Family & Relationships - 6 May 2007

its a gross feeling huh

2007-05-06 17:52:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Was it love at first sight for you and your spouse? For me it wasn't love at first sight, but a gut feeling that there was something special about the guy, something extremely important. How about you?

2007-05-06 17:46:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

but the women will deny that and actually say it's what they like?

2007-05-06 17:42:14 · 61 answers · asked by waddle02 2 in Singles & Dating

I just turned 19 years old and she's 16. I know shes attracted to me. I know it would be illegal to be sexually involved, but even if I am willing to wait for her to turn 18, is is still wrong to date her right now? This is killing me so please respond promptly.
Thanks

2007-05-06 17:41:33 · 26 answers · asked by briefhistoryoftime 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my ex were going out for a LONG time and he broke up with me 2 days ago cuz his dad was gunna call the cops on us because he cant be with me cuz its illegal (hes over age) but yeah he said he wants to ask me back out in 6 months because he will be out of the house and his dad wont know and i dont know if i should wait 6 months to be with him or if i should just move on soo please help me..

2007-05-06 17:35:07 · 20 answers · asked by Alisonnnnn 3 in Singles & Dating

Are the Sandals Resorts for married couples only? My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while and want to take a vacation. I'm all for the all inclusive resorts and I would prefer a place where there are no children. I like kids, don't get me wrong. But, resorts that are family friendly, tend to pay more attention to kids/families then childless adults.

I don't want to book a trip there to find out it's all married couples? A bit awkard and difficult to explain to people who ask.

What are people's experiences at Sandals? Which one did you stay at? Was in all inclusive? If it was and you don't mind me asking, how much did it cost? What kind of room did you stay in?

2007-05-06 17:30:46 · 13 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Weddings

I had a friends with benefits relationshiop came to an end abotu six months ago with this guy.He broke it off with me, by ext message and told me that if i contacted him again he would file a restraning order against me AND tell some associates of mine of our relationship, including his best friend(which was my friend), the next day hsi best friend calls me and invtes me to an event he happens to be hosting I decline the offer because I thoughts it was pretty weird that she would just call me up after not hearing from her in six months.But now, when I see him on campus, he speaks and says hello, and even told me to call him, and smiles at me like everything is all okay, but with her it's a different story. she doesn't speak at all, I even tried calling her and I got no response. I even heard that they are not friends anymore. So my question is why the adverse response.Do you think he went back and told her something and if so why is he cool about the situation and she's not.And what s

2007-05-06 17:24:29 · 9 answers · asked by Beautiful inside and out. 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in MI and im getting married I can only go for 1 week so we dont want to go to italy cuz its way to long of a plane ride. any ideas whats nice but not to far?

2007-05-06 17:17:43 · 18 answers · asked by Jules 2 in Weddings

My wedding is next week and so is mothers day. I did not do this on purpose! For the last 2 months my mum has been obsessed with mothers day. My partner and I lost our jobs a month ago and didn't recieve $2311 worth of wages owed. We have been struggling to pay the rest of the wedding. My mum has payed for the reception and had no more cash to give (not that I would ask). The wedding is on a tuesday and we are going up on the monday. I'm having to sell my gold necklace to pay for the accomodation for the monday. Mum is calling me selfish that I am not coming on the sunday (the day they arrive) to spend mothers day with her. She is making all kinds of requests(some would say demands) of what she wants from me even though she knows we are really battling.. I've tried asking her to give me a break this year but she just gets angry and has a go at me about how much she's done for me over the years and she's paying for some of the wedding... What on earth can I do?

2007-05-06 17:10:43 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Weddings

I have a friend who asked the question "how long" should u date a guy before you ask him what direction the relationship is headed. She has gotten answers from, just ask him what harm could it do, to it's to early you have only gone a few dates, to u are going to scare him off. My question is, if people are saying wait until you know him, u have people who have been married for 10 years who say "I never really knew him/her once it was over. I am a believer that sometimes you will only know the person they want you to know.

An abuser is normally not an abuser until you have time vested into a committed relationship. That's not something you see in the first couple of months. So I am going to ask, if a guy keeps dating you obviously he is interested or he would not waste his time so after 2 months of dating is it really so wrong or to fast to ask where is the relationship headed so two people won't be wasting their time or do you date for 6 months & in this day & age who does that.

2007-05-06 17:09:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has left me about three times and now he is with another woman. I live in a no fault state, so I have heard that there is nothing I can do about getting a divorce on the grounds that he commited adultery. Is this true or is there something that I can really do? We also have four minor children involved and believe me, if I could afford a divorce it would have been done a long time ago. Please help me!!!

2007-05-06 17:05:25 · 15 answers · asked by sweetheart 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i need a guy who is sweet and doesnt always think about sex but looks hot and is living in oregon how do i find him?

2007-05-06 17:05:05 · 5 answers · asked by Harley C 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-06 17:01:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I live in Canada and my boyfriend is an immigrant from Cameroon. His papers are soon to expire, and he feels the only way to keep him in the country is for us to get married. He's 27 and I'm 21. He hates me because I won't marry. And I feel horrible that I'm about to lose him. I feel like I am in a lose-lose situation. Any help would be greatly appreciated!

2007-05-06 17:00:09 · 8 answers · asked by black_vs_pink 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I were arguing and he sprayed me with a water hose, and said I needed to "cool off". I mean, that is something you would do to a dog! I was so humiliated! His son told me that he (my fiance) had done stuff like this to his ex wife. (namely pouring a pitcher of Kool Aid on her head. Is that demeaning or what?

2007-05-06 16:50:19 · 21 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-06 16:49:09 · 5 answers · asked by Athena 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-06 16:47:34 · 18 answers · asked by NB64 1 in Singles & Dating

some say Im not but I know that I am so should I confront them or just ignore the little snots?

2007-05-06 16:47:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have been married for 6 years. He lied about his addiction for the first 2 years. I have begged him to get help but he will not...claims it is a choice and he likes to gamble. He will spend his whole months wages in only 2-3 days then expects me to cover his payments. The last 3 months I refused to make his payments and told him the next time he gambled I would leave him. Two weeks later as soon as he got paid he spent his whole cheque again. I asked him to leave the house as I was not leaving the house I have paid for. Am I wrong for doing this??

2007-05-06 16:39:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was just wondering if people think 19 is too young to be a mom..even if you have financial stability and are mature enough?

2007-05-06 16:34:35 · 23 answers · asked by Lil Miss 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it looks? personality? Whatever it may be, please answer honestly and, if possible, include a reason why you find that trait most attractive.

2007-05-06 16:34:25 · 15 answers · asked by iluvmurphie 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-06 16:33:02 · 20 answers · asked by rosey 7 in Singles & Dating

I love her, I tell her on her myspace profile, and she writes me back, I love you too. She writes to other guys, "I like you, kisses." I was thinking about writing the same thing to girls, will that make her jealous, or what will?

I just want to give her a taste of her own medicine.

2007-05-06 16:32:17 · 26 answers · asked by Jacob S 1 in Singles & Dating

I did everything I could while raising my 3 children. Now that they are adults, they only call me when they have a concern or problem. I call my youngest son on his cell phone, but rarely does he return my calls. Yet, when he is having problems, I can listen for however long it takes to help him. I'm hurt by this and wonder what I can do to remedy the problem. My husband says to use tough love, however, he is their stepfather and they sometimes feel he is behind things. So, I'm caught in the middle...what advice would you give me so that I no longer am hurt by my kids lack of concern?

2007-05-06 16:26:56 · 8 answers · asked by lsah1852 3 in Family

I ve met this guy in church. I tried to let him know that I like him by slipping him a note with my phone number. The next day he acts all friendly and sweet by initiating conversation and hugging me kindly. I am still upset that he has not called. Why do i still catch him looking at me during the service and even smiling at me. I am confused. I am so upset I even avoid looking at him in church, like he does not exist. Should I do something about that situation? because I am still interested in him?

2007-05-06 16:24:26 · 13 answers · asked by lovelyeyes 1 in Singles & Dating

Please do not judge me just advise ,With this said I will tell you of my issue ,Thank you.I have been with my now husband for going on 8 years. Well last year we were having problems now I look back nothing major things if we would have just talked.I was a stay at home mother of then 5 kids and finacially and bored I got me a job.Someone I worked with I found attractive and later found out he thought the same of me.I dont know if it was attention from someone else that triggered it but I ended up cheating and this went on for about 6 months and I told my husband about it I seen how much I knew he did love me because he wanted to work it out so I quit my job and knew I had to do right by my family, A couple weeks later found out I was pregnant by who I do not know.The other guy knew I was pregnant and I had hurt him so much we ended up leaving each other alone on bad terms The baby is now born and I feel guilty that I do not know who the father is.My husband said leave the other guy out

2007-05-06 16:24:26 · 15 answers · asked by CONFUSED 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother lives about 1 hour from my daughter. She is 15 and her dad has sole physical and legal custody of her. Her Dad moved due to job reasons and her grandmother is helping to take care of her.

My daughter's birthday was yesterday. My brother and his family called to wish her a happy birthday and she spoke with them for about 2 hours.

Now my brother called my mom and told her what they discussed during the phone conversation. I know that if I ask my brother anything he will say that its between the two of you. My brother does not want to get involved in my business, but yet he tells my mom what my daughter said.

My daughter is upset with me because I went to stay with her and left in the middle of the day without letting her know. I live in another state. I know I was wrong and tell myself each day how much I hate myself and should be punished.

I don't know how to handle my brother though. He does not want to tell me anything. He pushes me away also.

2007-05-06 16:22:26 · 2 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

My husband's family beliefs in one religion, and has been actively participating in events. I'm a free thinker when I married him. My parents beliefs in another religion. Now I start to get annoyed because he thinks i should follow his belief and his parents will not be happy if I join my parents in thier religion. I don't really like his religion but I don't object his activities but if I decided to join my parent's belief, he will not like it. What should I do?

2007-05-06 16:20:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-06 16:19:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-06 16:17:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships