i have been talking to this man for 4 months and we are deeply in love but lately he has been acting really strange when he gets mad hes like i gotta go and i dont here from him until the next day. Well yesterday we had another fight over nothing and he hung up on me, Today i have called him allday and his cousin picked up once and said he left his phone outside that he would tell him to call me , i called quite a few times after that and his cousin answered said something and hung up i didnt really here him , im at a point i dont know what to expect or how to feel.
If you were in my situation what would you think how would you feel Could it be possible he has found someone else
2007-05-06 16:12:05 · 15 answers · asked by theflawlessrose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is in love with me everytime we talk we tell each other we love each other he told me he loved me first i know theres love i feel in my heart that i am in love with him
2007-05-06 16:18:41 · update #1
we always have these lil fights and he always bounces back and calls me the next day and tells me he loves me but not today
2007-05-06 16:20:00 · update #2
thanks for the answers so far its so hard for me to actually think he is cheating and to say goodbye im honestly in love with him
2007-05-06 16:24:22 · update #3
there is obviously nothing wrong with his phone. stop calling him!
do u realize how it makes u look to continue to do that?
have u considered the type of jokes that u are every time his phone rings?
i know ur concerned and hurting but dont give the appearance of desperation. but maintain ur dignity!
consider this: ur man may need to grow up a wee bit.
what kind of man hangs up on his lady?!?!?!
what kind of man ignores non-stop calls from his lady?!?!?
what kind of man allows his cousin to answer his lady's call?!?!?
u relax, let him have his tantrum, plan to speak with him sometime this week.
but always maintain ur dignity!
2007-05-06 16:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by miss lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wellf or one I doubt you two are SERIOUSLY IN LOVE maybe you two just really like each other. Another thing if he is angry dont call him all day give him space and time you are being clingy. If your man doesnt call you every day that doesnt mean that the world is going to end. Its good NOT to call and spend time with each other EVERYDAY! Abscense makes the heart grow fonder dont you know that? Yo are also being INSECURE to think he has found someone else. I think you two need some time apart from each other.
2007-05-06 23:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through that exact same experience a few years ago. STOP calling the guy. As in my case, I kept calling at times that I knew he'd be getting ready for work & he wouldn't answer his cell. I finally put two & two together & stopped calling. He never called me for three days & when he did, he was nasty & tryed to pick a fight with me. I knew then & there that he had someone else & wanted to fight with me, blame me for things, then hang up for good. I told him to grow up & hung up on him before he could do it to me. I never called him again & when he called, I didn't answer the phone. His e-mails & IM's to me went unanswered too. I wasn't going to play games with him another day. I later found out that he'd been seeing others, behind my back. Good riddance, I said. You should say the same. Play hard to get & see what happens. Don't be so quick to answer your phone when he calls. Two can play.
2007-05-06 23:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he gets mad and says "I gotta go" and leaves you... he's doing that for your own safety so he doesn't say/do anything to hurt you (any worse than it already does) and run the risk of losing you.
He might be busy. Or he might have still been simmering about the fight. I doubt he found someone else if he's so deeply attached to you.
Good luck.
--Jake
2007-05-06 23:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant stand it when people call me repeatedly. I have caller i.d. and voicemail. It only takes 1 call. Also, he's got a life and so do you. Don't wait around for a guy in order to go out and live your life. What could you possibly have to talk about if you haven't done anything but call your boyfriend all day?
2007-05-06 23:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by Just Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that this is a little frustrated for you, but you have to give him a little breather, meaning, don't call him for a couple of days, but if he calls you then pick up, and talk to him, but if he doesn't call you, it doesn't necessarily means that he has found someone else, but rather he just doen't want to talk to you, but give the situation a little time to unravel itself, and the truth shall come out.
2007-05-06 23:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by Cocoa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 months and we are deeply in love? I don't think so. Infatuated maybe, but now he's lost that lovin' feeling. It's over.
2007-05-06 23:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe all he wants is a bit of space!!! or maybe his jus buzi instead of calling him go round and see him and talk things thru is the only way
2007-05-06 23:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow one day? thats nothing. my men dont call me for days, weeks at a time. Consider yourself lucky.
2007-05-06 23:17:25 · answer #9 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid he may not be as deeply in love as you. Sorry.
2007-05-06 23:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by Alice K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋