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Question

Please I need help with my relationship
I need ideas to spice it up
He enjoys spending time with his mates, drinking, motor biking, driving the usual boy things
We are expecting our 1st child in 3 months soooooo i want to be closer to him; I want him to want me
In the bedroom I need to think of things to A LOT!! Help me there
Plz help me plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Answer 1

Why do you need to spice it up, your having his child, isn't that spicy enough? The fact that your with child should bring you closer and make him want you.

If you want to spice things up, in a way that only a pregant lady could do, put his hand on your stomach so that he can feel the baby move around, and look him in his eyes and say "you did this to me bitc$, now tell me I'm sexy"... that's how you have to treat men in the 21st century!!

Answer 2

For some men sex during pregnancy is an incredible turn on..Then for others..Well..it's not even on the radar screen..
He might feel that he's going to hurt the baby during intercourse..He's not. The baby is well cushioned in an amniotic fluid
What you both should do, is talk to each other about your needs and desires..Try different positions, and see what's comfortable for both of you..Think about the sex you had before you got pregnant.
Perhaps, wear a nice sexy night gown ..dim the lights, put on some nice soft music..and take it from there..Maybe for dessert some strawberry dipped in chocolate..Seductively feed each other.. Use your imagination! Have fun..Good Luck!

Answer 3

You have a problem because drinking and motor biking would not be things that are good for you to do when you are pregnant. Would he join in a discussion with you of things you can do together? Do you do meals together? Does he like massage? watching TV together? Would he help with decisions for the new baby, planning for the baby? I would ask him how he wants the future to be for your family and then start making that happen.

Answer 4

u know he is still behaving like a child if he is doing all that drinking and things. . .

well was he happy when u told him u where pregnant?? if he was, u can go buy ur self that lingerie that makes u look beautiful as a pregnant women.

then remember that doggy-style is the best stress reliever for u (as a pregnant women), it also helps with that back cramps. and if u lie on ur side &him crouched between ur legs (him on his knees between). . u see u can play with positions.

also let him know that having sex wont effect the baby

Most men wants to know that they also important to u even though there is a baby on its way, so rub his back down with oils, let him feel that mothers love.

Answer 5

If he wants those things more than you, there isn't much you can to do change him. Sorry but he doesn't sound like he is the right type of guy for you, too bad you decided to make babies with him before you found that out.

He is the man he is and you are not going to change him. If you didn't like that to begin with, you should have found someone else instead. Sorry but that is how real life works.

Answer 6

Guys love to be teased. Try teasing him alittle by doing a sexy dance. You can also go purchase some new sex toys or lingerae to spice up the moment.

Answer 7

suprise him when he comes home with a nice dinner or something and a present of some sort that both of you can like hehe GOOD LUCK!!!!

Answer 8

watch some porn when you are alone, and try out some of the techniques you see.

Answer 9

oh..... if I know what u r saying,,,,, wear thongs, braless,
and, um.... make sure he is in bed with you!!!