he is an extreme jealous person. He deleted all of the guys numbers from my phone. Doesnt want me to talk to any GUYs anymore, even my guy friends. He hates me going on facebook and myspace, he wants me to delete them and i cant go on aim anymore because of him. I love him dearly and i dont know what to do!!!!
2007-05-08 18:16:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him about it. He shouldn't be able to control who you can and cannot talk to. If he refuses to change and begin to trust you, he doesn't seem like a guy you should stay with.
2007-05-08 18:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by Kristin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a controlling little jerk. Next he will be locking you in the house, and beating you up if you try to use the phone to call a friend. Get rid of him right now, before the physical abuse starts. I have know several just like that, and physical abuse is exactly what his type of behavior leads to. Get out while the getting is good!! Find you a guy that is not so insecure and controlling. There are plenty of good ones out there!!!
2007-05-08 18:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly...there is nothing you can do to change a boyfriend from being jealous...the guy has to change himself. I will admit though...i myself was a jealous guy with my Ex-girlfriend (not to the extreme that you mentioned) But the jealously did drive her away into pretty much cheating on me...One would think this would influence more of my jealousy on my next girlfriend but it didn't. I guess cause I realized that all the times prior to my EX cheating on me, she was always with at the end of the night/day, but it was the jealousy that drove her away at the end as she got fed up with it...It was a hard lesson but it was a lesson LEARNED...
Now I am not saying to cheat on the guy...because it hurts to be cheated on and I wish that on nobody...but take my statements above as a testament that there is nothing you can probably do if the other is unwilling to realize that jealousy in relationship can be fatal if they can't change themselves from being 'uber' jealous.
2007-05-08 18:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by Omar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's controlling. He controls who your friends are and he doesn't even have the least bit amount of trust for you. He trust you, when you are with females but the second a man comes up he is all mad. If a man loves you, he would NEVER make you give up your friends (Unless they are a really bad influence). I say leave him, no matter how hard it is. You will end up being alone and only havingyourself to blame.
2007-05-08 18:21:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This guy isnt jealous- he is immature and controlling.
His behavior are serious red flags for worst behavior. Take it VERY seriously.
Tell your friends and family members about his behavior.
And, don't let him control you. Tell him you are not willing to sacrifice your friendships for him. In the future, invite him to group outings with some of your guy friends. If he refuses to go, tell him it is over.
2007-05-08 18:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by allforasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds bad. He's too controlling now, imagine what he'll be like in the future...If I were you, I'd run for the hills as fast as I can. Those type of guys can turn into woman-beaters really fast. Get out now.
2007-05-08 18:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop him from being jealous. So, either you deal with the jealousy or move on. We do not have the power to change the behavior of others.
2007-05-08 18:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by truthislight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It starts with controlling who your friends are, then how much time you should spend with your family and female friends , then what you should wear (as to not attract other males), Then he will move on to spying on you and accusing you of cheating, then, when hes successfully alienated you from all your friends, brainwashed you into thinking jealosy equals love, he will manipulate and control your entire life. Dump him
2007-05-08 18:24:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's possessive and controlling. I was with a guy like that for five years. It's a MISERABLE existence. Dump him. He's a waste of time. Trust me.
Run! Forrest! Run!
2007-05-08 18:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... talk about over the boundaries...
Either he is real insecure about himself or he just doesn't trust you with other guys around.
Looks like you'll have to choose between friends or him because you won't get much trying to talk him out of this. I've known people like this my whole life.
2007-05-08 18:27:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋