i'm a very jealous girl and he too... i don't let him hangout with his friends because he had once flirt with a girl and i'm scared that he'll do that again... i can't forget all the mistakes he had done like he lost our anniversary ring and many lies and promises he didn't keep... but i love him so much and i can't afford to lose him..wat am i gonna do? somehow i feel that he also love me..he visits me at my house and even fetch me from school. he loves my family. but wat about those fights we're having almost every day?
2007-05-06 19:49:51 · 9 answers · asked by girlnextdoor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to learn to let the small things go, flirting is what guys do, haven't you had a guy flirt with you & you didn't take it seriously cause you know thats just how he is. My ex used to be the same way he flirted with everybody & I do mean everybody.You can't control anybody but yourself so stop trying to control him. The tighter you hold onto the reins the harder he will pull against them.
2007-05-06 20:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by thepeacelover01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did the wrong thing by being overly jealous and protective....try to let loose a little...if he truly loves you....he'll know how to stay loyal....if he wants to cheat no matter how much you hold on to him..he still will...and by holding on to him too tightly...will just lead him to lie to you even more....
All this is easier said then done....but if you love him and cherish your relationship...try to give each other some space...sit down and try to talk to him to make him understand what you're going through...and tell him that you're willing to sacrifice ur time with him (even though you dont feel like it) to make things work....Hopefully he'll appreciate what you do....While he's with his friends...you can either spent ur own time with ur friends or just spent time on ur own....to beautify or pamper urself...maybe put on a facial mask...go or manicure...go on a budget shopping spree....and you can even show off the new clothes you got...and he might fall head over heels for you again....that he's not willing to let you go...
2007-05-06 22:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by Aranel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesnt sound like a good relationship. if you dont trust him and him you then you are doomed. One person should NEVER dictate who the other one can be freinds with that is controlling and wrong. Love is not what you have described in your question its something not healthy. You need to work on your jelousy. its a wasted emotion that could ruin alot of things.
2007-05-06 19:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by Miranda's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to control ur anger. Always try for that. Because there will be sound only when two hands are clapped to gether. One hand dosent make any noise. So you keep quiet automatically his sound will also decrease gradually.
ALL THE BEST FOR BOTH OF YOU
2007-05-06 19:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by abina s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your fighting everyday then maybe it isn't meant to be but if you have feelings that are real then talk to him about it and see if you can work it out without arguing cause fighting is not healthy in a relationship. dont keep him on a short leash cause then he will leave but dont give him to much slack either
2007-05-06 19:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by twisted sista 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he lies, then he has real problems and you shouldn't be with him. You don't love him, you have made up in your mind that he is someone he's not. Break up and find someone truthful you can trust.
2007-05-06 19:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Small things do matter...if you guys are always fighting over them then maybe you arent right for each other
2007-05-06 19:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a very jealous girl? No wonder you two is always arguing.
2007-05-06 19:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-05-06 19:54:34 · answer #9 · answered by jicarlo h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋