classic story. girl hates guy.guy likes girl.girl falls for guy.guy sends mixed signals.girl and guy become friends.girl doesn't know if guy likes her more than a friend.girl thinks constantly about guy. girl doesn't know how he feels. girl is too afraid to ask.
then something happens.
we were at a school event sleepover and he brings his guitar (we both love the same type of music) and plays for me a song he wrote (no lyrics, just music) he is AMAZING. no seriously knowcks me off my feet. he then tries to teach me his song. he's so sweet and modest about how good he is and is patient with me about it.
which leads me to think he likes me.
but then later he goes to a bunch of girls (when he was playing with me it was one on one) and plays for them. they all think he's really good and want to learn how to play. he kinda teaches them, but gets frustrated and leaves.
in the group of girls there is one who says he is her "lover" but they are friends and she is joking about
2007-05-06 16:09:27 · 4 answers · asked by thatonegirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it and i know she is kidding and he is reluctant to do anything about it. the thing is. he is ALWAYS around girls.ALWAYS. it's his personality. he's not hot or handsome but he has a great personality. i feel weird because all the girls joke about being his girlfriend, but i ACTUALLY WANT TO BE WITH HIM. it feels so awkward when they are all over him. i feel like i'd get teased if we went out (though i don't care) i'm more worried if i send the wrong signals and i ask him out and he says no, not only will people tease me but i'll lose an amazing friend.
i need help, advise, anything. if you took the time to read this please put something down, i need to know how to act around him tomorrow. or any other time. thanks so much.
2007-05-06 16:13:46 · update #1
Just be yourself and be his friend. Don't push it, just enjoy being around him. He will figure it out. It doesn't sound as if they are truly his friends, if they joke around about him.
2007-05-06 16:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm no longer declaring he isn't any longer being a dick yet he does have a valid aspect if he's the bread winner. i imagine it really is unusual you won't be able to leave a 15 three hundred and sixty 5 days previous to fend for himself. supply him some regulations, if he would not stick with them and receives in worry he will consistently might want to contain you once you rigidity your major different round or stay at granny's.
2016-11-25 23:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say what you feel... am I wrong? Perhaps he likes you too and also wants to be more than just a friend. If not, I'm sure he can respect your feelings and you can still remain in a friendship, even if it's not what you hoped for. The worst thing is not knowing, and possibly missing out on a great relationship.
God Bless
2007-05-06 16:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by Basilia Harmonia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to him if you like him. You have nothing to lose. And if he doesn't respond in the correct way ....... move on.
Hope I helped some.
2007-05-06 16:33:07 · answer #4 · answered by Bobbi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋