I don't mean repulsive, just someone who isn't your physical type like if you normally like blondes and she's a brunette or curvy chicks and she's anorexic.
Did the relationship work out? Did you get to the point you found her attractive because you liked her as a person?
This is probably more of a question for guys cuz girls will overlook a guys looks if he is rich, popular, or abusive.
2007-05-06 15:56:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you mean physical attraction yes. In my life, there were two types of women: the ones that catch you eye and the ones that catch your mind. The ones that catch your eye you tend to forget the minute someone prettier walks by. But the ones that catch your mind you can never forget.
What I mean by that is that relationships built on something more/else than just physical attraction have a potential to last longer.
2007-05-06 16:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by tenno1234 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One person's pig is another person's Picasso. The larger and more relevant question is. How much of a catch are you? Not all people are as shallow and physically captivated as you think. You would want to believe that as you become more mature you would evolve past arrogance and look to the quality of the person you are with. You'd be surprised how open and more beautiful a person will become when they are genuinely loved as opposed to someone that's hot and can get any guy she wants when she wants and you aren't what she wants anyway. Even if you are the opposite of the guy you described. Poor but quirky, artsy but superficial. Whatever dude. One day, when she's evolved past you and you are walking down the street still staring at your ideal chick with some fat, dorky guy that she can't take her eyes off of and you wonder, "what the heck, this dude must be rich or has the cure for cancer or something.." And that ideal chick crosses the street, smiles at you and says "Hey, fill your name in here..., how have you been." And your chin is on the ground, you'll think wow! You know the difference between her then and now? Some guy found a way to love her in a way that made her see, want and evolve into the best version of herself. That alone you can't get from a dye job, boob job or a million dollar job.
If you care about her but not interested. Move aside and let another man, give her what she deserves. Unconditional care and a fair chance.
2007-05-06 16:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the last statement is true - at least not with all women - maybe girls but not women.
My ex is with a woman who is repulsive but it's just because he gets sex all the time and he is one of those insecure types that just wants a body next to him at night. He didn't even think about getting involved with her until one night they got drunk together.
But enough about that. I think people are capable over overlooking a physical defect if they find something else about the person that is more appealing like their personality or money or maybe they give good head or something but whether the relationship works out or not probably doesn't have anything to do with the physical attraction.
And yes if the relationship is good the physical defects seem to disappear but when things go sour the defects tend to stand out like a sore thumb.
Personally I don't see it as a defect but I thought the word defect worked in this instance.
2007-05-06 16:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No actually I don't overlook looks for money, status or mannerism. Looks are a very important factor. But, yes, I have dated someone I didn't at all find attractive and he turned out to be one of the best boyfriends I've had. You are right, I did learn to love every thing about him because of his genuinely caring ways. My current relationship is with someone I also didn't initially find attractive and from an ethnicity I found repulsive. We are going on 9 years now and my love for him makes him the most handsome man on the planet in my eyes!
2007-05-06 16:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by gmoney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is this sales insurance agent that I love very much and he is a very hot, very attractive, very handsome and very good-looking man. He says that he is in a relationship with someone else. I do not think that he is rich. He is not abusive to anyone. He is nice to all the people that he meets. When you pass by him he looks very grumpy.
2007-05-06 16:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dated the most amaizing, genuine, caring guy in the world. being around him made me happy, but i never wanted to do anything with him because the chemistry wasn't there. he was okay looking, just not my type. eventually he got frustrated, and i felt guilty for not giving him the love he deserved and we broke up. i still wonder if i made a mistake a year later.
2007-05-06 16:01:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, a girl will overlook a guys look based more on personality...not money or material stuff like that!
2007-05-06 16:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by rusty71987 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i dated a girl named marnie who was flat chested, had a big butt, however i went out with her and we had sex every night. it was the sex that kept us together for 3 months. after awhile i could not do it anymore so i broke up with her. she got a new bf who she said was her soulmate but we kept doing it. eventually we stopped but i felt bad for her new bf. i miss her though. she was a good gf and i was an a++
2007-05-06 16:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by david w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THats a good question?? but your right us girls are diffrent..
2007-05-06 15:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋