOO MUCH trouble...i've been on house arrest for 5 months now and summers coming and i'm going to be soo bored.
i can't talk to him cause he won't talk about it OR give in. i'm afraid of him too...plz help. cause my ex who we've been on and off for 2 years, we are really in love (honestly) and wanna get back together. i love him soo much and i can't ignore it. what should i do?

2007-05-06 08:38:24 · 23 answers · asked by keeyla 2 in Family

I've been trying to attend a church here in my area, but I've had a hard time finding one. So, one of the girls at work invited me to her church 3 weeks ago but I never attended, due to the fact that I had trouble with the driving directions. My Girlfriend, doesn't want for me to attend church with that girl, because she doesn't like and trust the her. Especially because I've cheated on her in the past. She tells me to find a different church. Well Today after I left my girlfriend at work this morning I met with the girl outside of work and we took off in our separate cars to church. After church we both headed in our own seperate ways. Know if me girlfriend finds out about me meeting someone else behind her back, all hell will break loose. Eventhough Nothing bad happened. Did I do the right or wrong thing?

2007-05-06 08:35:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce