i feel unloved! no body likes me...?

Question

im 16... i feel so un loved! ive never had a boyfriend! when i find a guy i like they are too old! or they plan on turning into a girl themselves *cringes*... all guys my age are dick heads! until i got to high school i had no friends! im different and no body likes me for who i am... except my best friends! there was a guy or to that i liked! but he never asked me out! i asked him if he liked me! but he doesnt! there was a guy that liked me! it didnt work out cos i never saw him! ive never been kissed on the lips! stupid... hey? pls help me... y dont no body like me? the ppl who do like me are in there mid 20s and up! just as friends! except one guy! he makes me feel special! i really like him! and he likes me! excpet when he found out my age he backed off! he barely talks to me now! hes 29! and we have so much in common! he makes me laugh! and you can tell we like each othe by being in the same room (according to my friend)! y do i feel this way towards sum1 so much older than me?

Answer 1

Hey, because that guy backed off when he found out your age, shows that he loves you. Awesome, to be so respected and honored by a guy that he deny his instinct for you; it says you are special to him.

You are most of all loved and liked by G-d. He will never leave you nor will he ever forsake you. He loves you with an everlasting love. And if you learn to love yourself and accept yourself as you are but never being too comfortable with you self to not improve yourself and change. You will draw others to yourself because you will love those who feel as unloved as you once did, and you will tell them what I am telling you.

"You are most of all loved and liked by G-d. He will never leave you nor will he ever forsake you. He loves you with an everlasting love..."

AnthropologistCarl

Answer 2

In 2 years it wont be that big a deal.Honestly your still growing up and havent spread your wings yet.So what if you havent been kissed at least your not a tramp.I like older guys too and beleive me when you hit 18 to 21 you will meet a whole slew of guys you had no idea about. Its probly a good time to focus on makeup ,hair and teen magazine so you can make yourself look your personal best.Never compare yourself to others.You like the older guy because you have good chemistry.I have chemistry with lots of diffrent men .I could have it with a guy alot older or alot younger then me.That is not to say I would date them its just chemicals, hormones and liking their looks.I judge whether I would date them based on their character.Stop worrying and allow yourself time to grow.

Answer 3

i have that same problem....the only guys that like me are way to old for me......im 16 too..and it was hard to find guys my age who liked me.....well now i have 3 differnet guys who i like and who like me back...and the best part is that they are around my age( a little older, like 17 or 18)...i just had to wait....in high school it is so much easier........you just need to wait to......there will be a guy your age soon...and if not,.......then here is my saying:

Age is only a number!!!
29 might be to high for now though
when you are older, like 18....it wont matter the age
but untill them....stick to 20 and under
it will happen
you can count on it

Answer 4

He's 29. You're sixteen. Why can't you get a guy your own age. That lad doesn't want to end up in prison.

Answer 5

When I was in school I felt this way to.,but I am older now and things have change. You see you have to learn to love your self and it changes how people see you. Rember though time heals all woons.

Answer 6

Maybe you have a father complex

Answer 7

i will do only if u be my true friend.
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