Family & Relationships - 8 May 2007

He's my ex-fiance.. And I can't seem to let it go. If I don't call him I won't talk to him, but when I do call him (about every few weeks) he says he's glad to hear from me. he came here this weekend for my g-mothers funeral and we slept together (2x) and he was being overly affectionate... But then he says he likes another girl that he's been seeing.....But THEN he makes sure to point out that she's not his girlfriend..........????? I thought he still loved me but should I just let go and call it quits???\


Btw...when he was here this weekend he "accidentally" left his razor here. And he calls and leaves a voicemail about a cheap a** razor. I offered to give it to his friend to pass on to him because I'm better off not seeing him too much. He said to keep it at my house because it will be safer there..lol wtf??? Why in the hell would you call about a stupid razor.

We split on really bad terms but every time I talk to him I get the feeling he's hesitant to get off the phone...Help!

2007-05-08 20:57:56 · 7 answers · asked by Nikki S 4 in Singles & Dating

i am unmarried girl and soon to be maried with unknown person. i am really very scared . i dont know what will occur after marriage? hows my husband or what will happen in first night i am virgin
but i am vey much scared for my wedding night? i dont know how my husband behaves.

2007-05-08 20:51:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

well I really shouldn't be asking this cause I know why but how do people deal with there grandchild leaving there home after being with you for so long , 3 years,my son came to live with us that long ago after divorcing his wife for abuse to their daughter.I have been like a mother/granny to her all this time
don't really know the wife that he has married,they got married so fast (and no she isn't pregnant).How does one deal with this? I know their isn't a whole lot to do but keep an eye on the situation,but you think my son would look at her and me and see its just horrible.I know that she needs to be with her dad.
I don't know has anyone else been through this and if so how did you deal.Please anyone,THANKS

2007-05-08 20:43:01 · 7 answers · asked by becca 2 in Family

I am a 24 year old pediatrician. I have naturally blonde hair, and blue eyes. I am 5'3" and 108lbs. I own, and operate my own private medical practice, and own numberous homes through-out the U.S. which I have worked for, and bought by my self. I have never been married, and don't have any kids. However I would like to get married with in the next 4 years. But it seems that no guys even want to date me. I am sweet, kind, compassionate, sucessful, fun loving, sassy at times, and I love to laugh and I smile all the time. I have the BEST family and friends in the universe too.

2007-05-08 20:42:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-08 20:42:10 · 24 answers · asked by blacky 1 in Singles & Dating

was dating this guy.. for more than 6 months.. i didn't know that he had a GF of 5 years.. i was the OTHER GIRL.. and i didn't even know about it.. he used me.. emotionally.. financially.. sexually.. u name it.. he was all take.. to make things worst, he keeps bragging about his exploits.. god!! i'm so frustrated.. so bitter.. i want to get back at him.. make him feel the pain..

i'm thinking of letting the girl know.. so that they'll break up or something.. i'm not really sure thou.. it's just that i'm so mad.. cuz i know that i didn't deserve to be treated like that..

can anyone help me out?

2007-05-08 20:41:54 · 25 answers · asked by KaTaRiNaDaL 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi...Ok my friend took my Laptop for a few days and is fixing it for me for free. I asked him what can i do or give you for it and he keeps saying nothing...But i feel like i owe him something, he also burnt 3 dvds 4 me that i have been dieing to see...What's a great idea...and plz nothing about sex!!

2007-05-08 20:37:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Pepole are judge with out them knowing you. do they think they know every thing? Take a hrad kook at yourself, then you can see who you realy are! Re:Broken Heart.

2007-05-08 20:37:02 · 17 answers · asked by It' all good 1 in Singles & Dating

My partner always buys me cheap presents. for xmas i got cheap straighteners and candles. His son got £175 phone. It didnt bother me too much but he has bought me an engagement ring and left receipt lying about - it cost £80. I wouldnt mind but he earns over 2K in his hand a month and has savings. Also last month he bought his ex wifes daughter a watch that was nearly £200 .

I feel like i am being a selfish and spoilt re this would anyone else feel upset. I am not usually so materialistic but this has hurt me and makes me feel second best on what is supposed to be a special day.????? .

2007-05-08 20:29:41 · 38 answers · asked by cottontail 5 in Weddings

I have a friend with whom I'd like more than just dinner once in a while. We're friends, but I'd like more.

I was thinking that next time we're out to dinner, before we get to the restaurant I pull her aside and kiss her. Simple. Straightforward.

If she's interested, I would know soon enough.

If she isn't - I'd understand.

2007-05-08 20:26:29 · 3 answers · asked by espnfan4now 2 in Friends

A friend has moved in with my partner and me for a few months (I'm pregnant and she's moving out before the baby comes), and we're having problems. She's just very thoughtless and immature, not purposefully hurtful, but this has to stop.

The issues aren't huge: leaving trash around the house, leaving the shower curtain open (the floor, towels,and reading materials get soaked), leaving electronics (lights, TV, and high AC) on when she leaves the house, staying on our home phone for HOURS when we're not home (no call-waiting; have missed important messages because of this).

We're trying to help out a friend in need, but we feel she is taking advantage of our kindness by being so thoughtless. We try to be fair: we charge only $200 a month for rent, utilities, and internet use (she has a cell phone; our home phone isn't included). I've asked her to stop, and she apologizes, but she just doesn't think of our feelings or property long enough to change. What else can we try?

2007-05-08 20:25:23 · 15 answers · asked by grayhare 6 in Friends

My friend introduced me to this male last week. He took me to dinner and a movie. When he brought me back to my apartment, he asked if he could come up.. (come up?! for what?!) I told him that I had to work the next day and made up some excuses. Last night he asked to come over (watch movies). I said yes. When the movie was over, I sat there and he said "go ahead to bed". (HUH?) He asked if he could stay over - (take a nap before he drove home) - I gave him a blanket to sleep on the couch.

But... why is it, that I wake up to him trying to take my shorts off????? I was furious. I told him to get his sh** and get the f*** out! I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Why do men do this? Are all men like this? How can I trust men, when things like this happen?

2007-05-08 20:24:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just wondering if anyone out there would know how to meet the right man. I honestly don't get out much, I have only one child but have no support as far as someone single (all my friends are married or dating) to go out with or someone to mind my child. I'm not desperate, but would love some attention, I wouldn't want to just leave my son with anyone either. I have fear of spending time with a complete stranger, does anyone have any suggestions for me???

2007-05-08 20:22:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've got a lot of things on my mind.my mom said we need to be thrifty this time,and that we are running out of money.my dad works as a musician,but he might go to another country and i definitely dont want that,because we are really really close...daughter father stuff,we both jam,play drums and all


help!i want to convince him not to go,and work here even if it means i need to work and study at the same time ..ps im only a high school student

2007-05-08 20:17:31 · 6 answers · asked by weirdandvain 2 in Family

My wife is 3 years my senior, she had menopause and she does not want to have sex anymore due to the pain.
1)Have seen doctor and taken medicine but still refuse to engage.
2)Went to romantic tour to try to improve the situation but does not work.

3)300% sure she is not having an affair or any other man in her life except me.

I still have needs and it looks like it is the end of sex btw wife and husband but family and etc is still intact.

Question:
1)If I can find a woman who is willing partner after understanding my position, do you think I should consider with this woman just for sex (don't ask me to go to prostitute it is a "no").

2)If yes to question 1, where the hell do I find such a woman?

Please advice with some compassion and don't be nasty.
Thanks..for your advice.

2007-05-08 20:15:58 · 19 answers · asked by Freakout 4 in Marriage & Divorce

he is 26 and she is 26 they have know each since kids they went there own way he got married and now divorced andshe was enganged nd left she left her old boyfriend ans now is living with him in a small trailer.he is out of work right now but promiseds me he will be working a goood job,she was a bad drug additt and got clean but she did not care how she looked had makeup on she was skinny now she is with this guy she has put 20 lbs on her she looks beautiful radient they say they are meant to be but none of our fammily will go to the weeding he is a (bad boy) the kind the ladies like but he swaers and i do know he would never hurt her he dont even drink but whatdo i do my family says we are better that they are and she can do better but she loves him help mehe promises he will have a job before that are marroed she woeks hard evey day

2007-05-08 20:15:13 · 7 answers · asked by Warm_Hearted 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm having trouble like most guys did, to propose my feelings to a girl. The problem is I think she is way outta my league. But I gotta try.. or I'll never find out about her feeling and I want to make sure that I'm worthy for her. Can you Guys give me some suggestion, tactics or advices? Anything would be appreciated. Preferable answers from girls.

2007-05-08 19:58:02 · 20 answers · asked by Jan Lie 1 in Singles & Dating

ok heres the story. i';ve been married for a year to a great man.im finally getting an education to make something out of myself. my husband wants to move 1000 miles away where i couldnt go to school if i wanted to. i really want to go to college, but i wan tmy husband tooo. any advice??

2007-05-08 19:50:25 · 11 answers · asked by happy1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Coz i am feeling now after 8 months of marriage life...
Now i am feeling that the choice i picked WHO is my hubby is absoultly the wrong one!! Why am i so stupid or was i blind then? What Should i do?

2007-05-08 19:31:43 · 9 answers · asked by sUnseT 3 in Marriage & Divorce

When i was cleaning the house eg. bathroom
I looked my bf's draw for a condom that i knew there.
But it was gone...............
So i txt him & asked him where did it go.
his reply ............ dont worry i used it on myself
it kind of upset me , but i know guys do it the thing is
i now asked him y he did it n do i not satisfy him enuf
he yells and says i dont have to talk to you bout this
wat wat wat help wat does it mw mean or just any help to wat i have said plzzz

2007-05-08 19:29:22 · 8 answers · asked by sarah f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont want to get too into it but the situation is that I was feeling like crap because how a person makes me feel. The person came over and started holding me. I was sooo pist at this person. Im somewhat confused now. Should I just let what made me ball in the first place Go? What would you do?

2007-05-08 19:29:04 · 10 answers · asked by jason b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I never cried as much as I do now before I got married and the worse part is even when I do cry it is ignored by my own husband.People that love you would be concerned with whats wrong, but not him.He doesnt even ask"whats wrong", he literally ignores me.I have spoken to him about our communication problems for the past 6 months now and nothing has really changed.I try to hold a conversation with him sometimes and its like hes not there.It seems as though things go wrong a day or so after we have sex.Its like a cycle, when he hasn't had any we start getting close and have fun together which leads into making love a few days later but after that it seems like he barely wants to have anything to do with me.How can you be with someone whom you feel loves you only sometimes?How can your spouse ignore you when you are hurt?I have no children. I believe we married too soon,within 6 mos.I dont wnt to give up a marriage so easy but I dnt wnt to hve gray hairs at 23 either.Shld I call it quits?

2007-05-08 19:10:24 · 6 answers · asked by vanillacream753 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my husband sooo much and i want everything in this world with him and want to know that he would NEVER cheat on me.. I have a good friend that he finds VERY attractive ...do u think its wrong to get her to Try to make him do something..I need to know if he will? and if i can trust him?? is my idea wise or dumb..be honest...

2007-05-08 19:01:22 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well i like him. and my friend told him, and all he said was shes cute. now he wants to talk to me because i never have talk to him. so iam trying to talk to him too, but dont now how to sart the conversation at school.. help!!!!

2007-05-08 18:51:15 · 5 answers · asked by SCARLETT 1 in Singles & Dating

im not sure if i am or not. we been talking a lot the past few months. he sometimes doesnt write for a couple weeks but always says its cuase he is busy and hes sorry. anyways , the last time we had plasn to hang out but i didnt get a call so about 2 days later iwrote him cussing him out and also insulted his size.. its been 3 1/2 weeks and still have not heard anything. i said a buncha mean stuff, then after apoglize like a week later. am i being ignored?

2007-05-08 18:49:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i understand to pay for my share and i think it's fair but i just feel like he could treat me sometimes (he has treated me in past but less than 10 times and we've been together for a year. we go eat out often) or buy me something... i am not from this country,so i wanted to know if it's normal for couples in this country and i'm just been old fashion and over reacting or he's just been cheap...

2007-05-08 18:38:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex cheated on me for the third time and I recently broke it off. His ex best friend and I have been talking through myspace and he wants to take me out this weekend. His ex best friend really likes me and he makes me feel so much better when I'm sad. Should I do this? Why should I care about how my ex feels when he obviously didn't care about me when he cheated. Is this a good idea?

2007-05-08 18:38:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

suppose you have a deaf child, would ya put cochlear implant in that child at early age, or let themselves to decide if they want one or not?

how abt hearing aids?

would you send that child to deaf school or to regular public schools?

wat kind communication you would preferred your child to communication YOU as parent? oral or communication in ASL?


do you believe there are cure for deafness? if so, then why?

also, do you think there should be a law, which all child who are deaf/hard of hearing, which require parents to learn ASL, and if they dont, charged them with lanuague abuse right as part of child neglect?

2007-05-08 18:31:34 · 5 answers · asked by joker08boy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So I've been seeing this guy for about a month. He had his arm around me, but I felt that he suddenly let go. He later told me that he saw the girl that he used to like for a year but never got the chance to go out with. I am so upset! What does this mean? I feel like he was ashamed to be with me.

2007-05-08 18:29:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let me from the start well i am Danielle and i got married to my first husband when i was 15 and i was 5 months pregnant . he was very abusive toward me emotial and physical he was controlling ...well sorry to tell you this but i am jumping on how i met my current husband . i went to clubs and ran into my husband so then we rushed into a relationship within 3 weeks i started living with him and i was working so he got attach to my daughter so i contiued to stay with him then i got pregnant and then when i lost the baby due to a lot of stress .we got married i was 18 .he has been spanking my child ever since she was 2 and i don't like how he does it he will treat her like crap and expects me to forgive him and he does the same to me ..puts me down calls me names and he use to be physical but not anymore i see he trying to change but i am not happy but i love him . i want to leave but i don't know if this will be better for my kids should i stay or shold i go ... please help me !!!

2007-05-08 18:29:27 · 19 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Marriage & Divorce