Family & Relationships - 6 May 2007

hi guys plz help m here,,, ok here is my story i met this guy on the net 3 weeks ago... we exchanged pictures and also we saw each other in the cam. He is very impressed wiht my looks and so am I.. he told me that he is 23 and i told him that i was also 23.... but actually i am26... well ok i lied about my age...he told me the other day that he really likes me n vise versa. N he also told me that he hates liars... now i cant tell him that i lied him about my age... what should i do now? do u guys think that he will be upset aftering me adding this or will never talk to me again???

2007-05-06 20:51:11 · 17 answers · asked by angel 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, here is my problem, I have been dating my current girlfriend for about 4 months and I love her so much and she says the same thing for me. A little background. We have an age difference of about five years, I am 24 and she is 19. During this time she has told me that she has slept with thirteen guys including having a threesome, and I have only slept with four women. After a lot of work I have finally been able to look onto the future of our relationship because she says that she is a person of God and that she has changed (This change happened when she had her threesome in Jan. btw). Well, I believe her but lately Ive been starting to wonder because I see her with wierd bruises and bruises like on her shoulders, scratches on her back, and bruises on her boobs, and she always makes up strange excuses like she doesn't know how they got there or that she ran into something for the one on her boob.My question is am I a fool or should I believe her! Please help, I'm conflicted!

2007-05-06 20:40:02 · 27 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

me and the ex have been broken up for 3 1/2 yrs ... i was over him and went on to a better guy (he also got a new girlfriend) .over time i heard from people the stupid things he was saying about me, real unbelievable lies..... all this was happening in my senior year, i graduated high school one year ago, so i haven't seen him for a while (thank god) but i was on myspace recently & saw his profile while browing around... he had on their a slideshow of his friends from high school and also had a picture of ME on there that he drew on and wrote something really stupid under it ...
what the hell is up with this dude? i just get so mad cause i never confronted him about the lies he was spreadin in school , i was just waiting for it all to blow over since it was my last year, but apparently he hasn't stopped the stupid sh** yet...
whats the best state of mind to be in over this? should i finally act out or just continue with life like i've been doing??

2007-05-06 20:39:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been hanging around this girl for almost 10 yrs. She has betrayed my trust a few times. We have nothing in common. I have been a great friend over the years, but she hasnt. Should I giver her another chance or call it quits? And if I call it quits should I tell her?

2007-05-06 20:35:48 · 12 answers · asked by Got Curves? 6 in Friends

when a guy said: i rather have the freedem to piss on your gave. and said thats at least how much you ow me .
what does that mean?

2007-05-06 20:31:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Provide a yes or no. I love him but he's hiding something. I've confronted him several times about it , he won't roll. It's hurting my relationship. I wish I could just let it go, but I can't I feel like when the truth surfaces it'll be horrible so I am in constant react mode.

2007-05-06 20:27:11 · 27 answers · asked by fbarkon 4 in Singles & Dating

It started out as a bit of fun and as a joke for me to dress as a woman,now im finding it as addictive as a drug can be even though the only drug i take is beer.Ive now taken my crossdressing out in public and im dressing myself as a woman everywhere i go,pubs,clubs,movies etc,shopping!!i feel like ive unleashed a monster lol,help?what to do???what should i do?

2007-05-06 20:24:23 · 18 answers · asked by crossdresser 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been dating my bf for a while but lately he has been complaining the i neva hug him or do anything special for him..any hinters on wat i culd do for him? thx

2007-05-06 20:23:25 · 12 answers · asked by frizzhopalong 1 in Singles & Dating

i think he wants to date me . Sure i do like the guy & he is nice but i do not feel he is caring much about me or showing me much love..... i do not want to date a person who does not respect me enough or not treat me well as a friend.
i told him that I miss the romance in this relation .... i have tried what i can in this relation but he is not improving & I can not see him caring

2007-05-06 20:20:12 · 6 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Singles & Dating

I know this guy from my team (we worked together on a project) and I suspected that he liked me a bit because he was always nicer to me than any of the other guys with who I worked. Recently, after finishing the assignment we had few drinks in a bar and he was touchy freely with me which I didn't mind because I liked him. We left the bar and he walked me home and he asked me if I needed to be walked to my room. I didn't want to give him the wrong impression so I panicked and declined but truthfully I wouldn't mind kissing him or cuddling. I just didn't want to go all the way. Now, if I invite him over will that give him the wrong impression? Is it different if a chick invites a guy over than if a guy invites himself over?

2007-05-06 20:19:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A few yrs. ago there was this single woman that would talk to me a little but when my huband was around she would laugh and joke with him like I wasn't there.when Ispoke to him about it his reaction was defensive and that he didn't see it. Our daughters are the same age so we run into each other at times. I would not go to events because of this if he went. Not a good thing. The sport they are in is away from home alot and because of work he doesn't go.Her and I have started to become somewhat freinds.I have told him how happy I that things are better and that we actually talk. The team had a car wash my husband and I and her helped with it. Towards the end of it was whe the problem came about. They were as a team she washed he sprayed. There was soap on her face he jokingly is going to spray her to get it off.See her see him. I complain that we don't do anything together that we don't have fun. If he teams up shouldn't it be with the wife? He doesn't understand why it upsets me.

2007-05-06 20:16:46 · 5 answers · asked by wrplm57 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I never have, with the exception of 3 years older max but I'm only in my early 20s so I guess that would've been weird when I was younger lol. But now, I'm wondering what it would be like. Have you ever dated an older man? What did you like/dislike about the relationship? If you haven't, would you consider it? I think I would b/c it seems that most of the guys my age are really stupid and immature, and can't even hold their own in an intelligent conversation. haha what do you think?

2007-05-06 20:16:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i took most of your advice and dropped that zero now im on the hunt for my hero so if you know an older wealthy man looking for a young SEXY model mixed with asian and black seen me an email......lol

2007-05-06 20:12:51 · 15 answers · asked by alexus w 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-06 20:12:36 · 5 answers · asked by Kamal 1 in Friends

I am married to a wonderful man, he is deployed, and has been gone for 21 months. he won't return for 6 more months and i am tired of being lonely. I WONT cheat, but what can i do, other than get out more, cause i do that enough, to help ease the feeling. I want to have someone give me a hug when i am down, or a person that will sit with me if i am in need of company at 3 am. my husband is my best friend, and its not that I don't have other friends, they all go to bed early, and i am not a early to bed person. my son is 4yrs old and we both stay up late at night. The computer isn't as comforting as having a person let you fall asleep talking to them.

2007-05-06 20:11:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-05-06 20:10:12 · 21 answers · asked by platoniclove28 2 in Singles & Dating

I thought you werent allowed to make all the black people sit away from the white people anymore.

2007-05-06 20:09:45 · 10 answers · asked by clayton b 1 in Friends

We will be married a yr in july, I might build it in sept. But befor I do I want her to sign a legal document stating if she divorces me she wont GET HALF of the house. This might be our end. Is it wrong to want this security? She states she doesnt want the house but Why will she not sign it? To prove. She tells me to trust her. but I dont trust anyone with half intrest in a $175'000.00 house. What to do? She says then lets get a div before I build it. Im like ok "kick rocks", am I wrong? Or do I need to just throw the dice and possibly lose my house?

2007-05-06 20:07:24 · 19 answers · asked by dvdlevns 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my girl (Hindu) so much though I can’t leave but
Her mother & my Grand mother is sister our family
Is also close the Question is do we make any thing wrong &
Apologies to our family will they accept us ?

2007-05-06 20:02:39 · 5 answers · asked by Nayan Sinha 1 in Weddings

I know not to answer your phone if it is your lover in front of your boyfriend, and that you could just leave your phone on vibrate all together. Never leave your phone unattended in front of the boyfriend that you are cheating on. I always use protection with my lover. Do any professional cheaters have any good tips for me?

2007-05-06 20:00:36 · 29 answers · asked by juniper555 5 in Singles & Dating

Why is that when ever i do laundery i am always left with at least one odd sock this time i have two? is there a sock burgeler out there,and why is it always mens sock that go walk abouts, Does this happen to any one else?

2007-05-06 19:55:08 · 26 answers · asked by robin 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-06 19:53:17 · 16 answers · asked by Desperate Loser 5 in Singles & Dating

I PLAN ON GETTING MARRIED AND MY FIANCE WANTS TO LEGALLY ADOPT MY SON , HIS BIOLOGICAL FATHER IS IN ANOTHER STATE. HOW DO WE GET IT SO MY FIANCE CAN ADOPT MY SON?

2007-05-06 19:52:05 · 2 answers · asked by twisted sista 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this girl i really like but eveything i say or do is not working to get me closer to her..anyone got some suggestions?

2007-05-06 19:51:09 · 12 answers · asked by pimp_ology87 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm a very jealous girl and he too... i don't let him hangout with his friends because he had once flirt with a girl and i'm scared that he'll do that again... i can't forget all the mistakes he had done like he lost our anniversary ring and many lies and promises he didn't keep... but i love him so much and i can't afford to lose him..wat am i gonna do? somehow i feel that he also love me..he visits me at my house and even fetch me from school. he loves my family. but wat about those fights we're having almost every day?

2007-05-06 19:49:51 · 9 answers · asked by girlnextdoor 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and have lived together for just over a year. We always talk about the future and what it holds together and both say we want to always be together. We both have been divorced (we are in out 30s) but he is marriage shy. He says people change when they get married etc. He got kinda tipsy the other night and was talking about getting married alot but then he got shy and change the subject really quick. He stated that he does want to get married but in the light of the day (and 100% sober) he gets freaked out. any suggestions?

2007-05-06 19:48:46 · 12 answers · asked by Miranda's Mommy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that women always want a man who is employed? Let's just say that I choose not to be employed . I am financially sound ,and need not really work again for money. Let's again say that I am comfortable with managing the home ,and that will keep me happy . I will continue to be the 'breadwinner' ,and the girl's contribution is not needed.
What do you girls think ?

2007-05-06 19:46:19 · 11 answers · asked by 24carat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am wondering what could be the best to do, to talk with husband about divorce then with my boys or to let know my teenagers about the fact that I want to divorce their dad before talking with their dad?

2007-05-06 19:45:48 · 11 answers · asked by getting_a_new_life 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy still likes his ex gf. When i confronted him abt it he accused me of hurting him real bad. He said that he still loves me and that im helping him to forget his ex gf. He also thinks its perfectly normal for him to like his ex gf still. I'm extremly hurt.

2007-05-06 19:44:05 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am seeking a woman who will dominate me and force me to wear the same clothes she wears to have a form of control over me,is this normal to think like this?whats making me think this way by wanting a woman as a girlfriend who will enjoy controlling me in this way?

2007-05-06 19:43:25 · 9 answers · asked by crossdresser 1 in Other - Family & Relationships