Family & Relationships - 8 May 2007

I did not accept my boyfriend's proposal 2 yrs ago b/c I felt we were not ready financially for marriage. We are currently separated on a "break", his choice - no dating of others. He is trying to buy a house to feel as he says "like the man in the relationship". He finally told me that he has resentment due to my non-acceptance of his proposal. I told him that I love him and I would marry him now but he says it's not the right time since we are at odds. What do I do? It's been 6 weeks of back and forth. I am angry because the pain from the break and he is angry about the embarrassment from the proposal. He evidently told a lot of people. (BTW, we didn't discuss marriage fully and he did not has a gist of what I would say.)
Help, what do I do?

2007-05-08 02:26:14 · 15 answers · asked by Exotica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

To all guys out there. I have a question for you. There are lots of issues in here but please let’s just stick on my question. If you are a guy then if you know that your gf really loves you so much that she can’t live without you, that she is so crazy about you. Will you prefer to know all these? Will you be happy or what? How do you feel when you hear all these? Does it bother you or you think that its just being over melodramatic? Are you gonna love her more or love her less?

2007-05-08 02:25:46 · 6 answers · asked by Jane 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a hard time following the rules. I mean im not a bad kid that does drugs, and sneeks out of their house or skips school. I just can never manage to follow my parents rules. For instance myspace. Iv had 3 and iv gotn caught every time. The thing is I really want one. But in order for me to have one i have to have my parents trust witch i dont please help. I hate havn to live my life in secresy

2007-05-08 02:23:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

really i need to know this... how do you know if you love somebody?

2007-05-08 02:22:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-08 02:22:17 · 9 answers · asked by Jolisa S 1 in Singles & Dating

If Deez sits on a plane...would his gas make the plane go faster or will his fat **** make the plane fall to the ground?

2007-05-08 02:18:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Have you cheated by sleeping with the person you are in love with if you waited for everything (any form of physical love) until you filed for divorce and you no longer are in love with your spouse?

2007-05-08 02:18:02 · 28 answers · asked by QueenMoofMoof 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im living in a foriegn country, and there is a girl that works at a place not far from me that i'm interested in, but she speaks very little english. We've been out together before, in a group of people, but we didnt say a whole lot, for these reasons. I am learning her language, but its a long process, and i still have a long way to go before i can even start making basic sentences. In the meantime though, does anyone have any suggestions on where i procede from here, without being able to speak much?

2007-05-08 02:17:26 · 4 answers · asked by Nick_EL250 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is a good man. He works hard and has a good job and he loves me very much. When he proposed I thought this was what should matter. Everyone who meets him thinks he is wonderful and both friends and family wanted me to marry him.
I knew something was missing. I loved him but I never once felt IN love with him. After 7 years (2 married) I find myself dreaming about what it would be like to be kissed again and actually get a nice feeling from it.
My husband is not home most of the time because he works so much. He has gotten quite heavy because he is never home to work out like he used to.
I am even less attracted to him now than I was before. I don't know what to do.I feel like he is just my friend. Being with him sexually grosses me out.

2007-05-08 02:17:11 · 14 answers · asked by Eva C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

usually this occurs when we are arguing. we also live togeather.

2007-05-08 02:17:06 · 8 answers · asked by marie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Or should the husband be the one to make all the decisions?
All replies appreciated. Thanks

2007-05-08 02:16:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-08 02:15:40 · 5 answers · asked by catwoman12325 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-08 02:12:25 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

not loving some one anymore ..but still loving..the times with them.
& in such a case how do you think its termed .. "moved" on or no?

2007-05-08 02:11:47 · 6 answers · asked by barley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and "once a cheater,always a cheater"?
It's easy to say because one partner fails to provide a certain trait another partner needs...I mean beyond that...Some people go on to cheat in second relationships too,even if they are content...

2007-05-08 02:11:38 · 7 answers · asked by crystal 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-08 02:10:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-08 02:10:01 · 23 answers · asked by TJ 3 in Singles & Dating

I have seen a man put in Jail for non-payment of support and I don't think this helps the father nor the mother. You cannot pay support if you are in jail and not working!

2007-05-08 02:07:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband's beautiful aunt recently married a guy that's actually old enough to be her grandfather. No suprise, he's also very rich. I know she's using him for money but he married her for her looks and body. When people marry for money, do they earn it? I know gold diggers and kept men are shallow and superficial, I'm just wondering if they deserve the money they get.

2007-05-08 02:05:10 · 6 answers · asked by Graciela, RIRS 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-08 02:04:09 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend he is living a lie. He will lie about the most simple things to people. He even lies about his name, age, anything you can think of....he has told a lie about it. I ask him why he is the way he is and he says he has been doing it since he was a child and he is so used to it....he also says it's fun to switch up the lie too. I think he needs help because I don't want our friendship to end..we have been friends since childhood, and im getting real sick of his stupid lies! What should I do?

2007-05-08 02:04:00 · 15 answers · asked by Still Standing 4 in Friends

she was a "one stop wedding shop". If a planning company offered you cakes, invitations, limo services, and photography services included in their packages, would you hire them, or would you rather find your own vendors?

One of the things I was stressed the most about when planning my wedding was all of the different people to deal with, different places to go, etc.... I thought it would have been nice to have one phone call to make, and everything could be handled just from communicating to this one person, and 1 company.

What do you think? I am considering starting up something like this, but I want to see if people would use the service.

2007-05-08 02:01:39 · 18 answers · asked by CJ 4 in Weddings

Actually, this IS acceped where I live. How did we get to this point?

2007-05-08 02:01:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Last night my fiance and I were making love and our 2 1/2 year old son was in bed already for about an hour. So we figured good hes asleep. Well right in the middle of it my fiance looks over and to his horror there is our son watching in the doorway!!!!!! We didnt know whether to laugh or scream. So we got dressed very fast and giggled for awhile and put him back to bed after telling him that mommy and daddy were playing. Well now my fiance thinks the kid is ruined for life. I keep telling him that our child is going to be fine and wont remember it. Even though he has an excellent memory. I still keep laughing inside everytime I think about it. If you have a story, please share.

2007-05-08 01:57:29 · 13 answers · asked by crystal lee 5 in Family

I waited and for about a week for this guy to call me. He said he would call last night to set up another date. I still have not heard from him. I am feeling like he is not as interested as he should be if he really likes me. I don't know what to do. We are old friends and we dated back in the day. We just reunited a couple weeks ago.

2007-05-08 01:56:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 27 and have lived in the one town all my life. I am an only child of divorced parents and have always struggled to feel secure (relying to much on other people to make me happy). I am thinking about selling my house and travelling overseas for a few months. I have never travelled overseas before. I am not content with my life at the moment and concerned that I will never leave my comfort zone.
I am hoping that by taking the leap I will find independence and confidence, which are two things I really want. Selling my house is obviously a big decision but I can not afford to travel without doing so and I am not sure that I want to come back here after I travel.

2007-05-08 01:52:05 · 4 answers · asked by Shan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-08 01:51:54 · 8 answers · asked by jody mom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if , you have a talk with you ex . normal talk . & you say .." remember....something...."""'
( something of the past "

& to your horror .. the mr.ex behaves " huh" i dunno what you talking of???

is it not mean?

2007-05-08 01:50:33 · 9 answers · asked by barley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, so I met this dude at the club on Friday and he got my number. The next day, he texted me saying "hey beautiful" and that he wanted to hang out with me that day, but I told him I couldn't. So the next day, he texted me again telling me he was gonna call me later that day, but before he did he started asking me questions such as: "What is your fav. color, your mom's name and what do you like to do?" Now, I thought that was kinda odd since he JUST told me he was gonna call me later and I figured he should ask me questions like that over the phone. Anyway, we never spoke that night, but yesterday we did. He asked me what was my middle initial and last name? Again a little odd. He told me he wants to hang out with me at least 3 times a week and and that he wants to make me his girl and to send a pic of myself to his phone, so he can show me off! Mind you, I JUST met this guy on Friday! Now please, I need your opinion on this guy, tell me if you think he seems like he may be a stalker.

2007-05-08 01:49:56 · 18 answers · asked by Essie 6 in Singles & Dating

I still live at home, in my early twenties, and I think that if I liked someone and they liked me , could she stop us ?

Like if she didn't like him and I did?

2007-05-08 01:47:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating