Family & Relationships - 8 May 2007

Most guys i see with their chicks are always lookin at other girls while their gf has he head turned. y do they have no self control, i mean u dont want ur girl lookin at another guy, do u???

2007-05-08 04:36:56 · 16 answers · asked by Rissa 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel we are not made for each other. I recently went back with him, about 2 months, but I truly realize we're not going in the same direction. We have no common dreams or even future plans. I don't want to hurt him too much. It's just that when we break up he starts crying and gets all depressed.

2007-05-08 04:36:51 · 19 answers · asked by Playera 3 in Marriage & Divorce

can you' s answer me this question seriously (no piss takers) my partner can go without sex for weeks. we have a toddler and we both work different shifts when i come home at night (i work p/t in a pub) he is sleeping he is up from 5.30 every morning i know he must be tired*** but come on im GaGGinG
do all guys masturbate i dont think he is messing about. please HELP *****

2007-05-08 04:36:38 · 34 answers · asked by tinkerbell 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-08 04:36:33 · 11 answers · asked by brain beauty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Most guys i see with their chicks are always lookin at other girls while their gf has he head turned. y do they have no self control, i mean u dont want ur girl lookin at another guy, do u???

2007-05-08 04:36:24 · 25 answers · asked by Rissa 2 in Singles & Dating

I see the commercials, I see the movies, I hear the hype...what makes sex so great? (This comes from the mouth of a virgin, yes, so please be gentle in response)

2007-05-08 04:35:23 · 37 answers · asked by Ayumi 23 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-08 04:32:45 · 30 answers · asked by UPGRAYEDD 4 in Singles & Dating

im 16... i feel so un loved! ive never had a boyfriend! when i find a guy i like they are too old! or they plan on turning into a girl themselves *cringes*... all guys my age are dick heads! until i got to high school i had no friends! im different and no body likes me for who i am... except my best friends! there was a guy or to that i liked! but he never asked me out! i asked him if he liked me! but he doesnt! there was a guy that liked me! it didnt work out cos i never saw him! ive never been kissed on the lips! stupid... hey? pls help me... y dont no body like me? the ppl who do like me are in there mid 20s and up! just as friends! except one guy! he makes me feel special! i really like him! and he likes me! excpet when he found out my age he backed off! he barely talks to me now! hes 29! and we have so much in common! he makes me laugh! and you can tell we like each othe by being in the same room (according to my friend)! y do i feel this way towards sum1 so much older than me?

2007-05-08 04:32:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i'm talking to this girl from a phone chatline. i'm 18 turning 19 in aug and she turned 17 in january. we talk on the phone and she sent me a pic and she 's not ugly she's pretty. i told her we should be friends but we can still like each other because i don't want to be serious with a female. i haven't met her yet but when i do i wanna kiss her and thats about it i can't see myself going down on her or any other extremely sexual things. even tho she's she told me i make her feel a way and i feel the same too. i don't know. i haven't even told anyone about her it's like my little personal thing i want to keep to myself. any comments?

2007-05-08 04:31:21 · 16 answers · asked by ch@L@nt 1 in Singles & Dating

but how many people disagree and think the disease aspect is a crock being used as a crutch

I remember watching a Penn and Teller epsiode odf Bull**** one evening and what they said made sense

Cancer , Diabetes , leukemia and Malaria are diseases , as are schizophrenia , depression etc

These are situations where the person has no choice

But alcoholics choose to drink


It is the only "didease" I can think of where the "patient" has full control over his or her destiny


Discuss

2007-05-08 04:30:54 · 25 answers · asked by banjaxed 6 in Marriage & Divorce

So there's is this girl and i liked her and we were talking and stuff; but then it turns out that she likes my best friend and she was just using me to get to him. So now her and my best friend are going out; but i still like her but she going out with my friend. It's not really much of a question, I was just wondering if you had any advice?

2007-05-08 04:29:42 · 7 answers · asked by nathan122591 2 in Singles & Dating

I need to know why! I mean should marrige be a factor? But I want to be happy with the opposit sex. Who gets married any more- For true reasons without the prenups! Just a general question for all to answer!

2007-05-08 04:29:39 · 17 answers · asked by taa daa 2 in Singles & Dating

The deal is... I tend to get on better with men than with women. I don't exactly have a lot of female friends. What should I do about bridesmaids? I have three sisters in law should I just pick them? What about Maid of Honour? I'm not close to any of them. My H2B is having his brothers and my brother as groomsmen and best man so there are no shortage of male attendants but I feel like everyone will be looking at me like I'm a Billy No Mates coz I don't have female friends to be in the ceremony.

2007-05-08 04:28:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I feel Like relationships just don't last like they used to, it's like you can be with someone for 4-5 years ( which is a long time) and be madly in love then out the blue the couple breaks up, then there's couples who eventually cheat on one another or eventually get into arguments and break up. It's like in the beginning everything is sweet and couldn't be more perfect then as time goes on everything goes down Hill. I'm starting to feel like most of us if not all, aren't meant to be with just one person the rest of our lives I feel Like we all get different learning experiences and memories from different people that we date or marry and then we move on to the Next person eventually, it's like a endless cycle are they're others who agree or not?

2007-05-08 04:28:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My guy and I had sex for the 1st time a few days ago. It was the 1st time ever for me so I'm sure I'm over reacting. He didn't use a condom and I agreed to this. Anyways, about a few hours after, i got cramps in my lower stomach. Then the next time I started to feel nausua. I still have the cramps and I still feel nausua. It's not all the time, just probaly half the day. Is this because it was my 1st time? (I'm 24 incause you need to my know my age) I'm really dumb to all this because I really didn't get in touch with my body till being with him.

Also, where can i go to get on birth control? Can I go to my primary doctor? Or planned parenthood? Any one recommend one that wouldn't cause weight gain and is on the cheap side?

Thank you for any help at all.

2007-05-08 04:27:58 · 13 answers · asked by Mom to one cute boy! 6 in Singles & Dating

I am in a long distance relationship, and sometimes the need is crucial. I have a few, but would like to know what others use.

2007-05-08 04:26:51 · 18 answers · asked by Sarah W 1 in Singles & Dating

If you found out that your girlfriend was pregnant, both of you are in school only and not working, you love her but don't feel ready to have a baby would you ask her/demand that she get an abortion?

2007-05-08 04:26:32 · 30 answers · asked by Melissa 1 in Singles & Dating

He still says I love you but only on the phone, or if I say it first he says I love you too. He watches porn nearly everyday and he knows I consider it cheating. We don't make love as much anymore. When we do, I can't enjoy it because all I can think about is whether he's thinking of me or the porn. He started being really secretive recently, and added a password to his user account on the computer and won't tell me what it is. In the last couple days we've only said maybe 20 words to each other. When I try to hug him he pulls away. We can't afford a counselor, and I don't think he would go anyway. What do I do, I don't want to lose him, I love him so much? Any advice would be extremely helpful.

We also have a almost 4 year old son, he's great with him, at least when I'm at home too.

2007-05-08 04:23:56 · 53 answers · asked by DeAnna 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok here it goes. I have been with my fiance since September and we are getting married in July. I love her with all of my heart but I am jealous of past relationships she has had, I feel jealous when she wants to go to the "club" with her friend that has lower morals than my finace. My fiance is a beautiful woman who I love dearly (I am 27 she is 29) just so you know our ages. I now guys look at her and "undress her with their eyes...like a piece of meat and I cannot stand it and it makes me jealous. I do not go to the club with her as I do not dance and she dances very very well!!! What can I do to stop being so jealous and to let her know that I really do not like her going "clubbing" especially with that one friend....thanks
As a note...I have told her before that I do not like her going to the club and do not care for this one friend due to her morals, but my finace has never given any reason to doubt her and always tells me it is me she is with and it is me she is coming home to

2007-05-08 04:23:15 · 7 answers · asked by lbs_dad2003 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-08 04:22:57 · 1 answers · asked by sayed a 1 in Friends

So, you've been married awhile, the sparks have turned into embers. Things have settled down to day to day living. Maybe you have a child or two (or five)..... life goes on. What do you expect from a 'good' wife? How and what do you share and what would you rather she'd stay out of?
Your top 10 please, what makes a good wife and please state how long / how often you've been maried. ~ Thanks! I'm really interested to see hopefully a nice broad spectrum of posters.

2007-05-08 04:22:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have 2 boys and 2 different fathers I have been through hell went them . I met someone that I always dreamed of having. We only knew each other for 5 days and so far we have gone to church 2gether and took the kids to the amusement park and it has been wonderful we even plan on being saved 2gether but the only thing is he lives with another woman. Which he has been searching for his own place with me because he wants out of the relationship. He says she is not what he wants. Me personally has always had my guard up when it came to men since my 2 bad 1's with my kids father. But I trust in this man like this is the best feeling I ever had. I just want 2 know am I being crazy? Honest answers only.

2007-05-08 04:21:07 · 20 answers · asked by lsdhaiti 1 in Singles & Dating

If you found out that your girlfriend was pregnant, both of you are in school only and not working, you love her but don't feel ready to have a baby would you ask her/demand that she get an abortion?

Does telling your girlfriend that you want her to have an abortion mean that you don't love her-as much as you claim?

2007-05-08 04:17:55 · 14 answers · asked by Melissa 1 in Singles & Dating

i met this girl where i work, we started talking, then she said she likes me. no doubt i like her too, but then she says shes twisted, because her ex says hes coming back from vegas soon, and she promised him that she would wait for him. she says she doesnt want to go back out with her, but shes constantly thinking about him. iono what to do...

2007-05-08 04:17:26 · 33 answers · asked by jay 2 in Singles & Dating

I know I'm gonna get some stupid answers but here I go regardless...

My boyfriend is 28. I'm nearly 23. We've been together 18 months. If we were to get engaged and plan on marrying in say, a year, is that too young? What's your gut reaction?

No proposals have been made, but we have discussed our long term plans together with regards to career moves, ideal and expected income and even family values re. children (NOT soon). Oh yes, and I found a leaflet on customised ring design in his pocket when he lent me his coat!!!!

2007-05-08 04:15:56 · 33 answers · asked by tigerfly 4 in Marriage & Divorce

are you an accident prone? if so who or what makes you one? my friends, family and people always tells me that im an accident prone and that im a bad accident waiting to happen. thats how bad i am. am i alone?

2007-05-08 04:15:07 · 10 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Friends

2007-05-08 04:13:42 · 3 answers · asked by tamashaperryman 2 in Singles & Dating

clues he likes me...:
cames to my house at midnight just wanting to talk
came to my house around 11 just wanting to say hey
came to my house last night to chat for a little while
friends are telling me it's clues that he likes me
he im's me.
he texts me back, almost always now.
he tells me secrets only i know. at least he said that...

clues he doesn't like me:
he talks about other girls [maybe to make me jealous?]
he said i looks uncomfortable when i was talking to him last night [i hurt my knees really bad on friday and was squating to talk to him]
he doesn't invite me anywhere, but he comes over...

i'm also not sure if i like him. i used too. and i'm maybe
willing to give him a chance.

i just need to know ur opinion, does he like me?! [keep in mind he's extremely shy.]

2007-05-08 04:12:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is going into the air force in a couple months, and we've been talking about "us" and our relationship, and he told me that he doesnt want a relationship with anyone right now, and he also wants me to basically just forget about him and move on. I dont know how to move on, i really love him, and i want to be with him, this is just so hard for me. I wish i could tell him "ok fine, we're over" but i cant, im not that strong, and a part of me just wants to hold on and try to make it work. what am i supposed to do??

2007-05-08 04:10:47 · 2 answers · asked by gibby411892003 1 in Singles & Dating

I am confused, I know I shouldn't be but I am! I met my girl when I was 17 and have now been with her five years. We have been through so much together it would take hours to go into it, and she has always stuck by me even though I havent always been easy to live with. I love her to the end of the earth and I do still find her sexually attractive.

So WHY oh WHY do I consistently want to sleep with pretty much every woman I see? I mean it is getting crazy I just want to rip women apart sometimes, like my animal instinct is taking over! The drive to be with as many girls as possible is driving me crazy. I don’t want to be with anyone else, I certainly don’t want to be in a relationship with anyone else, but when I think of sleeping with someone else it drives me crazy with desire. The only thing that stops me (apart from the fact that I'm sure most of these girls would reject me anyway!) is the thought that I don’t want to be racked with guilt and ruin our relationship.

2007-05-08 04:10:17 · 52 answers · asked by Joe S 2 in Singles & Dating