What makes a good wife? Men - name your top 10 please?

Question

So, you've been married awhile, the sparks have turned into embers. Things have settled down to day to day living. Maybe you have a child or two (or five)..... life goes on. What do you expect from a 'good' wife? How and what do you share and what would you rather she'd stay out of?
Your top 10 please, what makes a good wife and please state how long / how often you've been maried. ~ Thanks! I'm really interested to see hopefully a nice broad spectrum of posters.

Answer 1

I'v been with my wife since we were 14 and we married at 19, this summer will make 10 years of happy marriage.

My list in no particular order would be:

1. A good sense of humor.
2. No secrets from each other.
3. Ability to listen to each other
4. Takes an interest in others hobbies/sports/etc
5. We each seem to know when the other just needs left alone.
6. Knowing when to walk away from an arguement.
7. Being supportive in all things.
8. Don;t bring up each others faults.
9. Don't bring up past mistakes.

And probably the most important

10. Knowing there will be disagreements and arguements and that you will get on each others nerves from time to time but always remembering how much you love each other and that no one and no relationship is perfect. If you are looking for perfection you will be disappointed.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

One and two from my point of view (not necessarily in that order) are that she's financially responsible and that communication between the husband and wife is easy and rewarding for both.

Other traits I would value are enough creativity for interest and enough mechanicality for stability; high similarity of priorities; responsible behavior in nonfinancial matters; and enough concern with the past to learn and enough concern with the future to prepare, though these may just be another way of saying "responsible."

And one trait that many successful relationships have is that both members retain senses of intimacy and commitment even after most of the passion has faded ("companionate love" according to the triangular theory of love).

I've never been married but I think I've learned a lot from previous relationships.

Answer 4

A submissive wife to a considerate and respectful husband.

Answer 5

loyalty and understanding