so i'm talking to this girl from a phone chatline. i'm 18 turning 19 in aug and she turned 17 in january. we talk on the phone and she sent me a pic and she 's not ugly she's pretty. i told her we should be friends but we can still like each other because i don't want to be serious with a female. i haven't met her yet but when i do i wanna kiss her and thats about it i can't see myself going down on her or any other extremely sexual things. even tho she's she told me i make her feel a way and i feel the same too. i don't know. i haven't even told anyone about her it's like my little personal thing i want to keep to myself. any comments?
2007-05-08 04:31:21 · 16 answers · asked by ch@L@nt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my main attraction is males. i just got bored with the usual so i wanted to do something a little bit more exciting i guess. i'm not planning on being serious with her its just a little mutual liking for each other.
2007-05-08 04:33:10 · update #1
she's bi and she knows we can't be serious
2007-05-08 04:41:23 · update #2
i haven't been with alot of boys i haven't even had a serious relationship yet much less fallen in love. i'm just curious and talking to her is not all sexual matter of fact its really not i just like having the feelings i have for her
2007-05-08 04:47:02 · update #3
You sound unnecessarily complicated and dramatic.
Don't lead her on!
2007-05-08 04:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by TNCreature 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's natural to want to experiment.
So as long as the other girl knows that nothing more serious will come of this and she is still willing to hook up with you then there shouldn't be a problem.
You don't need/have to tell anyone else about this, as you say it's a personal thing.
2007-05-08 11:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by bnagrrl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. GOD made Adam and Eve not Madam and Eve.
Please consult a counselor and it sounds like you been with too many boys if your trying something new. Not to mention by law she is still under age depending on your state laws you can get into a lot of trouble. And if she is truly a lesbian and you're not it can cause complications so think before you go that route. GOD BLESS
2007-05-08 11:43:20 · answer #3 · answered by S M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont do anything. Im telling you it isnt right in the laws of nature. Male and male and women and women isnt sopose to be. I know that you just want to be friends but she might not think that way. Dont get bored and come to your own sex. Go and get bored and come to a guy.
2007-05-08 11:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by sydney bristow 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are going to get into a new kind of relationship, try to find people yourself in person and not through emails, chats, etc.
2007-05-08 11:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by Playera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her. discuss these things with her it is totally normal for you to feel that connection. What you should do is rite before y'all get together for a meeting you need to pleasure yourself like more than once I meen wear yourself out. that will get you not interested in sex or physical pleasure any more for at least enough time for you to get threw your meeting with her.
2007-05-08 11:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by dvdlevns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you have let her know you do not want to be serious with her, and you just want to be friends, then whats wrong with her being a friend with benefits.....
2007-05-08 11:38:40 · answer #7 · answered by Sylkie_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok, im the same way. do what you feel is right, and make sure she knows how u feel about things. theres nothing wrong with ur guys relationship
2007-05-08 11:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People on the internet are liers. She might just be saying that. You should lie her that much if you have never meet her. thats stupid
2007-05-08 11:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think thats a good thing. people should do whatever it takes to make themselves happy. whats life if you aren't happy. whats love if you aren't ahppy?
2007-05-08 11:39:09 · answer #10 · answered by Matt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋