im not sure if i am or not. we been talking a lot the past few months. he sometimes doesnt write for a couple weeks but always says its cuase he is busy and hes sorry. anyways , the last time we had plasn to hang out but i didnt get a call so about 2 days later iwrote him cussing him out and also insulted his size.. its been 3 1/2 weeks and still have not heard anything. i said a buncha mean stuff, then after apoglize like a week later. am i being ignored?
2007-05-08 18:49:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep it sounds like he is ignoring you. It's his only way to have some control and try to make you feel bad for what you did. He'll get over it eventually, he's just a little sensitive about it, like any guy would. He's just ignoring you to make you feel bad. The more you apologize the better he feels, and it would make him feel really good the more you apologize cause then the worst you feel.
2007-05-08 21:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by juniper555 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 02:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are "enmeshed." That means you are hooked on the drama. He won't change, you won't change unless you get smart about this. Do you like the way this is going? It sure wouldn't make me happy. But you will stick with it until you decide to change it. You did once, why did you backslide? Think about that in your quiet time. Or are you creating the drama so you won't have to think?
2007-05-08 19:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by Jeanne B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say this but yes, you are probably being ignored. insulting his size was probably going too far. guys cant handle that, its like the biggest insult you could ever give a man. to be honest, hes probably just holding a grudge now. :-/
2007-05-08 18:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by kimberly1904 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think apologizing is really going to make the hurt of cruel things you said to him go away...you hurt him...why would you expect him to give you the time of day now.
2007-05-08 18:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it looks that way. Dont you think you deserve it??
Knowbody likes to be insulted, and knowbody has to put up with it, thats probably why he's your ex!
2007-05-08 18:59:02 · answer #6 · answered by pecanchew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup, and take a hike...and you're kindda mean. It's time to move on now. Your sorry doesn't have meaning anymore since you always say too many bad thing...
2007-05-08 18:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by butterflykiss 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes ur ex , y is it bothering u that hes talking 2 u .
2007-05-08 19:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by super 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes u are. just deal with it
2007-05-08 18:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes.. and u sorta deserve it..
2007-05-08 18:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋