Family & Relationships - 8 May 2007

Im a 19 year old student and i have always fancied much older men. The oldest man i have been with is 37 and have experimented with older than that as well as come close emotionally. dont know what it is about them and there is no reason for this, many people have said it was something to do with a father figure As i never met my father until i was 10 and have only met him 3 times to this day.
It isnt money or better sex so i was wondering whether anyone was in the same situation and whether i should look for a way to stop this feelings and concentrate on men my own age or at least not any older than 15 years older.
Im not interested in whether people dont like it or think it is sick!
the thought of being with someone my age or few years older is wierd.. its like they are really young... even though not much difference in our age.also the size of there body... its like a teenager or something. i like the big.. mans body if u know wot i mean? The oldest i have fancied is 54!

2007-05-08 23:54:32 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently my best friends boyfriend introduced me to a friend of his. We hit it off talking until the wee hours of the morning. He gave may every indication that he was interested, and i also made him aware that i felt the the same. Here's the problem we met up last night since i had nothing to do, well everything was well until i suggested we catch a movie in his hometown. He said he didn't want to be seen with me there becuase some of his friends have started rumors about him and he doesn't want any started about me. He said we could go anywhere else to see a movie , but never there. I asked him if he was married which of course he denied. After our so called date ended he took me to an empty parking lot to hug me and give me a kiss. When i called him later to tell him goodnight he didn't answer, and the second time i called his phone was off. I suspect he's married, but i am just so confused. Any input in this situation would be helpful Thanks.

2007-05-08 23:44:58 · 4 answers · asked by ladetuspesadillas 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-08 23:36:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm the oldest. Then my brother, followed by my two sisters. Mom & Dad had 40 yrs together.True it was very traumatic losing her partner. Now , that very same day on ... my brother and I were literately excluded from them.... Not allowed in my moms house at all. Not able to be involved in plannig his funeral. Calling the Police to escort me out of my house in which my dad owned. No where to go. Outraged whenI asked to see the trust. Finding out my sisters are to be exctr. after her. Me knowing my dads business,along w/ his estate with his brothers, are not being delt with accordingly. Totally ignoring the business w/ my dads greedy brothers. Insisting not to talk to my brother and I, now going on 3 yrs. Never got to mourn together as a family. Mom saying to me..."It's me, {Sis}and{Sis} Its a shame .We were so close. My dad always kept his business affairs from her. I kinda feel , I intimidated her toward my fathers estate. Its like my bro & I have no more family. They're so hateful .

2007-05-08 23:14:21 · 2 answers · asked by Polino G 1 in Family

And when did that stereotype start?

2007-05-08 23:14:14 · 7 answers · asked by Pyro 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay say you've had a dream and it had this man in it that you have never seen before and you fall in love with them.

Is it possible to fall in love with a man in a dream? Where you have never met or seen them before ?

Just like to know what you would think and do..

2007-05-08 23:04:26 · 10 answers · asked by gottaluvme 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

And it says in the letter how much i want him,this and that. I cant prove to my sister that he is idiot, because right now i am in another country. But she believes him,seems to me. Anyway, how can i brake his password and see what love-letters " i write" to him?

2007-05-08 23:02:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

her personality is always changing one minute shes nice and the next shes a total ***** and she keeps picking up other peoples personality and when shes not shes rele bland. What the hells up wid that??

2007-05-08 22:56:24 · 12 answers · asked by :) 1 in Friends

I started texing and talking to a guy who's picture and profile was online on a 'friends' website. I thought he was cute and we swapped numbers and I had a really good feeling about him and we had a lot of fun talking to eachother. Then we met up on monday, and am ashamed to say that I didnt like his looks. He didnt look anything like his pictures but he was still the same sweet and funny guy i'd started to get to know. I've since told him because i wanted to be honest, that he's not quite my type but I would like to carry on being friends. Being the nice guy he is, he told me he's happy with that. But I've been feeling pretty crap after that and I dont know wheter I did the right thing. I dont think am after someone whos incredibly gorgeous, but someone who i at least find attractive to being in a relationship with. I just feel really awful about this cos i thought he could be the one for me. Should I try again with him?? or leave be...??

2007-05-08 22:55:51 · 20 answers · asked by Abs-Ashl3y 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm on such a downer and i can't help being horrible, thing is, i know i'm doing it. I'm so unhappy but not with him. He's perfect and loving.

2007-05-08 22:54:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-08 22:47:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my girlfriend for 18 months, but just before christmas, after she'd been in france for a month, and I was feeling very low, I cheated on her with a man. I've regretted it ever since, but I feel I have to tell her. It has not happened again and it meant nothing to me. How do I tell her?.... What do you think my chances are that we'll stay together?

2007-05-08 22:46:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-08 22:43:50 · 21 answers · asked by ruchi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-08 22:42:15 · 39 answers · asked by l4zy_gti 2 in Friends

they want us get rid of our motocycles, guns, race cars, tools, hobbies, playing sports, watching sports, working out at the gym, hopes dreams, ect

2007-05-08 22:33:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-08 22:32:34 · 18 answers · asked by aaaa b 1 in Singles & Dating

i kinda just met this girl, yeah i can admit i like her, i dont know if she likes me back, maybe but she may just wanna be friends...i talk to her every so often, we both dance in the same complex...our main method of communication is e-mails, probably because i don't have her for any classes, or most of the time were not even in the school at the same time ...whenever i see her i would say hi and bye nothing much and she would do the same.(shes a much better dancer then me)
so i broke the ice by telling her that i was at one of her performances and that she performed awesome...she said thank you, and said she had noticed me in the audience.
Well anyways we've been writing to one another, and i always compliment her on whatever i can mainly her dancing skills...i know its good to let her know that what she practices for is really paying off and whatnot, but Am coming on too strong?
should i stop complimenting her so much?

2007-05-08 22:31:36 · 12 answers · asked by ChR!S 2 in Singles & Dating

met a guy around 10 months ago, we gelled right from the start we were like best friends as well as seeing each other. We bonded very very well especially on a intellectual levels we would be up all night talking for hours. But discovered this guy is a classic commitment phobic that finds a relationship a severe threat to his freedom and says that he just isnt ready to settle down yet for his own reasons. I of course wanted a relationship. So I told him that it would be best if we went our seperate ways, but he didnt want that and couldnt understand why we couldnt at least be friends. He also said that he doesnt want to hurt me and has 100% respect for me and that I am an articulate, good looking, intellegent girl & that if he was looking for something I would be the one no doubt! so we remained friends without sex but stayed close, but then I couldnt take anymore as my feelings were getting intense. So I didnt speak or answer his calls for 2 months so that I could try & move on.

2007-05-08 22:31:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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2007-05-08 22:28:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a birthday to plan for my soon to be 2 years old daughter and i don't know what to do for her. Do anyone have any suggestions?

I don't want to do a party. Just something outside the home that's exciting and memorable.

2007-05-08 22:23:13 · 5 answers · asked by Shonta 1 in Family

I’m just wondering if there are any guys left who don’t look at every female as a sex object but instead at women individually and what they like about her. I know not every guy is a pervert obviously but are there still guys that are waiting to find one girl they love and want that image of her only? I'm personally waiting till I'm married to have sex and I only want the image of my husband in my mind but I'm curious to know if any guys have this same mentality also. It’s just a question that’s on my mind and I’m curious about what everyone else thinks and yes I’m serious so be nice if you don’t mind :)

2007-05-08 21:38:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In the relationship, if the girl tells the guy that she does not want him hanging out with any girl that he was previously interested in, the guy listens and doesn't do it, yet when you tell her the same thing about a guy that she used to be interested in it's ok for her to hangout with him because they're "just friends"? She says that she doesn't see him in "that way" any more, and everytime you bring it up about how it bothers you she's gotta get defensive about it because it's ok for her to hangout with ex-interests, but not the other way around. I don't get it.

2007-05-08 21:37:18 · 5 answers · asked by ridefast85 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it when you get physical with someone else other than your spouse? Or once you actually develop a much deeper relationship with that person?

2007-05-08 21:36:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'd like to listen men's opinion.... :)

2007-05-08 21:33:38 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-08 21:32:39 · 18 answers · asked by sweet companion 1 in Marriage & Divorce

even when they are in the wrong, my ex never stops asking for more and more things!!! why do you girls do this?

2007-05-08 21:28:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that when I was single the guys were extremely far and few between? Now that I have a boyfriend (whom I care about very deeply I might add), dudes seem to be so much more interested in me and will pursue with all there might! Its strange how things work hey, just wanted to know if you guyz and gals feel me on this one?

2007-05-08 21:27:41 · 10 answers · asked by Expecting ... ? 6 in Singles & Dating

...do you think is best for marriage?
I'm 20 years old and trust me...college takes all my time and space in my mind so I'm definately not thinking about marrying my boyfriend right now but....when do you think is the best time and age to do so??
Sometimes it crosses my mind and like every woman...I wonder how everything will happen...when...where.... :)

2007-05-08 21:26:53 · 16 answers · asked by SusiQ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Besides having a backyard wedding where can i get married for cheap. Want to go to an island like Hawaii or Aruba and have a private ceremony for real cheap and just a quick ceremony that wont cost a lot of money, can you please advise of some really good ideas and places to have the wedding I definitely think i want it to take place at beach somewhere please advise

2007-05-08 21:12:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hi, my job demands travelling a lot. Many times my secretary travels with me and she is also married. Of late, she is trying to indulge with me...... Of course, She is a real cute girl. She promises that she will keep things secret. Should I go for that? Only during weekends, I am at home and you can imagine, what I loose in this life......

2007-05-08 21:10:32 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce