2007-05-08 21:32:39 · 18 answers · asked by sweet companion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no, u shouldn't start it at all.
2007-05-08 21:36:56 · answer #1 · answered by moonrider 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No it is not. And if you are and the person ends up leaving their spouse for you you had better believe they will do the same thing to you! I know they say their spouse just doesn't understand them. That they haven't been intimate in years or their partner doesn't like sex. They say they can't leave because of finances, children, or a job. They tell you how they wished they had met you first. They tell you they only live for the moments your together. They can't stop thinking about you. They never realized true love existed until they met you. I could go on and on. But I am sure you get the point. Also how would you feel if it were your spouse that was cheating? How does it feel to know this person sees you and I am sure has sex with you but then goes home to their spouse. Also you can only spend time with them here and there. You can't introduce them to your family or friends. Your being used. This is one of the oldest tricks in the book. The married one has their cake and gets to eat it too.
2007-05-09 05:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by Paula G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not fair on you. If he is married, or she - is enjoying both lives, but in your case, only a broken spirit of a second choice.
Get out and run. Find a single one, so your life can be in perfection
2007-05-09 05:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by Spark S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not fair to anyone, especially to yourself. If they are still married they are leading you astray and most likely will not leave there other partner.
Why should they, they have the best of both worlds!
2007-05-09 05:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by Cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love happens, anytime, anyplace, with anyone. Its like death. We have no control over it. Its not fair to the persons spouse, but I beleive that if two people were destined to be together, then no one or nothing should come in their way.
2007-05-09 04:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love happens, its the chemistry between two people. Love is not deliberate, you can't stop your heart from thinking about someone. You might ignore it, but if the feelings are same bothways, its not wrong.
2007-05-11 20:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by WHAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dont think it is fair.............coz its not good
there r more singles in these world who r more beautiful....so y dont u try them.....when one get married then we have to leave them.,,,not fair to interfere in their relation..............
In my view it is a stupid thing to do like that....
2007-05-09 04:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by ss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not fair. How would you like it if someone else was seeing your husband?
2007-05-09 04:48:45 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all is fair in love and world i say its up to the other spouse to keep up with there partner if your spouse decide to have a fling its not the person fault your spouse will cheat on you.
2007-05-09 04:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
U can't get all the privileges unless being a widow.
2007-05-09 04:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by Sunder D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't help it sometimes i guess, but it is probably better not to act on it if the spouse is tougher than you and/or psycho.
2007-05-09 05:49:15 · answer #11 · answered by a b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋