hi guys plz help m here,,, ok here is my story i met this guy on the net 3 weeks ago... we exchanged pictures and also we saw each other in the cam. He is very impressed wiht my looks and so am I.. he told me that he is 23 and i told him that i was also 23.... but actually i am26... well ok i lied about my age...he told me the other day that he really likes me n vise versa. N he also told me that he hates liars... now i cant tell him that i lied him about my age... what should i do now? do u guys think that he will be upset aftering me adding this or will never talk to me again???
2007-05-06 20:51:11 · 17 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to him when u get to meet him
2007-05-06 20:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by Radha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how confident are u , that he told u his correct age ?
darling when he says dat he hates liar, there is sumthing fishy,
i mean its just 3 weeks, net is not the very best thing to know a person properly, people can be smart with words, sweet like sugar with words, but are bitter from heart, just like me :P,
U need to know more abt this guy, be4 u bump into any conclusion, and for the time being dunt tell ur real age.
time will do the needful
cheers.
2007-05-07 04:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by jam99_2u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, u need to tell him the truth about ur age and tell him that u were feeling insecure when u first met him that's why u had to lie...he'll probably understand in due time. Remember no relationship can survive on the basis of lies, by telling the truth...even you'll feel better and hav a clear conscience...and AS IF he never lied in his entire LIFE...c'mon...
2007-05-07 15:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by Surya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See miss... no one is there in the universe without telling lies. We can say lies upto the level which cant get affect to any body. coming to the age level U know very well our Indian great player Mr. Sachin T'kr, he married a woman who is 6yr old than him. Tell about ur exact age d'nt hide. He may knows in future anyhow. But first meet him then look for gud mood of him then tell him open without hiding anything. I wish u goodluck for your future.
2007-05-07 04:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by SANKAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you were looking over old yahoo answers and saw you punched in the wrong age and you are actually 26 instead,and say it was an honest mistake, and you hope it is still ok to chat ..thats the best thing to do,,, try to be honest,because there are many other people who are more your age if you think the age is a problem..actually, age IS only a number.
2007-05-07 03:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one thing u should not lie. but as already u lied u can overcom it. u say him frankly u did a mistake n want to reveal it. and tel him to think positively. and if he says no dont get upset coz u wer knowing that this is going to happen as he know the real thing. but just tel me how can u manage being elder than the guy???????/ my advice for u is be in truth n finally and surely u wil find someone that matches u. and if that guy really ikes u then he wont min n accept u..
good luck
2007-05-07 04:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by trinail 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh gosh stop worrying, just stick to your age as 23, believe me internet infaturation never last that long, if it does turn to something else, well then you can always say you are 26 and you said you were 23 then bec you did not what to chase him off...
2007-05-07 03:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by magicspice4u 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you have a confession to make. Tell him that you was dishonest about your age, but now that you know him better you feel uncomfortble about lying to him. Reassure him that you have been honest about everything else, but you thought that he may have a problem with the age difference.
The longer you take to be honest with him, the more reason he has to doubt everything that you said.
2007-05-07 04:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't be foolish. Girl's lie about their age universally, and it is not a lie. It is a girls right to believe that she is younger than her cronological age. It is accepted worldwide. But I advise keep quiet about it, don't make it a issue, or feel guilty about it, but spend time to plan what u intend to do with him romantically.
2007-05-07 04:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to be afraid to tell the truth and it is better to tell him now and i dont think he would be upset for telling the truth even if you lied before.
2007-05-07 04:19:18 · answer #10 · answered by anand_e_j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if he really like you then he will definitely forgive you...you just continue with your relationships and by seeing good times just tell him the truth. but be alert that he should know this truth only from your mouth otherwise he will feel very bad.
2007-05-07 06:10:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋