If I use prostitutes for sex is that considered cheating?

Question

I have a very stressful job. I love and respect my wife so I would never do the crap with her that I do with a ho. I treat my wife like a queen, I would lose all respect for her if she allowed me to do the dirty raunchy crap I do with ho's to her. That's why God made ho's and that's why you don't marry ho's or strippers.
Do other guys feel the same way?

Coastin1, I appreciate the advice from a real man who is open an honest enough to answer the question and not judge me for doing with 90% of men do or would do if they had the balls enough to do it.

There's no one getting any damn diseases here you live in the pretend world losers. These women demand that protection be used and they are professionals at what they do. You probably have more of a chance of catching something at these silly clubs than leasing a ho for an hour.

Dadgonewild, have you seen your avatar lately? Dude if you could afford a ho, she would give you a refund. You look like a black Jabba the Hut , How dare the likes of you pass judgment on me.

Answer 1

Finally, a guy who's got it figured out. No, it's not cheating, it's just physical stuff, besides, it probably makes you a better husband, it relieves stress and lets you be able to relax.

Men fight this urge to sleep around, all men fight it. Why?? If you have that urge, mother nature gave it to you, it's really not your fault.

Good for you man, go with your own flow.

Answer 2

Yes, it is definitely cheating.

You can't come on here and ask a question like that and not expect to be judged by everyone who answers. Prostitutes generally do not choose to do that, there is some reason why, drugs, no family, or something that they felt they had to have the money for. Then, they can't get out of it.

God did not make ho's. Apparently you don't read the bible or you would know this. Real men are open and honest with their wives. They don't go behind their wives backs and have sex with other women. No matter the reason.

You say that you would loose respect for your wife if she let you do that stuff to her. I'm sure she wouldn't have any respect for you if she knew how you were degrading other women. If your job is stressful, get a new one.

If you don't want to be judged, don't ask such controversial questions.

Answer 3

What kind of Bull___ is that!! You can still treat your wife like a queen, most men say they want a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets, You should be willing to explore some of that freaky side with your wife afterall she is supposed to be your everything including your ho, and you're supposed to be hers. How do you know your wife isn't out exploring her freaky side with some young guy because you're just plain boring to her, the person that she should be able to fulfill her fantasies with. Also, the sad part is it's so many diseases out here, and your wife is probably a good woman and she probably treats you like a king, and you still aren't satisfied. She would probably be so devastated if she found out about this....

Answer 4

one hundred% sure. Think approximately it this fashion in case you slept with a prostitute or a stripper, could it's dishonest? Of path it's lol. You do not even have to ask, you have to pass manage a few trade. I suppose she is a fortunate lady to have you ever who's truthfully asking this question lol. Cause if it was once me it could had been performed with. Early within the dating with my lady buddy i informed her this, i stated i will be able to love her, be there for her, by no means cheat, and a couple of different matters. But i informed her that if she ever cheats, she greater desire i do not discover out motive i do not care how a lot harm i am getting from it, it could be over.

Answer 5

You are obviously a driven, intelligent, type "A" personality so it surprises me that you are asking a question like this to other people unless you are just looking for validation?

It's likely no matter what anyone says here you're going to continue and feel ok about what you are doing. I have a friend who is similar and I know when he asks me a question like that he doesn't really care about my opinion anyways!

So, if he asked me this question I wouldn't tell him that yes, it's cheating and no, it's wrong.

You're the man, big guy. Go to the ho's and keep the kisses for the missus.

Answer 6

Grow up kid!

This is America and today's prostitutes are married women with children. Strippers are as common as waitresses. So while you feel you can disrespect them because of their choice of how they make a living, keep in mind that your grandmother were treated this way just because she was a woman.

The cause for your survival may be left up to a "man", but they reason for your existence was because of a woman.

p.s. Your can't respect your wife until you learn to respect "The Mother."

Answer 7

You are a big time cheater if she doesn't know that you are doing this. That's messed up, but I guess you don't take your marriage seriously. Do you even now what the words that you repeated when you got married mean? You do not treat your wife like a queen, if you consider giving her STD's a good thing then keep on doing what you do. That is just not right.

Answer 8

You need therapy.

If you are married and you pay prostitutes for sex, you know that it is cheating. You also know that you are risking not only hurting your wife if she finds out about this, but also risking your health- and hers.
I think it is very immature and irresponsible of you to do this in the first place. But asking about it in Yahoo Answers is downright stupid.
Get your act together and be a grown up man!

Answer 9

what concerns me with this question is the way you regard women...hos..as u put it can be treated differently....ummmmm what cant u do in bed with ur wife that u can with a ho....besides slap her about.....everything in sex is not dirty..even dirty talk is normal in a marriage.. it spices things up...anal...thats concensual...but a lot of hos dont do anal...a lot of hos wont let u touch them or kiss them...so i guess ur question is if u dont love them is it cheating...no emotionally it is not...however its abusing women that work in the sex industry if u do hit them and whatever u think u cant do with ur wife sexually besides with a ho...ur sadly mistaken..some men view dirty sex talk as dirty and not worthy of a wife..but it goes deeper...ur not sharing ur real u with ur wife are u..so ur the one thats losing out...ps..if ur wife dont like the same sort of sex u do...and gets upset about it..what do u exactly have in common...stop punishing urself be who u are try sharing it...if it dont please... leave..u can only be u...to thy own self be true. PS Hos are people to!

Answer 10

First at all why you are involving GOD on this. don't blame him 'cause you don't know how to deal with you life. just think that somebody else can do to your wife what you are doing ( remember never do to others what you don't want them to do to you.) I am feel really sorry you just talk to your wife and enjoy yourselves why you had to look out side and pay for unsafe sex went you can have it clean an safe in your house. communication is the Key.

Answer 11

LOL. that is cheating and i am quite sure you knew you were in for this when you ask the question. Now if she knew about this and didn't care you were doing this then it would not be cheating . All i can say is if I had a job that stressful I would be looking for a different job.