i am seeking a woman who will dominate me and force me to wear the same clothes she wears to have a form of control over me,is this normal to think like this?whats making me think this way by wanting a woman as a girlfriend who will enjoy controlling me in this way?
2007-05-06 19:43:25 · 9 answers · asked by crossdresser 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hello Crossdresser,
There is no such thing as "forced feminization" short of a gun being held to your head by a woman with serious PMS.
What you want is a woman who will order you to do what you already want to do. I'll bet you even have things in just the right sizes so you can be "forced" to get your fantasies in just the perfect way. Right?
Can't you give yourself permission to crossdress and be as feminine as you like? I know for a lot of crossdressers the only way to really enjoy being girly without guilt is for it somehow not to be their idea while secreting hoping for nothing else. But you don't really need that to do it for yourself.
Non-professional dominant women want to do what THEY want to do with submissive men. Not do what the men want done to them as if it were a script to follow. Girlfriends might do the job for you out of affection or as an interesting twist but doing it all the time becomes a chore. For professionals, it's just another very well-paid acting job.
I really do hope you do find a lady who cares enough for you to indulge you the way you like. Just be as diligent in meeting her needs as she does for yours.
Tara
2007-05-07 04:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by Tara S 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wow, you are very lucky to have such a supportive girlfriend. It sounds as though your fetishes crossover nicely. It can only be your decision about being forced to dress and go out. It can be a wonderful feeling to step outside dressed for the first time, it gives you a huge adrenaline rush!! Sounds like you aren't too worried about that happening, so why not go for it? Good luck
2016-05-17 07:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this answers your question but maybe it can help. I would go all the way back as far as Mary Magdeline and the Divinity with this one. Jesus was often portrayed as a divine mercy in the Bible expecially toward women: when he went to the whorehouse and preached to the women, when he rose how the women came and greated him, His mother Mary, amongst others. Many people even believe that He had women closer to him in his life and in the Divince Code, he may have even had a daughter. Basically, as far as time can tell men have always had a fashion for women and women for men... "you are what you eat" eg. you are what you worship. Shamans over time have also favored men who were thinner and acted feminine, not my words, look it up if you don't believe me. I am not saying it is right to dress up like a woman, i believe somewhere in the old testament it forbids people to wear the clothing of the opposite sex, but any of these reasons could contribute.
2007-05-06 19:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by dj_rexital 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think its great im realy into Forced-feminization. and the woman I have now is all for it . She said that she would Force me into Womanhood wearther I liked it or not. so far she has ?
2014-08-08 05:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forced feminization ???? no idea Better consult a psychiatrist or gett off
2015-10-29 20:35:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not uncommon. It might be hard to find, but if a woman likes you and is pretty open and giving, she might be willing to try it. Or you can try advertising for someone like that, in newspapers where they have those kinds of ads.
2007-05-06 19:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe u like girls than boys (gay) just kidding its not common but most people are in the same situation.
2007-05-06 19:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by The Samster 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not normal. Consult a psychiatrist.
2007-05-06 19:57:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have no idea, you need to seek psychiatric help.
2007-05-06 19:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by thepeacelover01 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋