Provide a yes or no. I love him but he's hiding something. I've confronted him several times about it , he won't roll. It's hurting my relationship. I wish I could just let it go, but I can't I feel like when the truth surfaces it'll be horrible so I am in constant react mode.
2007-05-06 20:27:11 · 27 answers · asked by fbarkon 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I caught him in a lie. It killed the trust big time. His cell is "supposively" broken although I have turned it on before when he was not there and called and heard it ring. ( Most of the time it's straight to voicemail, because it's off) I asked again because it was on again. The whole avoidance again. Maybe he's holding onto old baggage or I'm just being paranoid. Trust is important but communication is key.
2007-05-06 20:50:59 · update #1
It's plain that he's holding on to you till someone comes along... and if it works out for him he will dump you.. if it doesn't and he hasn't broken off with you he will make use of you... he is in a win-win situations. before he dumps you.. kick him in the butt and set things straight!. There are so many fishes in the ocean.. why stick to one? You are not married to him yet... go out and enjoy your single hood and I'm sure there are men out there who has much better looks and character and money... the last part is important in a relationship.. can never have enough...
2007-05-07 22:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by Smarty Pants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! You really should. I mean yea jumping to conclusions isn't great but the truth is, if this guy makes you feel uneasy, what future is there in the relationship? Honesty is important, and if he's not 100% honest, how can he ever make you happy?
There has to be a reason why he's making you feel that way. What woman has the time of day to go over little details in her mind again and again to try to figure out what the secret is?? That will drive you crazy!! Who needs it? If he was worried about your feelings, he should make sure you're happy. Kick him to the curb, girl...there are better guys out there!
2007-05-06 20:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-05-06 20:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by Babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if it bothers you that much and of you can't get it out of him, yes, yes, yes.
Trust is one of the most important factors in a relationship and he is not giving you ANY reason to trust him.
You're hurting, no communication from him and he needs to go. One shouldn't "hide" in a relationship.
2007-05-06 20:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by NoSurrender 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what your going through, and let me tell you this, 90% of the time when you feel that something is wrong or going on, it is! Listen to your gut, listen to your heart, Love is not supposed to hurt! I know its hard to walk away from someone you love, cause I'm trying to walk away from a 9year relationship for the same reason, sweat heart. If you are young, Yes! do it now before you invest 9-10 years of your life into someone who only cares about himself. I feel your pain. You are going to get through this.
2007-05-06 20:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why stick around, when there r 2 many fish in the sea. All you have 2 do is go fishing & u will catch a better fish,life is too short enjoy it while u can
2007-05-06 20:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by Danao 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - if he;s hiding something it maybe be that he's cheating.
so whats going on? add some more info.. he may actually be cheating then. what's he doin
(second reply)
well then he must be cheatin. If he doesnt tell u what it is guve him ultimatim or kick him out. u dont want a cheatin boyfriend livin in yo house!
2007-05-06 20:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by MedTq367 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-05-06 20:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he does not tell you the truth, he will need to leave. Relationships can not be based on avoiding problems. You need to know what the problem is. Of course, once you know what the problem is, you may want to put him out anyway!
2007-05-06 20:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not yet see what he got to say first. If he can't tell you then you got to find out what's going on, because you can't keep letting this worry you. When you find out the truth then you know how you going to handle it!
2007-05-06 20:38:11 · answer #10 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋