Are humans meant to stay with the same person for life?

Question

i can't imagine being married 50 years to the same person.

Answer 1

If you find the person you are meant to be with, you won't be able to imagine NOT being married to that person for 50 years.

Answer 2

The first part of your question assumes that reincarnation is true, but there s no way to prove whether it is or isn t true, and given that we have no understanding of it, then it s impossible to know how it works if it does exist. How can we possibly know the rules of something that can t be proven to be true. If souls are like the monetary system, then more can be added at any time. Just make an entry in the ledger, and more souls are created. We know from science that cells divide and more are created, so maybe souls could divide like cells, thereby meaning that the number of souls available is infinite rather than finite. If reincarnation was proven to be true, then a lot more people would commit suicide, although this might be against the rules of reincarnation and you would end up as a lower life form in the next life. Life would become like a video game where you could start over on a lower level, and then work your way up later to a higher level if you were stuck. In the end it doesn t matter whether you believe in reincarnation or not, as eventually you will die and find out anyway, if you re reincarnated, meet your god or simply cease to exist.

Answer 3

There are many people who couldn't imagine NOT being with the same person for 50 yrs. - though they seem to be more and more rare. When you meet the yin to your yang you want to know that person completely and to grow old with them. Someone who is not afraid to disagree with you and who watches out for your best interests (that goes vice versa).
As humans lose their empathy they become more focused on instant gratification, less on anything that takes effort or work (like relationships). It's a 'me, myself, and I' world these days - and everything has become disposable. Ditch the person that helped you achieve your goals for someone more 'fun' and don't look back at the devastation in your wake.
Do everyone a favor and please don't breed if you can't commit for the long haul.

Answer 4

You are probably young now with many choices, but these choices will not always be there. We all get older and then the question becomese simply either staying alone or being with someone. Who knows, someday you may meet someone with whom you will want to spend the rest of your life. But maybe by that time it will be less than 50 years.

Answer 5

Very good question.
As a man, if you are not sure of this, you have to take your precautions if you ever get married. Like a prenup, to avoid serious financial damage in case of divorce.
For fatherhood issues, you can do tests to guarantee you are the real father.
Well, your question is important, it applies to your partner as well as you, and you need to be alert and take precautions not to get hurt if any of you two decide to go to someone else.

Answer 6

Oh, I think so. I look forward to being married for that long. Imagine being with someone who knows you inside and out, who compliments you, who brings out the best in you. Someone you share everything with. Someone you disagree with, but respect nonetheless. That's what love and life are all about.

Answer 7

That is the whole point of marriage to be with one person for the rest of your life. Like it is stated in wedding vows till death do us part. If you meet the person who makes you happy, like I have myself it is hard to imagine them not being in your life.

Answer 8

Why not it's more than a challege than the many women you could get! Think about it.......you have to be one hell of a man to keep a woman intrested in you for that long.

Answer 9

You should not get married then.

Answer 10

Well then, I guess you are not mature enough to understand and make that decision. When you are, you won't be asking.