Family & Relationships - 6 May 2007

i have been talking to this man for 4 months and we are deeply in love but lately he has been acting really strange when he gets mad hes like i gotta go and i dont here from him until the next day. Well yesterday we had another fight over nothing and he hung up on me, Today i have called him allday and his cousin picked up once and said he left his phone outside that he would tell him to call me , i called quite a few times after that and his cousin answered said something and hung up i didnt really here him , im at a point i dont know what to expect or how to feel.
If you were in my situation what would you think how would you feel Could it be possible he has found someone else

2007-05-06 16:12:05 · 15 answers · asked by theflawlessrose 1 in Singles & Dating

classic story. girl hates guy.guy likes girl.girl falls for guy.guy sends mixed signals.girl and guy become friends.girl doesn't know if guy likes her more than a friend.girl thinks constantly about guy. girl doesn't know how he feels. girl is too afraid to ask.

then something happens.

we were at a school event sleepover and he brings his guitar (we both love the same type of music) and plays for me a song he wrote (no lyrics, just music) he is AMAZING. no seriously knowcks me off my feet. he then tries to teach me his song. he's so sweet and modest about how good he is and is patient with me about it.

which leads me to think he likes me.

but then later he goes to a bunch of girls (when he was playing with me it was one on one) and plays for them. they all think he's really good and want to learn how to play. he kinda teaches them, but gets frustrated and leaves.

in the group of girls there is one who says he is her "lover" but they are friends and she is joking about

2007-05-06 16:09:27 · 4 answers · asked by thatonegirl 3 in Singles & Dating

Don't cry, do not look into my eyes
for long i tried to belie the truth
the fact i felt inside
don't think me bad, don't think me evil
my heart is about to burst, i don't want
to hurt you
i don't want to see you cry

don't you see? i am in misery
don't you see the love in my eyes?
the indifference?
the pain?
don't try to invent, accept it

2007-05-06 16:09:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't know why, I usually keep it together. But my ex introduced our kids to his new girlfriend this weekend. We have only been apart 5 months. I admit it I am jealous. It seems like he just hurts people with no care about it. And everything is made easy for him. He lives with his mother rent free, he is 41. His new girlfriend is 45, has a brand new Cadilac, and a beach house. I can't even get a date. It does make me sad and jealous sometimes. I really don't want to care anymore. But it still hurts me. When I try to talk to him about it, he says your just jealous and hangs up on me. Our boys liked her, and her car. Please god! just make my feelings for him go away! I am just feeling sorry for myself tonight, sorry. Thanks for listening.

2007-05-06 16:07:21 · 22 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Either willingling or not, you know what i mean?

2007-05-06 16:05:05 · 3 answers · asked by enano 4 in Singles & Dating

I had a relationship that ended nearly a year ago and it was not on my terms. The thing is, I miss him very much and I am still hurting. He on the other hand seems to care less about me. I know this because when I tried to tell him how I felt, he did not respond to me at all. This was my first real relationship and it was serious. I just can't understand how even though he ended things for reasons, he doesn't even miss me. I feel he probably does not even think about me. It just hurts very much. I try so hard to move on, but I just wish he showed some remorse or regret, or sadness. How do people just move on?

2007-05-06 16:03:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i can't imagine being married 50 years to the same person.

2007-05-06 16:03:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I are planning to get married next June. We want the ceremony to be at his church, and the reception to be at my parents' beach house, which is about an hour's drive from his church. Is this too far to ask guests to travel in one day? My father is also worried about taking care of last minute issues with the caterers, etc who will be at the house if he is 60 miles away at the church. Will this be a logistical nightmare??

2007-05-06 16:03:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Considering using it but cannot find media or bbb testimonial on the website. Appreciate your help.

2007-05-06 16:02:48 · 3 answers · asked by bentley_beth 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i go to a privite school where there are no girls that i could even think about going out with.....their way to vally girl type.........besides youth group.....which isnt that great of a place to be looking for girls......where should i try to pick up a girl?

2007-05-06 15:59:32 · 2 answers · asked by bert 2 in Singles & Dating

for example, if the dad doesn't want anything to do with the mom or the child, can he sign over parental rights without the mother's permission?? how does that process work?? websites anyone?? this is for the state of california.. thanks!!

2007-05-06 15:58:21 · 6 answers · asked by idgaf 5 in Family

My parents and all my relatives are forcing me for a re-marriage saying that my daughter is very young and it is difficult for a father bringing up a girl child & she would always require a mother when she grows up. Please advice...

2007-05-06 15:57:51 · 43 answers · asked by bobby m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-06 15:57:28 · 4 answers · asked by tanlaask 3 in Weddings

I don't mean repulsive, just someone who isn't your physical type like if you normally like blondes and she's a brunette or curvy chicks and she's anorexic.

Did the relationship work out? Did you get to the point you found her attractive because you liked her as a person?

This is probably more of a question for guys cuz girls will overlook a guys looks if he is rich, popular, or abusive.

2007-05-06 15:56:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have recently gotten married and also find myself with lots of doubts. My husband gets e-mails and text messages from other girls he claims that they are old friends and nothing is going on between them. He also has a myspace account. On his page he talks about our wedding and has a picture of me, but he is constantly getting "friend requests" from scantilly clad women and messages from people I have never heard of. He states that the friend requests come b/c his page is set to private, but when I go to view it it does not say that on his page. He says that I am trying to catch him in something. I am so scared that I am being cheated on, but I also don't want to be falsely accusing him. How can I know for sure?

2007-05-06 15:52:51 · 8 answers · asked by katec 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It is a non-sexual relationship, she would stay in school. Any problems?

2007-05-06 15:51:12 · 4 answers · asked by Devin S 2 in Family

How do you tell the difference between when a man just likes a girl (ex: "shes cute"), and when he really likes her (ex: "I could really see myself with her")

2007-05-06 15:48:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if he gave you the choice of when he says i dont want you to wear make up and earings and if you dont do it he will leave you because he doesnt like make up and that on you and didnt feel comfortable when you wear it because he loves the natural you.

what would you choose and why?

2007-05-06 15:45:06 · 81 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 19 years old college student who's lonely, depressed, overweight and i don't have no friends. i feel like this every day but, i'm not those kind of people who consider hurting people cause i don't. i just don't know what to do, please help me solve these issues. i'm always like this and i don't show any emotion but deep inside i do. so help me please.

2007-05-06 15:43:42 · 11 answers · asked by luis s 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I thought we were becoming pretty good friends, but one day she asked if I could watch her kids, 4 & 6yrs, same as my kids, while she moved. She didn't call or come back that night. The whole next dayshe didn't answer he cell. She called later & apologized & said "sorry, its taking longer than I thought, can they stay anther night?" I said "Well, I'm kinda tired & My kids are sick." She said "I'd really appreciate it & I'll pick them up in the morning." I said "whatever" & hung up. We didn't talk for months, she said she lost our #. Today she wanted to come over for dinner & movies. As soon & they got here, her kids asked if they hadcould stay the night. I said yes, cuz the kids love eachother! She had another kid w/ her when she came & immediately after dinner her cell rang. It was the other mother wanting her kid home. She said she'd be right back & didn't show up. 4 hours later I called her & asked "what's up" she said "i'm so sorry, I'll be there in the AM" Using me or what?

2007-05-06 15:41:34 · 29 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know there is a list for every year that you are married what kind of gift to buy I think one year its silver and ond is gold one is paper

2007-05-06 15:39:50 · 7 answers · asked by tony_zion@yahoo.com 2 in Weddings

This kid i have liked for like 3 or 4 months told me he liked me and then 2 weeks after that i found he didnt anymore. Now he acts like he likes me but doesnt say anythinng to anyone. I'm tired of waiting for him...what should i do?

2007-05-06 15:35:03 · 5 answers · asked by Midjo 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to buy a text messaging plan so i can talk to my friends without using min on my phone. Before i had a plan i accidentally ran up the phone bill by texting when i shouldnt have and i lost my phone for about 2months. How do i convince my mom to let me buy the texting plan. I can get unlimited texts to anyone for 19$ a month and i make 20$ a month.

2007-05-06 15:31:52 · 17 answers · asked by b r 2 in Friends

My brother fell in love and married a woman four years ago. She was born male but changed her sex which was okay with my brother as he did not want kids. She is also twelve years older than him. Inspite of our discouragement he married her and today he is repenting.
She now says that sex change was a mistake and that he feels attracted to females. We have been trying to work it out but she just wants a divorce. How can I stop them from getting divorced?

2007-05-06 15:25:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-06 15:25:04 · 3 answers · asked by David M 1 in Weddings

one of my guy friend got into a relationship... but i have a boyfriend... how come when i heard the news that they are dating i felt jealous is it unuasl for me to feel like this and why i am?

2007-05-06 15:24:01 · 2 answers · asked by Jamie T 4 in Singles & Dating

This is the first time I have ever written. My boyfriend of 3 years said he needed a break from me and space...because i cheated on him (but not all the way) two years ago. It seemed like he had forgiven me...and now he says it feels like it happened yesterday because he sees girls around him doing the same thing to his close friends. We have been through a lot because we are in a long distance relationship and away at different universities.

I need advice please. He wont speak to me or anything. Will he ever get over it? And how can I possibly make things better? I want to fix things before he comes back for the summer in two weeks.

2007-05-06 15:21:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So me and my wife are getting a dissoluation, we got married by my friend who got ordaided on the net however after reading into this i guess in ohio you have to file papers with the state which he didnt so i guess what i'm asking is since the marriage was never legal we dont have to get the dissoluation right? if thats the case then what would we have to do to get it off the records?

2007-05-06 15:07:38 · 9 answers · asked by metallicats_02 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-06 15:00:33 · 1 answers · asked by curious 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-06 14:59:23 · 25 answers · asked by Airey 1 in Singles & Dating