Most guys i see with their chicks are always lookin at other girls while their gf has he head turned. y do they have no self control, i mean u dont want ur girl lookin at another guy, do u???
2007-05-08 04:36:24 · 25 answers · asked by Rissa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I look at it like this. How come women think that once they get with a man that all other women become unattractive? As long as he isn't running to get their number then get over it.
2007-05-08 04:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by ellasdaughter2004 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
if you are insecure in your relationship this sort of thing would bother you. the reason guys look at other women when their girlfriends are around is because they look at women when their girlfriends aren't around. just because you are with someone, dosent mean he or she should have blinders on.there is nothing with looking at someone who has entered a room or is standing close by. chances are if you watch the same guy he is also looking at other men too. the eyes are wired into the central nervous system so when things move the eyes move to see what it is. if it is something nice one tends to look for more than a second. there is nothing wrong with that. women do it too.so long as they are not wolf-whistling or disrespecting the person they are with, there is no reason to put this person in a no-self-control category. it is perfectly natural and perfectly human to look.
2007-05-08 11:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by tigercub1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What planet are you from. Either you're a very jealous person or very naive. If my didn't look at or comment on other beautiful women then I'd think there was something wrong. It's normal, and FYI women do it too. If I see a good looking man of course i'm going to notice, it's natural, and by the way it's also natural for women to notice other women. Get over it.
2007-05-08 11:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by isa2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is only natural for men to look at other women. It is quite unavoidable. I bet you look at men too and have found some of them attractive but don't say so. He is not a race horse with blinders on. You can look and admire as long as he is going home with you don't make a big deal or it will cause a rift.
2007-05-08 11:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by dvdflyerdevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are visual creatures by nature. God made them that way. If your man isnt disrespectful when he looks then there is no problem. If you are secure in your relationship then taking a look at a woman walking on the street is no harm done. As a matter of fact I too still look. There is no sin in that.
2007-05-08 11:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex looked at a girl up and down and all around in front of my eyes isnt that sick???? I THINK ALL GUYS ARE DOGS!!!!
ANYWHO... you are right it is so wrong i see this happening all the time. Once i asked my ex why he did that infront of my ex.. ofcourse he gave me 5 lame excuses but i added if i were to look at a guy the way you looked at a girl how would you feel? He replyed with i wouldnt like it and i then said Now you know how i feel.
2007-05-08 11:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by sydney bristow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can't help it... we need to spread our seed around... subconsciously looking for another mate... even though we shouldn't act on it... some do... it has nothing to do with how good looking our current girlfriend is... we always want more... and we always will... can't stop it... but most guys can control the actual act of having more than one partner. It's tough sometimes though...
2007-05-08 11:43:05 · answer #7 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have been happily married for 11 years and occasionaly my hubby still looks , I dont mind . My opinion is if a woman is half naked or showing all her stuff its just natural to look it doesn't mean they dont love us or the way we look . Its human nature to see something pleasing to the eyes and look. Be secure in your relationship and mostlyu in yourself and it wil be alright .
2007-05-08 11:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by DIVA C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortuantely, guys are visual creatures when it comes to the opposite sex. Not making an excuse by any means. Guys tend to look and watch. Not ever guy does it with desire by any means. I hope you guy is lost in you and doesn't notice anyone else.
2007-05-08 11:40:20 · answer #9 · answered by Opie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its human nature to want what we cant have. its always nice to just appreciate how someone other than yo lover looks.
i think its mainly about looks cause after awhile all you see of you lover is their personality and how they make you feel or how they annoy you, that kinda thing. its just nice to look without the added mess of a relationship. and when the other person gets mad it shows how much you how much they still into you and boosts you up
2007-05-08 11:46:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is almost impossible for a man not to look; we don't even realize we are doing it half the time.
I really don't care who or what she looks at. It's just looking. Get your apetite anywhere and anyway you want, as long as you always come home to eat.
2007-05-08 11:41:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋