Why some men give mixed signals?

Question

I ve met this guy in church. I tried to let him know that I like him by slipping him a note with my phone number. The next day he acts all friendly and sweet by initiating conversation and hugging me kindly. I am still upset that he has not called. Why do i still catch him looking at me during the service and even smiling at me. I am confused. I am so upset I even avoid looking at him in church, like he does not exist. Should I do something about that situation? because I am still interested in him?

Answer 1

There is this sales insurance agent that I love very much and he is a very hot, very attractive, very handsome and very good-looking man. He has to wear suits, shirts and ties every day to work. Sometimes he wears a black suit, white shirt, and black tie.Sometimes he wears gray suits, white shirt, and a red or light blue tie. He sends mixed signals through his body the way he stands and walks. I think that he likes the attention that he gets from other women. He says that he is in a relationship with someone else. He is not married to her but lives with her for about 20 years.

Answer 2

Some men think that pretending not to be over-interested is a way to look more attractive to women.If he has called you once,then he expects that you make the second move and try to get in touch with him.This is the first scenario.
The second is that he in not very interested in you, and after the first date, he decided that he doesn't want to go any further.Everyone likes to be liked,so this may be the explanation of his looking at you in the church.
Try to get in touch one more time and maybe his attitude will change,but if he goes on like that,just stop the whole thing.

Answer 3

its really hard for guys to acculey call a girl that they like its even harder to call a girl that likes them because they dont know what to expect when they call them (not saying you shouldnt of given him your number that was a really good idea) I think you should try talking to him more in person and let the conversation flow there so it may be easier for him when he calls you to have an acuel conversation without

Guy says : "hey whats up"
You say: "nothing much just _______ (whatever your doing)"
GUy says: ooh
YOu say: "so what are you doing"
Guy says: im _______(whatever hes doing)
then finally someone says they have to go.. and then you might add call me later or he might tell you ill call you later, but then never does.

IF you want to aculey have a good conversaiton on the phone with him just talk to him more in person (find out his interests, likes/ dislikes etc.. and have fun)

BEst of wishes kesha

Answer 4

When you are in church try not to avoid him, but rather engage in a friendly conversation, find out if he has someone else, and roll from there.

Answer 5

Maybe he has been busy as of late. Instead of getting all mad at him and ignoring him cause he doesn't call. Why don't you go up to him at church and tell him you are dissapointed cause he didn't call you. Instead of playing mind games tell him you like him and ask him why he didn't call. Maybe he likes someone else. You don't know until you try.

Answer 6

If he has not called you, then he does not like you in the same way that you like him. If he looks at you and smiles in church, its because he is probably just flattered that you like him. Thats all. He would have called already if he liked you. Sorry

Answer 7

PATIENCE......You are sending the mixed signals. He is just taking his time, seeing you as you are, looking into it. Many guys wouldn't give you that much respect. Be patient, and look in return. You aren't going to get anything of quality overnight. Time is the most foolproof test, let it work.... May the Stars light your path...

Answer 8

its very very possible he lost your number and is too embarrased to ask for it. I have done that before and continued to wink/flirt/show interest in hopes that they would offer it again. it backfired of course and he ended up with a friend. I would be blunt but polite. it should tell you right away.. say " so were you going to call me? my schedule is pretty lax tonight, if you felt like calling" if he turns red or looks panicked, offer it to him again.. if he acts shruggish or like he doesnt care, deal your digits to another hottie.

Answer 9

i would love to know the real answer to this too but all i can think of is the thrill of the chase is over so they lose interest or they arent ready for a relationship. i come across this with most guys too, i always joke and say im a jerk magnet. i also am easy going, sweet, fun and sexy so i tend to be very confused by the actions of men, i am "seeing" "talking to" whatever you want to call it, as well.

Answer 10

Maybe he'll call you when he gets the chance. If it's been a week already just accept the fact that he might not be interested. It could be worse though.