What should i do...?

Question

me and my ex were going out for a LONG time and he broke up with me 2 days ago cuz his dad was gunna call the cops on us because he cant be with me cuz its illegal (hes over age) but yeah he said he wants to ask me back out in 6 months because he will be out of the house and his dad wont know and i dont know if i should wait 6 months to be with him or if i should just move on soo please help me..

Answer 1

creepy

Answer 2

How old are u by the way?If you are above the legal age,then there shouldnt be a prob.Whats worse is if you're indeed above the legal age and you're facing this prob,it goes to show that ur bf is juz playing a fool and he aint serious abt u then.Since you were going out with each other for a long time,y muz it only be now that he's "trying to protect ur relationship"?
If let say,whatever u mention is the way it is,would you wana be in constant fear when u go out together?Hiding from his family?Not being able to be affectionate openly?How long do u guys have to hide?
Find something else to occupy your time.Perhaps,plan a garage sale(you could meet new guys),hang out with your girlfrens,plan a charity dinner at home for friends and family.Do something more productive than to sit around and wonder of what could have been with ur bf.Howver,dun jum into an another relationship just yet.Take time to heal and see what happens at the end of the 6 months.But don't pin ur hopes entirely on him.
Take a time off from werk or dis problem.Go pamper urself with manicures or pedicures or a long hot bath.Rejuvenate.Ask yourself what happen to all the plans you had for your own life before you met this guy.Priortize and stick to it.Its so much easier than to dwell on it.Be happy;>

Answer 3

You should try to understand why your ex's Dad is so afraid of you two being together that he would call the cops. What is the danger? Is there a way you two can still be friends without that danger? Probably your ex's Dad loves him and wants what is best for him or what the Dad believes is best for him. You need to consider the Dad's viewpoint and find a solution that will be safe for everyone's interests. Maybe the Dad is afraid that you will get pregnant before your boyfriend is ready to support a family, or that he will be less likely to attend college or meet some other goal if your relationship continues. It would be great if you could also talk this out with your boyfriend and his Dad - all of you working on this together.

Answer 4

MOVE ON> If you are that young you have many more fish to fry. You have a long life ahead of you and you need to go out with lots of guys and find out what you like and don't like about them. An older guy is not what you need. You need your own age or close and you need to date. Make him pursue you, woo you. That is the way to get the right one. Never settle. The first sign of disrespect or control or any other inappropriate behavior and you go on to the next. Remember looks aren't everything. You need a kind, nice and smart guy to take care of you and treat you well all the time. One you can talk to and be a friend to and one that isn't afraid to go to your dad and talk to him. Go slow and get to know him really well. We all show our best side for the first ..hummmm long while most the time. So, giving it time means you get to know the real person and not just what they want you to see. Good luck baby girl. Love coming your way. You will find him, in time and with a lot of luck.

Answer 5

You never said how old you were. This is important, because if there is too much difference in your ages it could be a problem. Another thing you did not mention. How do your parents feel about the relationship? And you did not say how long you were together. How long is a long time to you?

In order for anyone to give you good advice, they need to know more about the situation.

Answer 6

I'd move on! And maybe come back later. Take a look at this from a logical standpoint. You obviously have feelings for this guy, that said, would you really like to see him with a criminal record and/or doing time? That's what could happen if you try to call Dad's bluff. If your relationship was truely meant to be you both will be able to suvive the seperation.

Answer 7

In six month if you are going to be above age than yes wait, but if you are not going to be old enough to be with him, by him moving out it just going to make it worst, what about your folks.They can aways have him lock up.

Answer 8

Maybe you should wait untill you are old enough for him. He can still get in trouble if a cop catches you two out doing something he can get in trouble . What does your parents say? If in 6months you still have feelings for him and there is not objections from parents go for it.

Answer 9

sounds screwed up in some many ways. stop having premarital sex. it's meanlingless. save yourself for someone that will be there with you forever - thick and thin. you won't really have that kind of committment until you are married. dump this guy and start fresh with someone who has a higher moral standard.

Answer 10

You can't put your life on hold for him. He might find someone esle while you are apart and that is just heart breaking. If you find someone I wouldn't turn him down and I wouldn't wait. Do you honestly think he'll wait for you?

Answer 11

These things tend to just end themselves. He may find somebody, you may find somebody and then you'll suttley move on though you won't forget eachother and may even still talk to eachother so I'd keep your options open.