I am a 14 year old boy, and I'm going out to a movie tommorow with a friend from school.
I would like to make it a plesant evening for her, so could you guys (and gals) give me some ideas on to make it a special night?
2007-05-08 17:21:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We'll probably be seeing Spiderman Three for those of you who were wondering. XP
2007-05-08 17:26:49 · update #1
If it's your first date, it doesn't have to be too special. Don't expect anything physical from her. While girls dream about their first kiss with a guy, they don't necessarily want it on the first date. If you want to make a physical connection, try holding her hand. It's much less evasive.
There isn't too much you can do to make a movie night special though. Just make sure you pick a good one! Lots of people didn't like Spiderman so make sure you read the reviews to make sure it is something she won't think is ridiculous. Since you can't talk much during a movie, see if you can do something else after, like go get ice cream.
If she really likes you, the date should be special for her without you doing anything extraordinary.
2007-05-08 17:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by Kristin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in college so it wasn't that long ago I was 14. I'm guessing you are just graduating 8th grade. At that age I would say be as nice as humanly possible. Open a door for her, if it isn't awkward you could pay for her. If it is awkward then suggest you will pay for her. When you are in the movie don't try anything lame like stretching and ending up with your arm around her. I suggest holding her hand. Let her know you are a good guy and show her you care. The most important advice you will receive from me is this: SMILE. Girls like confident guys but not arrogant guys. Smiling shows you are happy with your life and she can be happy with you. I hope you have a good time. Spiderman 3 is a good movie.
2007-05-08 17:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by Austin H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going with a plan is a great start! Woman like men who are organized. It shows that you really care and put a lot of thought into her. Know what movie before hand that you are seeing and be like "I thought that we would see such and such because I know that you mentioned in the past that you liked this actor." Shows that you pay attention and its important to you what she says and likes. Bring money so you can offer her snacks, have more than enough for both of you. During the movie if she seems upto it ASK to hold her hand. Talk about the movie afterwards and comment on what she says and really listen and relate it to other things you know that you both have in common. Says that you listen again and that she is important. And lastly, find something that she can take with her from the date that you know she will like. Girls like momentos, like bears, flowers and such so they can place them in their rooms and google at them for hours and show their girl friends how much your care. You can also bring a digital camera with you and take a funny picture together and then later print it out and place it in a frame with a note that says that you had a great time and would like to see her again. You don't have to be overly elaborate, keep it simple but caring, respectful and all about her.
2007-05-08 17:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by dfische7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice, as simple as this sounds, is to just make the night all about her. Ask her which movie she wants to see-- and then pay for the tickets. Ask her what kind of concessions she wants-- and then pay for them. Ask her where she would prefer to sit. Ask her what she thought about the movie afterwards. Most girls would be impressed by somebody just being a complete gentleman on their first date. That should be enough to make it special for her.
2007-05-08 17:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by courtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you will hear it eventually so here goes...... just be yourself. other than that make sure you are attentive to her women dig that. you don't need to make it all about her but make her feel like she's important. Thats all a girl wants to feel special
2007-05-08 17:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by Constance F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, you are 14, most likely you aren't marrying her. Be a gentleman! Have Fun! Live you life! :)
2007-05-08 17:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by Christina C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Be a gentlemen. Treat her with respect. And pay for everything.
2007-05-08 17:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by Pretti Poodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you probably should offer to pay for it and then dont try to kiss her unless she is receptive.
2007-05-08 17:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋