Family & Relationships - 6 May 2007

Or will poor me not get any cards through my letter box with it being Bank Holiday? :o(

2007-05-06 19:40:05 · 42 answers · asked by tizzy 5 in Friends

when i was16 years old I met a guy, which we find out dat we are cousins cause we didn't see eachother b4, but we are not really close together, even our family. So, when isaw him i really felt in love with him, it was my first time that i realy loved a guy so much. He acted very cool and whenever he looked at me he smiled and he was staring at me. After, I didn't see him, i was trying to find a address or tel# but i didn't find anything. After 9 months i saw him and he start looking at me, like he wants to tell me something but we couldn't talk to eacother. Another guy came into my life and he loved me so much, and I tried to forget him but i couldn't. after 2 years i find out that he had a gf and i got sad. i didn't want to think about him anymore. after, he broke up with his gf and he asked my friend out, but she has a bf and she knows dat i loved him b4.now I'm 19 and i saw him yestrday, my hearth start beating fast and i wanted to cry, i don't know why, i don't wan think about him

2007-05-06 19:39:00 · 3 answers · asked by Washington D.C 1 in Singles & Dating

lost bet to girlfriend over cricket world cup , now i have to dress as girl for 7 days, she is making me wax my whole, pierce my ears is it fair , dont u think she is taking it to far

she also wants to know how she should dress me

plz dont make it any more humiliating for

2007-05-06 19:34:03 · 3 answers · asked by john 7 in Friends

thing singles to engage in? I'm apporaching my mid 30s and tend to be drawn to the younger 20something set, since like me they're still trying to "find themselves", career-wise and because a good portion of them are single.. A bulk of my own friends are now married and have kids. I think they have their free time all layed out - when not at work, hang out with the wife and children! I'm a litle confused being in my 30s and single. Where do people of my age set go to have fun and what type of hobbies and/or activities are good ones to involve oneself in? I like to dance, but many places that have dance floors tend to cater to 20something singles. I hate feeling and possibly looking like the "old man in the club". I'd appreciate your input.

2007-05-06 19:31:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so like in two weeks, it's gonna be me & my boyfriend's one month. Yeah, I know it's nothing, but still. And we were talking. And he asked me what I wanted, and I said something that comes from the heart. And I asked him the same question, and he said something about a book? He said it's like a book where you write all these random stuff in it, an "about me book" or whatever. Then later, he said nevermind cause I didn't get how to make one. So now, I need some ideas of what to get him. I want it to be something handmade, personal, and thoughtful, you know? Like the book idea, but something that I can do. I don't care how much time it'd take 'cause I'm willing to work on it. So any ideas? Suggestions? Please& Thank you (: Again, something personal and that he'd like. He's like, seventeen? And yeaaaah.

2007-05-06 19:29:52 · 7 answers · asked by scatteredth0ughts_ x 3 in Singles & Dating

My daughter is turning 15 in a couple weeks and i want to give her a really cool gift and need some ideas. I want her to have a great birthday.. I want to give her something sentimental and i would like to give her something fun and cool. Finding toys for 15 year olds is not really an option but there has got to be something out there fun for her. she has had a tough time the last few months and deserves a happy birthday.i know gifts dont mean eveything but i want to make it all the more special.

2007-05-06 19:26:22 · 8 answers · asked by sweetpea 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

lost bet to girlfriend over cricket world cup , now i have to dress as girl for 7 days, she is making me wax my whole body , pierce my ears is it fair even my eyebrows will be completely shaped, dont u think she is taking it to far

she also wants to know how should she dress me

plz dont make it any more humiliating for me

2007-05-06 19:04:21 · 8 answers · asked by john 7 in Singles & Dating

He says he loves me and our baby but he needs to be with another women from time to time. Especially that now he is in love with a girl i know. He wants to be with her to feel somethig different that he has with me. I want to accept it because i love him very much and i don't accept a divorce in my life. I would like answers mostly from men to know their opinion. It is not a joke. I just want to talk to someone and hear other ideas.

2007-05-06 18:59:16 · 22 answers · asked by gia79p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently joined the United States Navy and I am leving for boot camp in about a month, my fiancee has been in the navy for a year and a half already and now he is about to complete his first 8-month deployment, he will be coming back home for about 10 days before i leave to boot camp, We really love each other and i really find him to be the right person for me, i know that he might have changed a lot after his deployment, but i am pretty sure that those changes wont matter for me, loving him the way i do..and well we are uncertain about getting married before i leave to boot camp or after, i would like to get station wher he is at, but i dont know what probabilities we have of doing that... although, i've seen a lot of comments that when military couples get married there is a big chance for a divorce.. i really love him and i know he loves me too.. and i really dont wanto to get divorced.. what should i do?

2007-05-06 18:53:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when im on aim and i talk to the girl i like we have GREAT conversations most of the time, but then every once and awhile well just have a couple minutes of akwardness, were no one says anything, and i dont really know what to say, any ideas? just something that i could say that could lead to other topics so we can have a conversation instead of just sitting there not talking

2007-05-06 18:53:33 · 6 answers · asked by tupersrooper 3 in Singles & Dating

So Friday night I went out with my friends and two of them came back to my place afterwards. It was a girl and a guy. We were hanging out and next thing you know, toes are being sucked, and one thing led to another, and you get the jist of it. None of us had sex. Just a lot of heavy hooking up to put it that way. I feel extremely guilty cause I am getting married in 4 1/2 months. The other 2 feel extremely guilty as well since we are all friends and know one anothers fiances. We have all sworn never to say anything, but I feel so guilty. I love my fiance. He is my world, and I couldn't imagine not having him in my life. I can't sleep and feel like this will hang over me for awhile. What should I do?

2007-05-06 18:50:58 · 9 answers · asked by curlysuepeggysue 1 in Singles & Dating

Have any of you asian men had girls reply to your ads or respond to your emails? From a research paper called: What Makes You Click? Mate Preferences and Matching Outcomes in Online Dating "The research found that members of all four ethnic groups examined did in fact “discriminate” against users belonging to other ethnic groups and women seem to discriminate more. For example, African American and Hispanic men only get about half as many first contact emails from Caucasian women as Caucasian men do while Asian men only get about one fourth as much contact. Asian men and women seem to be least discriminating when pursuing other ethnicities." "For equal success with a white woman, an African-American man needs to earn $154,000 more than a white man. Hispanic men need an additional $77,000, and Asian men need an additional $247,000 in annual income."

2007-05-06 18:50:25 · 9 answers · asked by SL1983 2 in Singles & Dating

when my hiring manager asks me why i think i should be hired for starbucks, what should i say?

2007-05-06 18:45:33 · 14 answers · asked by Santa Clause 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please I need help with my relationship
I need ideas to spice it up
He enjoys spending time with his mates, drinking, motor biking, driving the usual boy things
We are expecting our 1st child in 3 months soooooo i want to be closer to him; I want him to want me
In the bedroom I need to think of things to A LOT!! Help me there
Plz help me plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

2007-05-06 18:43:18 · 9 answers · asked by sarah f 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-06 18:41:31 · 15 answers · asked by casperleehp 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-06 18:40:54 · 6 answers · asked by travelling_john 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband knew about my past when he married me but said it would be okay and he would forget about it once we were married. I have two children [16 and 6] by two different fathers. One of my exes was marriedwhen I first met him. This is what troubles my husband. So he is horrible to me all the time and I work really hard for him looking after his buisness when hes overseas, but when he comes home he shows me no affection and love and when I ask why and get upset, because he used to, he says he cant because of my past and he hates me.
I want a divorce but he wont talk about it and says he wants to work at the marraige and not give up on it like me, but I cant live like this, its torture and I cry all the time because I love him and he is so awful to me . Except in front of people then hes charming and acts the perfect husband ! He doesnt want others to see the way he treats me. Its just hell lieing next to someone in bed whom you love but will not even hold your hand !

2007-05-06 18:38:33 · 30 answers · asked by mermaid 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why dont some people wont let go what u did in past?

2007-05-06 18:37:40 · 7 answers · asked by bianca 2 in Singles & Dating

my brother marrie a gal without our notice even after our rejection of that gal, she is too selfish and she forced my brother to leave house with our sick mom even she cannot walk as she is too week and sick , i m married and i have 5 year baby i cant daily come to lookafter her can u tell me what can i do for my mom and what she should do for my brother, there is no one at home now with my mom to take care of her

2007-05-06 18:37:28 · 12 answers · asked by navkirat k 1 in Family

I love this girl very much and i have tried my level best and even told her that i loved her so much but still she ... I have many female friends and they trust me a lot I am guy who is not a pervert and they know even if i ever touch them its not a bad thing. But still the girl i love does'nt feel the same for me. I came to know she hangs out with a pervert((without knowing) and she sometimes even goes alone with him. Even i am cool ,rich , and don't look bad. What do you think is the problem, i would be happy to know your opinions

2007-05-06 18:35:20 · 16 answers · asked by samir 2 in Singles & Dating

if... you like a girl what terms would u use when talking to her... or actions...

2007-05-06 18:31:15 · 20 answers · asked by cheeky_babe 2 in Singles & Dating

i just dont understand it...i was with a girl for 3 years..she leaves for a complete asshole who beats her verbally and physically..yet me..never laid a hand on a women never have..been verbally abusive but nothing as crazy as words spoken from this assholes mouth.. How can a women go from being so happy and never goes a day without a smile on her face to a guy that upsets her and abuses her..what the hell?

2007-05-06 18:30:29 · 17 answers · asked by veryconfused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My Man of 16 months are in a rountine. I go to work 30 hours a week and I am 40 hours a week in an EMT academy. He works 55 hours a week. Our Love life is soo boring.
He says I never dress sexy, and I never am in the mood. IM NOT..He never is romantic anymore. He used to buy me flowers and dance with me but never anymore. I am always tired and stressed. Having him Live 45 minutes away dosen't help either. We are talking marriage and looking at houses...When we do get married, it will still be the same anyways. HELP!!

2007-05-06 18:27:25 · 12 answers · asked by Bride2Be 4 in Singles & Dating

I like to have sex with different men, especially (but not always) when drinking . After the first or second meeting I usually lose interest. I like the persuit more than the actual sex itself most of the time. Sometimes I even have sex with different men on the same day. I can't seem to get enough.
Some of my friends say that I am just a big slut but personally I don't see much wrong with enjoying my sexuality.

This is a serious question, please refrain from smart *** remarks.

2007-05-06 18:23:06 · 42 answers · asked by TinaAnne 2 in Singles & Dating

ok...so im a sophomore in highschool...never had a boyfriend, i mean ive had crushes and stuff but nothing serious. (sad i know) anyways...you see all those movies and things where people really love each other...do all these things really happen? do people really feel and act this way or do they just make it up?

2007-05-06 18:20:39 · 26 answers · asked by mandie 2 in Singles & Dating

You know he is pretending because he was crazy about you. He left starring at me and we felt that connection.

2007-05-06 18:13:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-06 18:12:20 · 8 answers · asked by ryan e 1 in Singles & Dating

Anyone ever got into this & know when the kinky line has been crossed?

2007-05-06 18:09:12 · 12 answers · asked by Ebie 2 in Singles & Dating

I will somtimes say things like "good job hun" like when my 10 year old son does a good thing. People look at me weird I started doing this because my wife does it. Is it wrong? I dont say it all the time mabe like once a week.

2007-05-06 18:06:28 · 23 answers · asked by tyler d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I get above average grades, and i'm a model daughter, but my parents won't accept my gothic look and my love to draw...How can I get my parents to accept me?

2007-05-06 17:54:07 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family