Family & Relationships - 8 May 2007

Ok, so i have been divorced for a month now and me and my ex have kids. My ex cheated so it was time to go. we still talk all the time and we even talk about later in life remarrying because we still do love each other and we both just need time to grow up. but we want to make a family for our children. Me and him are perfect except for what he did, but we're working on that. Well, problem is, i have started to talk to one of his acquaintances and we established that we are 2 adults and we were going to be "partners" and that was it. well we haven't had sex yet and we r starting to like each other. well lately all my ex has been saying is how much he wants us to be back together and doesn't want us having any secrets going back into our relationship which i don't know when we are getting back into it. Could be six months from now. should i not see the friend or go back to my ex who cheated? but at the same time i don't want to put my life on hold for my ex when he could do it again

2007-05-08 18:27:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-08 18:25:56 · 9 answers · asked by Dave777 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just thinking....it's midnight.....If a girl and guy plan to get married I know it's customary for the guy to buy the girl's wedding band, but what about the guy? Does he have to buy his own (this sucks) and the girl gets the new beautiful (expensive) ring she can hock at a pawn shop anytime? Or does she have to buy his wedding ring??? (I know it doesn't relate well to chivalry or being a gentlemen and stuff, but when you answer please don't be opinion-nated with those ideas) If possible, talk about your own experience with this.

2007-05-08 18:19:26 · 23 answers · asked by Infinite Resistance Ω 2 in Weddings

what do you prefer .... i know its random ..... jw

2007-05-08 18:17:43 · 39 answers · asked by victoria s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-08 18:16:50 · 16 answers · asked by victoria s 1 in Singles & Dating

he is an extreme jealous person. He deleted all of the guys numbers from my phone. Doesnt want me to talk to any GUYs anymore, even my guy friends. He hates me going on facebook and myspace, he wants me to delete them and i cant go on aim anymore because of him. I love him dearly and i dont know what to do!!!!

2007-05-08 18:16:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that is really nice and flirtatious online, but everyday, when I see him at school, we act like we don't know each other. I've heard that next year, at the beginning of the school year he's going to ask me out, but I don't want to date a guy I can't even talk to in person. What do I do?

2007-05-08 18:14:05 · 10 answers · asked by shanabanana922 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been with him for 2 years but he was abusive for 1 of those years but not now

2007-05-08 18:13:45 · 4 answers · asked by Juannitta m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok few months ago i went to visit my ex in another state i drove over 200 miles for a party going on there .. and he practially ditched me by the end of the night .. i was left stranded in the middle of no where .. and never sad anything to him about tht .. he didnt call me for a mnth after than all of a sudden hes acting nice no .. but it still bugs me why he would ditch me like that .. wen hes the one who wanted me to visit him .. now even though its late .. should i let him know how i feel .. ive tried acting nice for too long and its not going anywhere .. how do i start to tell him how i rlly feel ANGRILY? out of nowehre??

2007-05-08 18:11:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i´m man and my friend "too", he told me if i want to have sex with him and i thought than that could be a joke and i said yes... but late but we didn´t do nothing.....
then his behavior with me change and we didn´t talk for 4 mounths.. now we talk again but when we were drinking beer he told me again if i want to have sex with him...
he touch me a lot but if i touch him he push me i dont understand what is his problem and he has a girlfriend...
that is normal what do you think????

2007-05-08 18:08:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is it insulting that Yahoo Q&A puts Marriage&Divorce questions together in the same group of questions?

It would almost as offensive if that catorigized Births&Funerals together.

Am I wrong?

2007-05-08 18:07:40 · 12 answers · asked by alberthastings3 4 in Marriage & Divorce

what do men wish women would do.. do more of.. not do, etc.

2007-05-08 18:07:11 · 12 answers · asked by Liz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do i regain that friendship? even tho she says that we are still friends, i get the vibe that we kind arent. how do i win my best friend back?

2007-05-08 18:03:17 · 8 answers · asked by aznpride5516 1 in Friends

Is it true that someone is made for all of us.
If yes? Than how come I have not met him yet?
If no? Than do we just settle down for any frog ?
Which I don't want to but need some encouragement to keep on hoping that right person will come along some day.
Thanks for answering.

2007-05-08 17:55:49 · 16 answers · asked by cutetanny 2 in Singles & Dating

i met the father of my kid 6 yrs ago. after a year we moved to the same house. we have a 4-year old kid now. we have ups and downs but we manage to get through with it. We are happy together. He loves me so much and plans to marry me when he comes home from abroad. However, i am not very much sure of my feelings now. I love him but my feelings for him is not strong as before. I cannot say "I do" yet. I've had this feeling since last year although there is no third party involved. Now I am falling in love with another man although I do not know if this new guy shares the same feelings with me. I met him last March and we've been friends since then. I do not know what to do. I do not know if I have a future with this guy and even if I do I am worried about my kid and his father who loves me so much. I hate this feeling i have. what will you do if you were in my shoes? please help!

2007-05-08 17:53:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok well i met this guy like 5 days ago and we started going out then, he is cousins with my best friends boyfriend and i have talked to him on the phone many times. me & my friend are alot alike & him & his cousin & alott alike. & i think thats why we get along so good because i get along with my friends boyfriend. so he told me he loved me and he told my friend he loved me & he even told hims cousin he loved me & he's not the type of guy to ask someone out, but he asked me out. i think i could love him & we tried having sex 2 times the 2nd night we were together but it hurt me way to much because i was a virgin. he told his cousin that he was going to stick with me because he loves me. so should i believe him ??? ASNWER QUICKLY !!!

2007-05-08 17:49:51 · 19 answers · asked by keish 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-08 17:46:52 · 6 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7 in Family

i just got out of a 4 yr relationship and i was was wondering if it is too soon to start dating

2007-05-08 17:45:20 · 12 answers · asked by sugar_pye_99 1 in Singles & Dating

I am really interested in this sub contractor that does work for the company I work for. He is really sweet and nice. He has a 13 year old son has 3 homes and his own company. He always seems stressed out and we have been talking on the phone for the past 4 months and it wasnt until recently that we actually went somewhere together even if it was a work related situation I enjoyed spending time with him. Everyone asked if he was my husband and it made me smile...which was a smile I hadnt seen in a long time. Is it a bad idea to approach him further? He always is in bad relashionships and I think him and I would be great together.

2007-05-08 17:40:14 · 33 answers · asked by ImperialCountyQueen 2 in Singles & Dating

now i have a problem because i regret it but i know i have to just go on with life!! we have hung out 3 different times but each time i brought along my friend because i wanted to avoid having sex with him again! each time i have learned new things about him. he has never had a real relationship only friends for at least a month. he just got out of jail in jan, i was very shocked and had no clue! so anyways we are just friends and we still kiss and act like we are a couple which really annoys me because i dont want to lead him on but i still feel bad for him because i dont want to hurt his feelings! after we had sex he told me not to get attached so i have avoided catching feelings for him. at first he would call me a lot and come to see me at my job because when he gets off i go to work so we cant talk because when i get off he goes to sleep. now we hung out on sunday before i had work and he told me that he would call but never did. its 3 days later and there is still no call.

2007-05-08 17:38:47 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is sex so important for guys??? if you don't get it from gf, would you dump her?

2007-05-08 17:36:30 · 15 answers · asked by MoniJ 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 21 years old and my girlfriend of 5 years cheated on me and got pregnant by the other guy. I have still choosen too stay with her and forgive her. I'm just confused I wonder if I should tell her to get in abortion? She has told me its all up to me but each day that goes by she gets more closer to the baby, me i get more upset. The other guy wants to be in my girlfriend's life so he wants her to have the baby. I really dont belive in abortions but i also dont want to raise another man's child or have him in my girlfriend's life . How can we move on with our lives if he still comes around to see his child.

2007-05-08 17:36:18 · 26 answers · asked by xxlkeyes 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 21 years old and my girlfriend of 5 years cheated on me and got pregnant by the other guy. I have still choosen too stay with her and forgive her. I'm just confused I wonder if I should tell her to get in abortion? She has told me its all up to me but each day that goes by she gets more closer to the baby, me i get more upset. The other guy wants to be in my girlfriend's life so he wants her to have the baby. I really dont belive in abortions but i also dont want to raise another man's child or have him in my girlfriend's life . How can we move on with our lives if he still comes around to see his child.

2007-05-08 17:35:47 · 19 answers · asked by xxlkeyes 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys-Are you intimidated by intelligent women who are earning a higher salary than you, and in a much better job?

Sum men might back away from women who are at the peek of success; Since men are so egotistic that want to be the bread winner in the family, and don't think they should be taken care of financially by a woman. So when they are not able to do so, they might feel sheer insecurity.

2007-05-08 17:25:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy that I like is getting married to this woman. She's rich and she doesn't have to work to earn her own money. She travels to a lot of countries for vacation only. The guy is also rich and doesnt' need to work to earn money.

The girl is 27 and she's getting married already.

I'm 26 years and I have been praying all my life for a husband but until he hasn't come. The company I'm working for is about to close and I'm underpaid and it's so hard to find another job. I'm not yet financially stable and it seems like my life is going nowhere. I have tried REALLY HARD to improve my life but there are always obstacles to prevent me reaching what I want to reach.

So, my career and love life is unsuccessful.

I'm thinking. I've never had bf and I'm a virgin but I'm not ugly and fat. Some people tell me I'm pretty (although I know i'm not pretty) but I've never had bf. I'm thinking to myself, "does my future husband deserve my virginity or should i give it to someone else?

2007-05-08 17:25:20 · 25 answers · asked by Mrs Brandon 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a 14 year old boy, and I'm going out to a movie tommorow with a friend from school.

I would like to make it a plesant evening for her, so could you guys (and gals) give me some ideas on to make it a special night?

2007-05-08 17:21:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 19 m india...i have many friends..but very close to two friends..a boy and a girl..we three are good friends for morethan 7 yearsbut very close nowadays...actually through me only my male friend got much contact with the friend in girls and we three became good friends and till now we are so...but nowadays when my friend(girl) talks closely with my male friend i get upset..i cant hurt them in anyway..i know they r not in love...i know they she is treating both of us equal and to them i am much important..they like me much...i feel like they have become much closer than me...i am afraid whether both will forget me in future...what to do..some advice

2007-05-08 17:12:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Did anyone see Oprah today? Would you put yourself in harms way to help a friend or loved one that you knew was being abused? I know without my family I could not have made it out of my abusive relationship.

2007-05-08 17:10:11 · 2 answers · asked by renee125 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I can't go into much more detail. The person making this decision is the most beautiful and incredible woman in the universe. She has to choose one. In doing so, she will very deeply hurt the other. She couldn't stand to hurt an ant. It's killing her, and I want to be there for her as best I can. Please - what can I do other than hug her when I see her tomorrow? What can I do to ease her pain?

I love her.

2007-05-08 16:52:28 · 23 answers · asked by Gunning4Jesus 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He proposed to me in December, and we arent getting married untill 2009 but i want to ask him his opinions on our wedding, but he brushes my questions off, and he tells me that he wants to be with me all the time but i feel really neglected ....he goes out and parties all the time and it feels like im not important to him ...and whenever something bothers me his answer is everything will be okay hunny ...every time .... i feel like a big part of my needs are missing i just want some attention....help

2007-05-08 16:49:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings