i kinda just met this girl, yeah i can admit i like her, i dont know if she likes me back, maybe but she may just wanna be friends...i talk to her every so often, we both dance in the same complex...our main method of communication is e-mails, probably because i don't have her for any classes, or most of the time were not even in the school at the same time ...whenever i see her i would say hi and bye nothing much and she would do the same.(shes a much better dancer then me)
so i broke the ice by telling her that i was at one of her performances and that she performed awesome...she said thank you, and said she had noticed me in the audience.
Well anyways we've been writing to one another, and i always compliment her on whatever i can mainly her dancing skills...i know its good to let her know that what she practices for is really paying off and whatnot, but Am coming on too strong?
should i stop complimenting her so much?
2007-05-08 22:31:36 · 12 answers · asked by ChR!S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take advice from a girl.... of course girls like to be complimented as long as they come from the heart you could compliment her but don't over do it .... sometimes it's just annoying but of course compliments should be given too.... like hey nice shirt.... or you were pretty great out there not too much and make them simple
2007-05-08 22:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by rockin'_the_world 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't compliment her every conversation you have. Not on the same thing anyway...believe it or not women don't always want you to kiss there u know what. Think about what you would think if all she told you was you're a good dancer, I mean would you mind hearing you have a good personality or nice smile. I would begin to think...what is the only quality i have -- my dancing? Yes you can compliment too much...just be yourself have conversations, and when you feel the time is right ask her if she would like to grab lunch or a coffee. Hope this helps just remember girls just like guys like a challenge..BE YOURSELF
2007-05-08 22:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compliments are okay. But must remember that every compliment must be from your heart. Nothing fake because if she finds out she'll gonna be so mad. And if you really like her, you have to start open up another conversation. Compliment on her performance alone wont help you in getting the girl.
2007-05-08 22:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by jacky_cheah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
complimenting on something like dance is okay, probably. but do not compliment her looks or clothing. you will seem desperate and she won't want you.
and keep compliments of all kinds to a minimum. safest is just not to compliment her at all. not until you've actually been with her for a while. i'm not telling you to insult her. obviously not. just don't be a puppy dog hanging all over her. girls hate this. this is how you get "friended."
2007-05-08 22:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by a b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you made your point--move on and have a discussion about something else. She sounds too unavailable for you--but stay friends and see what happens. The over doing issue???? It makes you supportive so don't keep doing it on and on---she gets the message. relax, smile and good luck
2007-05-08 22:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to many complements may make her uneasy, and not know what to say after a while. we love getting complements but not all the time, we run out of thank yous. so eas up some but not alot. it is good to let her know how good she is, but when you do it less often, when you do do it it means so much more.
2007-05-08 22:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it will doom you!!!!!!!!!!!
girls are so f up, they want all the compliments and attention they can get but when they feel its to much they hate it and you will pay for it big time. then they will complain cuz you dont give them enough attention so joining the rest of us we are all confused
2007-05-08 22:36:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls LOVE compliments.
Now I am reccomending to you that you ask her OUT!! Get to know her more and vise versa.
2007-05-08 22:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by gottaluvme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much can backfired.i know you wan your thoughts to be sounded. but not to the extreme. i mean given your constant praising i think she can understand what you are trying to get across to her.
2007-05-16 20:48:47 · answer #9 · answered by Shalyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything can be over done. Just do it sincerely, and don't keep repeating yourself.
2007-05-08 22:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋