I had a friends with benefits relationshiop came to an end abotu six months ago with this guy.He broke it off with me, by ext message and told me that if i contacted him again he would file a restraning order against me AND tell some associates of mine of our relationship, including his best friend(which was my friend), the next day hsi best friend calls me and invtes me to an event he happens to be hosting I decline the offer because I thoughts it was pretty weird that she would just call me up after not hearing from her in six months.But now, when I see him on campus, he speaks and says hello, and even told me to call him, and smiles at me like everything is all okay, but with her it's a different story. she doesn't speak at all, I even tried calling her and I got no response. I even heard that they are not friends anymore. So my question is why the adverse response.Do you think he went back and told her something and if so why is he cool about the situation and she's not.And what s
2007-05-06 17:24:29 · 9 answers · asked by Beautiful inside and out. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry guys I didn't mean to confuse anyone, but as far as I know she wasn'y involved with her, because i repeatdly asked him if there was anything going on, and he said no, that they were just long time childhood friends, and that was it, I mean I had second thoughts but I trusted him that he would be truthful, so I went ahead and had a intimate relationship, which I sort of feel bad about.
2007-05-06 17:40:35 · update #1
She probably was more than just a best friend or held a repressed love interest for him. Now, that you two are being friendly again, she doesn't like it. Notice, she started calling you after you stopped seeing her friend.
2007-05-06 17:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by Kami 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront him, cut through the games and get a straight answer. At the least he owes you an explination. If he is still playing games and wont give you an explination then go to the girl. If you cant get an answer from either or the girl wont speak then forget about them.
If they are just going to play with you they arnt worth knowing. Dont waste your energy on them!
2007-05-06 17:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I'm lost and confused to! Was this best friend of yours involved with this guy too???? Cause it sounds like she was and maybe did not know about you and him and then found out and is now made at you about it. You should confront her and find out what the problem is.
2007-05-06 17:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like a big pain in the butt, in any case she could be mad because you turned down her offer for the event or she could have a thing for him or you , anyway why don't you walk right up to the girl and say hey what is going on , and maybe you will know what the deal really is, or she could be mad that you didn't tell her first since she thought you guys were friends, anyway good luck
2007-05-06 17:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by rachel m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have the main outstanding concept in asking her yet try some thing fairly much less boring to lady than a marching band or soccer, try only strolling her living house or some thing undemanding like that. If she says no, aw nicely, plently extra lady obtainable :)
2016-10-30 12:56:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He apparently told his friend about your relationship and now she's upset about it.
his calm and collected attitude is the "Haha I got you" deal. He's acting really smug about having ruined your friendship with this girl.
i say you ditch them both and move on to some real friends, this time witH NO BENEFITS.
2007-05-06 17:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by Delita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now Im confused
2007-05-06 17:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by ♠ Author♠ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am very confused about this love triangle situation.
2007-05-06 17:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by bigtalltom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me too
2007-05-06 17:30:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋