How do I gain my parents trust back and follow the rules?

Question

I have a hard time following the rules. I mean im not a bad kid that does drugs, and sneeks out of their house or skips school. I just can never manage to follow my parents rules. For instance myspace. Iv had 3 and iv gotn caught every time. The thing is I really want one. But in order for me to have one i have to have my parents trust witch i dont please help. I hate havn to live my life in secresy

Answer 1

The only way to gain your parents trust is to earn it and to deserve it. So if your still sneaking around and living your life in secrecy then you obviously can't be trusted to follow their rules- Why should they trust you? It seems what you are really concerned with is how to deceive your parents into a false sense of trust in you--- which is exactly what landed you in the situation your in now. Stop repeating your past mistakes and the trust will come.

Answer 2

Such is life dude. Until youre 18, bite your tongue and join the real world. Its the job of parents to do what they feel is best for their kids, no matter how you might percieve this. Its not easy being a parent - something you will find out on your own one day. The more you rebel, the more you are irritating them. Theyre not making rules to p*** you off, theyre doing it because theyve been there and done all of it already....theyre using their past experiences to make a better person out of you. If they didnt love you, things would be different - but not in better way. Listen to the voice of experience and chill

Answer 3

Having a myspace page is not as important as having the trust of you parents...Listen to what your parent have to say. (they will not steer you in the wrong direction) There is a reason they dont want you to have a myspace page, so accept the fact and find something more constructive to do with your time, like read a newspaper, book, go outside etc etc

Answer 4

maybe you could sit your parents down and show them that myspace has a private profile setting so only people you know can view your profile or add you as a friend. Also, to prove to them some responsibility, you could let them know your password so they can occasionally check in on you. As long as you stay on the right track and don't have any inappropriate things on your profile, maybe you'll earn back some of their trust.

Answer 5

your problem is lack of awareness, means you are not aware of
what you are doing, that`s all, which results into faith lost,

make a practice of being aware, to start with
while reading this answer, you should be aware that
you are reading this, like wise, be aware for each and every
single moments, this is not that simple, just try but it works,

may take few weeks to a month to master the awareness..
self-awareness and all your problems of life will diseappear,
and you will re-gain your parents trust, sure
believe you me.

Answer 6

YOu will only prove them as years go by. Slowly they will accept. I am in my 30s and my mum still thinks i'm young baby, imagine in your case! it took me 20 years! and may even need another 20 if they are still alive!

Answer 7

you have to talk to your parents about the issues you are having maybe even they want to talk but silence sometimes get dangerous be frank and i am sure they will understand