My guy and I had sex for the 1st time a few days ago. It was the 1st time ever for me so I'm sure I'm over reacting. He didn't use a condom and I agreed to this. Anyways, about a few hours after, i got cramps in my lower stomach. Then the next time I started to feel nausua. I still have the cramps and I still feel nausua. It's not all the time, just probaly half the day. Is this because it was my 1st time? (I'm 24 incause you need to my know my age) I'm really dumb to all this because I really didn't get in touch with my body till being with him.
Also, where can i go to get on birth control? Can I go to my primary doctor? Or planned parenthood? Any one recommend one that wouldn't cause weight gain and is on the cheap side?
Thank you for any help at all.
2007-05-08 04:27:58 · 13 answers · asked by Mom to one cute boy! 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We both were virgins so no chance of stds or anything
2007-05-08 04:39:59 · update #1
Thank you all for your help! Mostly those who didn't tell me what a risk it was for using no condom. Trust me, we had talked about it plenty of times before. (A good 6 months before we did it) It was NOT a spur of the moment thing. We both did STD testing even though we had no risks and of course we both were negative. Make jokes about my age but some people actually still wait, and we are 2 examples!!!!
2007-05-08 05:11:38 · update #2
The cramping you feel is probably a combination of this being your first time and the anxiety you're putting yourself under for not using a condom. I recommend going to planned parenthood (or your doctor if you feel comfortable) and getting an emergency contraceptive to keep you from getting pregnant ASAP. It needs to be taken within 72 hours to prevent pregnancy. You can also get birth control there, but there are so many to choose from, it would be wise to consider all of your options first. There are pills, DepoProvera (the shot), implants, diaphragms, the patch... the list goes on. You'll eventually find out what's best for you. I use Mirena, it's inserted by your OB/Gyn and lasts for up to five years. I prefer it because I am too forgetful to remember to take a pill every day at the same time, and I prefer to not have a period. Anyways, I hope this helps, and until you can get birth control (which will probably be on your next period) be safe! Use a condom or abstain from sex. Good luck!
2007-05-08 04:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off at your age are you for real?
Go to your family doctor and ask to see an obgyn.
Or go to a birth control clinic and talk with them.
At your age and not using a condom with all the information out there now what the heck where you thinking?
Ask for a pregnancy test at any of the above places.
Also a woman of your age needs to be visiting an obgyn on regular visits for pap test. Go some where you feel comfortable talking to. Have a list of questions prepared and like am I pregnant, did I contract a std, can I be tested for HIV, do I have hpv? These are all questions you need to ask, ask about the different kinds of birth control? You also need to be aware of what all these things are and what is out there to protect you. You need someone to explain all of this too you and how to use it.
Just don't have intercourse again until you've seen someone.
Good luck
2007-05-08 11:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by Kathleen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most pills effect every woman differently..so ask your doctor about your method of birth control..and sex without a condom is the best way to get S-T-Ds A-I-Ds or K-I-Ds. Not smart..but you already know that. You don't need to rush...but go see your doctor and tell him/her you just lost your virginity and you want a full work-over. This way you can find out about any female problems you may have...you will be fine I'm sure....oh and congratulations being 24 and just now losing your v-card!! most chicks don't even make it to 18...I did!!! Primary doctor is the best place to go!!! but you're probably not pregnant if that's what your thinkin...
2007-05-08 11:37:43 · answer #3 · answered by Shyla B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i am 16 and have never had sex without a condom that is the stupidist thing you could do i mean ever what about stds duhh omg did you parents never talk to you about sex second of all you are prolly under stress right now that may be why your body is doing funky stuff i recommend you go the store and buy two pregancy tests because they are not always accurate it is better to use 2 to make sure and Planned parenthood is cheaper for birth control and you should probably talk to them about side affects of birth control becauser i do not know about that
2007-05-08 11:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by Haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a couple of options as far as birth control goes. Condoms are available in drug stores and other big boxes with a drug section. Other forms, IUD, Diaphram, pill, and others, need a doctor. You should go to where you are comforable. As far as staying on the cheap side remember the alternative and the saying you get what you pay for.
2007-05-08 12:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by Pug_the_invoker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First calm down your family doctor will be able to help you with the birth control and why no condom? In case you dont know there are stds and aids and unwanted pregnancy and no you need to know how many people he has had sex with cause you just had sex with all of them and so on . If I were you I would get a physical and get testeed for any stds just in case he had one and you dont know
2007-05-08 11:34:19 · answer #6 · answered by weeping_spirit 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to go to the ongyn and get a yearly exam every year, they can tell you alot more and you can also get birthcontrol from them, dont over react it could just be your nerves...i have been married for almost 4 years and i still after having sex have craps really bad...i would just get checked! GOOD LUCK!
2007-05-08 11:41:14 · answer #7 · answered by Girl K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to discuss birth control with you doc. I personally go to planned parent hood and take orto-low. it is 22 per package(monthly) but i forgot all the time to actually take the pill. I think you stomach problems were probably just nerves. you just gave something to someone for the first time and that's a lot to deal with
good luck to you.
2007-05-08 11:35:51 · answer #8 · answered by rollieoolie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can go anywhere for birth control. i would recommend taking a home pregnancy test. I went to planned parenthood before and they were very professional, and the services are very affordable.
2007-05-08 11:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you wouldn't know if your pregnant yet your probley just nervise it;'s a big deal when it's your first time also i would go to planned parenthood or family planning they can help you get whatever you need also wear a condum you don't know what he has and can give it to you be careful
2007-05-08 11:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by princess_paige8501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋