he is 26 and she is 26 they have know each since kids they went there own way he got married and now divorced andshe was enganged nd left she left her old boyfriend ans now is living with him in a small trailer.he is out of work right now but promiseds me he will be working a goood job,she was a bad drug additt and got clean but she did not care how she looked had makeup on she was skinny now she is with this guy she has put 20 lbs on her she looks beautiful radient they say they are meant to be but none of our fammily will go to the weeding he is a (bad boy) the kind the ladies like but he swaers and i do know he would never hurt her he dont even drink but whatdo i do my family says we are better that they are and she can do better but she loves him help mehe promises he will have a job before that are marroed she woeks hard evey day
2007-05-08 20:15:13 · 7 answers · asked by Warm_Hearted 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As the other people said, let her go and make her own decisions, and if it turns bad, her ow mistakes.
HOWEVER,
if the marriage turns bad, don't nag at her and say "i told you". Be understanding, accepting and offer her all the comfort she might need. It's bad enough if the marriage goes to hell, without all the relatives being smart about it.
Good luck to you and your daughter!
2007-05-08 21:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ymmo the Heathen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you have yet to let your daughter go and be an adult. This is her life and hers to mess up if that is what she want's to do. I think you are being way to overbearing and need to let her grow-up and live her life. If you never cut the cord they never grow-up let her make her own choices in her life. When she turned 18 you have no right to tell her what she should be doing you have the right to your opinion and if she takes it to heart so be it, but in the end it is her LIFE.
Be proud that she has a job and works hard for her money
this guy may be a slacker now but you never know he could be like Adam Sandler in Big Daddy slacker/drop-out that finishes Law School and becomes successfull lawyer.
CUT THE CORD MOMMA!
2007-05-09 03:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off she is 26 years old. not a child. she has made her decision and you will have to live with it.
if you don't go to the wedding you will probably alienate her from your family.
think it over
2007-05-09 04:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the beginning of a happy life...You should let your daughter decide.
2007-05-09 04:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 it is her life
2 you say that she look better with him than without him
so let them be & your family member that don't get it \
it is their problem
Good luck to her for finding happinest
2007-05-09 03:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your daughter decide it is her life.
By rejecting her choice in BF's you could be pushing her away.
2007-05-09 03:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by justpatagn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well .. not all choices are correct.. but she needs to learn or liv with her choices.. stand by her in whatever she chooses..
2007-05-09 03:35:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋