i am 19 m india...i have many friends..but very close to two friends..a boy and a girl..we three are good friends for morethan 7 yearsbut very close nowadays...actually through me only my male friend got much contact with the friend in girls and we three became good friends and till now we are so...but nowadays when my friend(girl) talks closely with my male friend i get upset..i cant hurt them in anyway..i know they r not in love...i know they she is treating both of us equal and to them i am much important..they like me much...i feel like they have become much closer than me...i am afraid whether both will forget me in future...what to do..some advice
2007-05-08 17:12:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be a good friend and they will never forget you.
2007-05-08 17:18:43 · answer #1 · answered by whitexsaucer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask the first line of this question then you are already concerned about the time invested on this person. I did not even read the question, just the first line.
Now after reading it, I think you need to find more friends and invest in new relationships and interests. Placing too much time on these people is not healthy.
Good Luck
2007-05-09 00:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by Tracylyn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may be falling in love. Even if they do, they will still care about you. Try not to expect to all be the center of attention. Other people have things going on in their lives too. Just enjoy the time and attention you get. You are feeling insecure without a good reason.
2007-05-09 00:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them know, accept the fact that they may want a different type of relationship with each other. If they are really your friends, just tell them how you feel left out and tell them how much they mean to you and your life.
2007-05-09 00:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by CaseyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is easy.. They have developed feeling for one another and you have not figured it out yet... The other one of you being upset when they talk to each other is more than likely you have grown to like her also... I just think that she likes him more and you need to let them grow into a couple or let her know how you feel.. Also talk with you're buddy I am pretty sure that he will let you in on the latest scope..
2007-05-09 00:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural to be jealous, human nature is a hard habit to break. Just keep being yourself and make other friends. Life is too short to worry about some things.
Have you asked yourself if you like the girl more than just a friend?
2007-05-09 00:20:05 · answer #6 · answered by garage_sale_annie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest & tell them how your feeling.
I'm sure they dont even realize they seem to be excluding you at times.
Try having more get togethers for you and the girl. And then at other times make it the 3 of you.
Maybe call her more just to talk.
2007-05-09 00:20:21 · answer #7 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's jealousy, just deal with it for awhile, and maybe it'll actually clear up to you maybe liking her.....just try to talk to her too, and don't forget about him, who says friends aren't important?
2007-05-09 00:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them about your insecurities.
2007-05-09 00:17:07 · answer #9 · answered by brad 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell them how u feel...
2007-05-09 00:19:32 · answer #10 · answered by crestfallen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋