ok well i met this guy like 5 days ago and we started going out then, he is cousins with my best friends boyfriend and i have talked to him on the phone many times. me & my friend are alot alike & him & his cousin & alott alike. & i think thats why we get along so good because i get along with my friends boyfriend. so he told me he loved me and he told my friend he loved me & he even told hims cousin he loved me & he's not the type of guy to ask someone out, but he asked me out. i think i could love him & we tried having sex 2 times the 2nd night we were together but it hurt me way to much because i was a virgin. he told his cousin that he was going to stick with me because he loves me. so should i believe him ??? ASNWER QUICKLY !!!
2007-05-08 17:49:51 · 19 answers · asked by keish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FIRST OF ALL IF YOUR UNDER 18 AND HE IS OVER 21 THEN HE IS PRO BALLY A PERVERT AND IS WITH YOU JUST FOR SEX. SECOND, 5 DAYS IS NOT LONG ENOUGH TO LOVE SOME ONE, YOU MAY FEEL THAT YOU ARE IN LOVE BUT IT IS NOT LOVE IT IS LUST. IF YOU REALLY LIKE THIS PERSON AND THINK IT IS POSSIBLE THAT YOU COULD LOVE HIM THEN THE TWO OF YOU SHOULD TAKE IT SLOWER BEFORE RUSHING INTO THINGS.
2007-05-08 17:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by 29LICKS & MR.29LICKS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, its very hard to believe that you were still a virgin when you even think about having sex with a guy you have only known 5 days....
He cannot know if he loves you after 5 days... Most guys use this as a way to get you in bed.
2007-05-09 00:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by jwix04 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You gonna regret it! If not now, soon. Stop trying to give up your virginity to someone who is virtually a stranger. 5 days is 5 days. Nothing you can say will change that and you will learn that guys dont respect girls whop give IT up quickly. Boys will say anything to get some up to and including "I love you". God mus be telling your something if you've tried twice and you still haven't had so called"success". The best thing would be to save it for marriage but if you can wait, atleast save it for someone that has mutual feelings for you, is loyal, and shows you respect. Words dont mean a thing...Actions are what count.
2007-05-09 01:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by FemFatale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. Boys will say anything to get into your pants, especially if they think that they are getting a virgin. Why don't you wait and see if he really does stick around before having sex with him.
By the way, be sure to use a condom, and pregnancy protection. You do not want to end up pregnant or get a disease. Yes, you can get pregnant the first time and yes you can get quite a few diseases from unprotected sex(HIV,CRABS,CHLAMYDIA, HERPES,etc...)
2007-05-09 01:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he will love you some day, but if you had sex the 2nd night after you met, it's not love, it's lust. Love grows as you get to know each other and work through things together over time.
2007-05-09 00:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jason 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he just wants to have sex. Sorry to say, but this is a read between the lines answer. Slow down, if he really loves you, he'll wait, but if he's using the "L" words so soon, be careful not to buy into until the actions back up the words.
2007-05-09 00:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by Lady J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to be very careful because u don't even know what he wants from u! He maybe saying these things because he may just want to sleep with u. I say give it some time to know this guy cause u never know guys! Good Luck!
2007-05-09 00:57:40 · answer #7 · answered by hippie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u have been w/ this guy 4 atleast 4months u should be perfecly fine. also take realationships like this slow and easy. ur sayn this is some1 elses boyfriend the ur going 2 have 2 work it out girl.
2007-05-09 00:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by Olivia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes ok give it a little more time and see what happens dont be so easy in givin him your virginity and if he is genuine you will see.
2007-05-09 00:55:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've known this kid 5 DAYS??? and you had sex with him?!! what were you thinking? most decent guys would wait longer to do that. i don't know if he loves you, but you've already committed a part of yourself to him. find out if he's what you really want. then make your choice.
2007-05-09 00:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by Ally 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋