My friend introduced me to this male last week. He took me to dinner and a movie. When he brought me back to my apartment, he asked if he could come up.. (come up?! for what?!) I told him that I had to work the next day and made up some excuses. Last night he asked to come over (watch movies). I said yes. When the movie was over, I sat there and he said "go ahead to bed". (HUH?) He asked if he could stay over - (take a nap before he drove home) - I gave him a blanket to sleep on the couch.
But... why is it, that I wake up to him trying to take my shorts off????? I was furious. I told him to get his sh** and get the f*** out! I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Why do men do this? Are all men like this? How can I trust men, when things like this happen?
2007-05-08 20:24:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you would have sent a clearer message you weren't interested if you had said no when he wanted to stay over.
This is unfortunate. Not all men are like this--I wasn't when I was that age. I wasn't above seduction, but only when the woman was actually interested.
I would never have tried what he tried unless I had a clear signal my advances were welcome. And you did not give that clear signal. Unfortunately you didn't give a clear signal that the advances were unwelcome, but that isn't your fault. You tried to.
2007-05-08 20:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by Warren D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think all men are not like him, but u must care about u and u not take faith on any one easily and i think that he just make friendship with u to just take benefit i mean to do these things only so i suggest u that must be careful about these things because if u go to sleep with anybody in his house or any other place than it may be possible that he take ur benefit so be careful
bye
2007-05-08 21:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 in 1000 000 men are like that. For you to trust someone you should have known him for more than four months.
2007-05-08 20:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by van hastling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. in my psychology class. it talks about what men and women want. well, women is more of a romantic, while men, well, sex is there intimate thing. err neways, he obviously wanted to do it. first of all, how could u even let him stay at ur place? seriously?!?! u just met him. i guess to him it seem u wanted it for letting him come up when he asked, u shouldav said no!
2007-05-08 20:32:19 · answer #4 · answered by sweetsurrender 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang, that boy is moving fast....no all men are like that, but only stupid ones, like the one your talking about....but you shouldnt told him yes about the whole movie thing, that was his excuse to get into your pants, be careful next time
2007-05-08 20:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Brunette♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bet that's his intention at the begining. you just have to be careful next time, don't let him in at all. once they are inside it's hard to kick them out. but i'm sure not every male is like that
2007-05-08 20:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by My Dear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think MAN like him is such a damn jerk sh**.. he take advantage while u are asleep, and trying to do, what he really want. he is a MANIAC.
hahahahahaha,
2007-05-08 20:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was very lame of him.
But hey, calm down. You will be ok.
2007-05-08 20:31:18 · answer #8 · answered by Mac Pro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you???
most guys are like that unfortunately...
Best of luck!!!
2007-05-08 20:32:00 · answer #9 · answered by blah... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. if u judge all of mankind on one man..i feel sorry for u..
2007-05-08 20:32:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋