ok heres the story. i';ve been married for a year to a great man.im finally getting an education to make something out of myself. my husband wants to move 1000 miles away where i couldnt go to school if i wanted to. i really want to go to college, but i wan tmy husband tooo. any advice??
2007-05-08 19:50:25 · 11 answers · asked by happy1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You didn't mention whether your husband's decision to move was a good one or not. In any case, your marriage comes first. I am sure you will have opportunities to go to college where you want to relocate. And of course, there is the distance education option.
2007-05-08 20:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't your hubby just wait until you finish your school before moving. Marriage is compromise and right now he sounds selfish to do this to you. Right when you have the nerves and courage to go back to school. Tell him that you would really like to be more of a help to pay the bills and that he should be supportive of you wanting to get a college
education. In the long run it will just help you both out financially. Your man should be helping you strive for your own goals not shutting you down.
God Bless and Best Wishes.
2007-05-09 03:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a valid reason why your husband wants to move away? Online education is a great option. I would be interested to know his reason for moving so far away that you can't continue your education. I think communication is very important here. You should sit down with him and explain what your goals are and let him know that your education will benefit both of you. If he truly loves you, he will support your decision to continue school and reconsider moving until you graduate.
2007-05-09 03:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by ersanenurse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try online courses. And still go with your husband. But it all comes down to what you really want out of life. Do you want a husband who you love and want to spend the rest of your life with. Or do you want to go to college, and make a career out of what you studied. Long-distance relationships can be very hard. And even though you trust each other, cheating can happen unexpectantly.
2007-05-09 02:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance education is the answer. Study by correspondence.
2007-05-09 03:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sunny 1st 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should accept your feeling's and try to work something out. If this is something that is really important to you and you are important to him than he should be more than ready to allow you to go for your goal's.
2007-05-09 03:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by ♥»ßeaut¡ful«♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can go to school on the internet there are great universities on the internet my husband went and it took him only 2 and half years to finish his BA. search for what is best for you. good luck
2007-05-09 03:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by elkrib57 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go with your husband and try online college. Your marriage should be your top priority.
2007-05-09 02:58:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Move with your husband. You can do classes online.
2007-05-09 07:11:10 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well try some corresponding courses etc...
2007-05-09 03:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by trymejames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋