is sex so important for guys??? if you don't get it from gf, would you dump her?
2007-05-08 17:36:30 · 15 answers · asked by MoniJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is gf made for this purpose ? Then u don't at all know the definition of true & principled friendship at all. Whatever u intend to do is rape by definition & in Arab countries it is awarded death sentence. Should a girl be used as a cigarette or a toy including your sister ? Ask yourself.
2007-05-08 18:02:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
hey guy i guess u find ur gf only as a sex machine!
I feel love is and must be more important than anything else, if love is there between you both everything else comes automatically!
And yes the dumping idea is the worse!
2007-05-09 02:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by perky 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, sex is not important, maybe love is. Many times even boys do not perform to standard, then u want the girl to dump u.
2007-05-09 01:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. Just being physical would satisfy your body. But a sex, with the whole of you involved, with all your heart into it, would recharge your souls.
Excessive desire for sex is lust. Sex just to satisfy your body is lust. Having sex against the moral codes is lust. But sex to enjoy the moments, to explore, to give your partner the the best of yourself, to give your partner the ultimate ecstasy, altogether without any fear is pure love-making. And it's a divine experience. I believe everyone should undertstand the difference between lust and sex. As far as sex is concerned, if you are doing it with the one you are commited to in all the aspect of life, and doing it to enjoy the time, explore each other, it's cannot be called as lust. It's purely love-making. And this is definitely a part of love between life partners. So whenever yo uare having sex, it doesn't mean lust. But when you are having sex violating the moral codes, just to satisfy your own desires, lust would come into picture.
So basically, when you are thinking about sex with your gf, you are actually violating the moral codes. You never know where your life is gonna take you. You are not at all sure whether you will be able to stay comitted to taht girl or not. A constant fear would hover your mind even if you use those precautionary measures. A fealing of guilt amy develop later on. Those moments would just be moments of physical pleasures for you. The kind of experience when a naughty child enjoys when he does what is forbidden, and still fear the punishment.
In short, sex is important, but only and only after you are committed to each other and with mutual agreement. Since at any moment of time we can break our promises, legal agreement, called marriage should be made. Gf's supposed to be in your life for sex. They are your prospects, the ones with whom you may spend the whole of your life. Don't look upon them as toys, or things that provide pleasure.
All the best...
:-)
2007-05-09 16:52:15 · answer #4 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well Sex is the natural thing in everybodies life. If I don't get it from my gf, I would certainly not dump her. But that wont stop me from having sex with others who are ready to offer.
2007-05-11 14:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by satishfreeman 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think you r acting like a perfect freak by asking this question, i agree tht sex is a very important part of everybody's life but its not everything,In this world everybody doesn't have a gf for satisfaction of their sexual urges,its a bonding developed by staying for years & sharing llike emotions.In the near future sex problems are gonna arise with u too tht doesn't mean tht she'll be leaving u too.Boy its not just sex tht develops a bonding but also friendship tht keeps the bond going on.most of the relations break up not bcoz of lack of love or sex but bcoz of lack of friendship,and if u really wanna enjoy sex y dnt u get married 2 her , then it will be quite easy 4 u to satisfy ur needs.
2007-05-10 22:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by tommy l 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think both love and sex are important,but this both things U should get only and only from your lovely wife,not GF
2007-05-09 02:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by 4U4EVER 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
sex is important. dump the girl if u don't get from her? absolutely not. only needy & greedy guys have g/f for sex. infact if some guy pushes the girl for sex by threatning to dump her or something, the girl should dump him in the first place.....!
2007-05-09 07:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
sex??? from gfs? one's not worth loving for in that case. Only maniacs do that kind of thing. Gfs are not meant for such thing,we also have feelings that can be hurt,,,,,,,,,,,
2007-05-09 03:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by luks 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hi frusta,
ur confusing between a g/f and a lover. if she loves u then there should not be any problem. expecting sex from a g/f is foolishness. so to get sex find lover first . enjoy the life!
2007-05-09 04:47:57 · answer #10 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋