There is this guy that is really nice and flirtatious online, but everyday, when I see him at school, we act like we don't know each other. I've heard that next year, at the beginning of the school year he's going to ask me out, but I don't want to date a guy I can't even talk to in person. What do I do?
2007-05-08 18:14:05 · 10 answers · asked by shanabanana922 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's waiting to ask me out because at my school, most of the relationships end over the summer, and he doesn't want that to happen.
2007-05-08 18:23:20 · update #1
Sounds like he is extremely shy. On line chatting is much easier than face to face talking with somone you like.
It's unlikey his confidence level is going to increase dramatically in the little while so you have a few options.
1. Ask him out yourself.
2. Give him a amber and green light in an e-mail. Mention you'd love to see the new Harry Potter film. check out a certain book or sports store - something that you're both interested in.
3. Move on and find some one who can and will talk to you face to face.
2007-05-08 18:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You heard that he is going to ask you out at the beginning of next school year? What is that? If he is interested why doesn't he ask you out now? Maybe (no offense meant) he is embarrassed to be seen with you?
2007-05-08 18:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by marebear31485 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i understand how you experience. :/ I tryed making buddy's with this guy at my college who I beloved.. we talked in hassle-free words on-line.. we unfolded a lot to eachother and then even as the day got here we observed eachother and hungout... he became sooo worried and shy . and once i have been given finished from putting out with him and his acquaintances, he typed me on-line and ought to apply an excuse and say Oh i became too drained, or Oh i did'nt experience good after I requested why he didnt talk... and then he became like yet you appeared warm (: on your bathing in structure. and im like gosh why couldnt you're saying that to me head to head =/ He under no circumstances appeared at me in the interest lengthy adequate yet we may be able to talk on-line for one billion hours, then i had to drop him because he became way WAAY thanks to SHY =/ believe me if he isn't any longer going to stop being shy, it received't artwork, .
2016-11-26 20:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him!! Or pick up the freaking phone.. How hard is this to figure out.. School oh how I hated it.. This makes me glad to be a graduate!!!!!!!
2007-05-08 18:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go. You should know that friendship/relationship starts after someone start it, you know.
2007-05-08 18:19:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him and start talking. What can he do but talk back?
2007-05-08 18:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy can be cute for so long. then it becomes annoying. i would say to work with it and be patient. but another side of me wants to say, move on. :)
2014-02-16 04:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by Aurora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is shy and if he is that shy you may want to explore other options.
2007-05-08 18:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
******* NEXT YEAR?!?!?!
WHY!?!? WHY WASTE 5 MONTHS OF GOOD WEATHER>?!??!?
WTF I AM FREAKING OUT
what a ******* waste.
ask him out and SHARE THE SUMMER
2007-05-08 18:19:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go up for him honey...
2007-05-08 19:12:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋