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How do you tell the difference between when a man just likes a girl (ex: "shes cute"), and when he really likes her (ex: "I could really see myself with her")

2007-05-06 15:48:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Honestly, it comes down to the verbal and non-verbal communication. If a guy really likes a girl, he will put in more effort to show that he like sher. Engages in conversation, makes more physical contact.

Makes an effort to compliment her on maybe what she is wearing, or her hair, or something like that.

Some guys are also very shy, and tend to be even more shy when they like someone, so often times it can be hard to tell, but for me, I make it fairly obvious that there is some interest there just by my interaction with the girl.

I will usually feel things out in some sort of social setting, get the contact info. Then I will make an effort to get to know her better through phone conversations, maybe send her some messages like good-night, or good-morning. Try and do more than a typical friend would do. If I am getting a good vibe after a week or two, I will ask her out.

I am not really big on just asking someone out right away. I at least want them to get some kind of idea as to who I am, and I want the same from them. I think it's fine when people are just upfront about it right away, but getting to know them better makes the dates more fun because much of the pressure it taken off because I know them, rather than it being completely unfamiliar.

You just have to look at how the guy acts. Everyone is different, but once you get the vibe, you will know.

If you really like a guy, but he isn't giving you clear signs, then go ahead and make it obvious from your end, or even ask him to go do something, just something casual. Go get a coffee or something.

If you do that, it might loosen him up and allow him to be a little more open about his feelings.

2007-05-06 16:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by John H 3 · 1 0

she's cute symptoms:

1. i openly gaze at her for a long period of time and fantasize myself in sexual acts with her
2. i then stop thinking about her for good in anyway other than she's just another person let alone a girl.

she's woman I want to be with symptoms:
1. I think about her when I am alone or just have spare time or well most of the time.
2. I think should I call her or talk to her more?
3. I look at her when I see her but I am looking at her eyes more than anything else.
4. I look forward to seeing her again because one moment of seeing her would make my day just that much better.

2007-05-06 22:55:18 · answer #2 · answered by trisfae 2 · 3 0

well if he just likes a girl like (shes cute etc) that means he is interested in getting to know her. ANd when he gets to know her and if he likes what shes about then he would say " i could really see myself with her".

Hope this makes sense.

BEst of wishes kesha

2007-05-06 22:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Ladies, there are so many other great things to waste your energy on. Start specializing in yourself and who cares if he like you or not! Seriously, let's spend our energy on building ourselves up and everything else will follow.

2014-09-16 22:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by Brandi 1 · 1 0

you have to trust your gut. if this is in reference to someone you know, then judge than on how they treat you. men who go out of their way to help you, are always there for you w/o you asking tend to be men who are interested. Another thing you can do is judge their body langauge. Are they facing you wheb your sitting apart. Do they look at you? DO they playfully touch you? DO they compliment you excessively? thsese are things to look for.. good luck.

2007-05-06 22:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by phoenixchi 3 · 0 0

It's hard to do, most guys are good at hideing thier emotions..

2007-05-06 22:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You have to ask him. It's that simple.

2007-05-06 22:54:38 · answer #7 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0 0

we don;t come up straightly. we don't like it.

2007-05-06 22:55:12 · answer #8 · answered by Kewl guy 3 · 0 0

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