Family & Relationships - 8 May 2007

I would take my boyfriend Ty where ever he wanted to go... or he took me...

2007-05-08 04:08:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please LADIES give me any advice from your heart.
I was in a 3 year relationship with an incredible woman.I just didnt feel ready to get married, be with her yes. I knew in time she would be my wife. She temp went back home (she is from Europe), stayed longer than we thought, and 6 months later she tells me she hooked up with a friend, and they got married. I was devastated, really didnt understand what happened, thought we loved each other, etc.She has been married 2 months, we talked on the phone yesterday and she told me that she ONLY got married bcs she has HPV (as do I) and was worried she couldnt have babies later, and thought I would NEVER do it. He said he would have a baby ASAP. She AMITTED that she freaked out. Well, since then,she told me that she is healthy and will wait to have children. Said she doesnt love her husband, but that he is NICE, makes her happy and that he loves her. She said she is married, so must try. I LOVE her...will this last with him? I am sad!!!

2007-05-08 04:05:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm going on a first date with a guy and I need to know what would look better on a first date: A mini skirt or capri shorts?

2007-05-08 04:04:18 · 9 answers · asked by Rachael 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-08 04:04:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I decided to have barbecue with his niece and her husband. I started cooking some rice and my husband was doing the barbecue outside. I decided to sit down next to my husband's niece when she decides to freestfeed her 1 year old. She don't cover up with anything and my husband walks in and he saw her breest hanging out. He looks away but it still makes me feel mad and very uncomfortable. She most of done it like 3 times when we all were there. That night I was so mad that the next day I told my husband that I don't ever what anymore people coming over. What advise can somebody give me?

2007-05-08 04:04:03 · 9 answers · asked by Patty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he had to go deal with things a while back I promised to be there for him and I was for a long time then I met the guy I am with now have asked advice about him (how to get more attention) anyway I do love him but I am not in love with him never have been,the x has always had my heart and always will. I just don't understand how he can still love me let alone still want to be with me. I was so happy with him and haven't been happy in a while, there are mornings I just don't even want to get up,I know I have to (I have kids and I have to work) I don't want to just jump right back into anything but I do love him and I know we would be happy. Just confused.any advice welcome

2007-05-08 04:00:45 · 13 answers · asked by RED 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he is going out with 1 of my friends and says he loves me and flirts alot and says he jus wants to be friends am i getting played?

2007-05-08 03:58:36 · 12 answers · asked by TwilightObsessed 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend, my cousin and I are planning to go to a trip this summer.
I asked him - - since he's my boyfriend, if he won't mind putting 1 night on his credit card on the hotel, since I dont have a credit card. He said sure no prob.

But I've noticed that he's been a little annoying, making sure that we'll pay him and stuff. I mean obviously we're not going to ripp him off, but he keeps talking about it.

I know he is on the cheap side, etc., but I mean, last year I paid for the full room and didn't ask for a cent for him, and now, he's acting like this? I mean, we'll been together for almost a year and a half, and he should trust me that we are obviously going to give him the money, but he seems to be reminding us a lot. It annoying.

I dont know, I fee like calling him and explaning to him that his attitude is making me feel bad and unsure.

2007-05-08 03:58:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I’ll say a month or so ago me and my bf broke up and it was him that initiated it. After a while I come to the assumption that he did it for no reason at all. He said that it was academic and spiritual purposes, yet we still were seeing each other and doing all the things that broke us up in the first place. After being fed up with him, I cut him off, and every time he wanted to see me and to come over to my place, or me to his, I would always be busy and have something else to do; and would avoid him. He would not stop. After the last time he did it I told him to stop bothering me, and he was so hurt, but I only did it because I felt he was playing games with me and didn’t know what he wanted, and I got tired of feeling like that. A few weeks later I check on facebook and he is in another relationship with some other chick. I think he did it because he saw all these guys sending me messages and playing around with me getting married and in a relationship on facebook. Anywho I congratulate him on his new relationship and wish her and him the best of luck in the future and told him to treat her good. I guess he didn’t expect that. A few days later I am in the shower and he calls me telling me about their problems and how he cant be with her, because every time he was with her he was thinking of me, and that he told her he was still in love with me. I was like that was really messed up how he was playing games with that girl. He calls me over all the time to spend time with me, but is still in contact with this chick. He says its nothing but I don’t know what to think. Should I just leave this dude alone for good? Seems he doesn’t know what he wants in life?

2007-05-08 03:51:29 · 6 answers · asked by girliegirl 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband deserted my 21month old son and myself. He was the sole bread winner for our household. He was a partner as a corporate litigator in DC's top law firm. His income was $280,000.00 a year plus bonuses. He was bought out by his partners. And he spent all of our savings. Now my son and I have nothing and I have not worked in over 6 years. I am so ... I don't think there is a word to expresss how I feel. Maybe scared, depressed, and angry could somewhat describe the feelings. I don't have any family to lean on and I'm just looking for any adivce I can get. Thank you for taking your time to answer my question.

2007-05-08 03:49:31 · 15 answers · asked by annieshopsalot 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend told me that he was going to come and see me after he got off of work. By 4 a.m. when he had not called and had not shown up, I began to worry. I started making phone calls and started driving around trying to find him. I found him at home asleep in his bed. At that point I was pissed, i wont lie I sent some nasty messages. Well the next day he got mad at me for calling so much because he had left his phone at work, like i was suppose to know that. And his roommate told him that I came by to check up on him, and I told him the truth. Anyhow, I am now being punished and ignored for caring. Mind you I have gotten many drunk night phone calls insluting me and disrescepting me, but when he says sorry I accept it and move on. I have said sorry but apparently that is not good enough. At what point do you decide to keep going and putting up with it or just give up? So confused....

2007-05-08 03:47:37 · 4 answers · asked by Kassi B 1 in Singles & Dating

OK i used to live in oklahoma dn in febuary i moved to georgia with my hubby i am moving back to oklahoma cause we are splitting up, do i need to file for divorce in oklahoma or in georgia? and what are the laws on oklahoma divorce??? Thank you so much

2007-05-08 03:45:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Met this guy at school this year, the two of us hung out alllll the time. Went from not knowing him at all to meeting up every day. He's an outgoing guy, yet acts reserved around me. We're both in our 20s. Now that school is over haven't really talked to him....in fact never really said bye....there was a definite connection, yet we both kind of avoided it...maybe because we had almost all the same classes. Where does that leave me???? I know ill see him next year, and as much as I want to move on....i can't.......

2007-05-08 03:43:00 · 11 answers · asked by ingasoline 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-08 03:40:29 · 47 answers · asked by Umama N 1 in Singles & Dating

when a guy finds out this wife or girlfriend is cheating on him. how come the guy always goes after the other guy and doesnt do anything to the girl. I have never laid a finger on a girl but i think i would if i found out my wife was cheating on me

2007-05-08 03:40:06 · 36 answers · asked by kingofhearts6464 1 in Singles & Dating

I have always been on my own and had my own space and now he's always there. He never goes anywhere and if he does, it's not for long and I never get my own space ever. Why doesn't he want his own space? He's just happy to be with me every second. When I get home from work, I would just like a little down time, but I have to immediately cook dinner, after driving an hour home from work, and I can't ever just come home and get in my jammies and relax like I used to. I have to be a wife now and I don't know how to tell him I have other interests and some of them don't involve him, just me.

2007-05-08 03:39:56 · 12 answers · asked by Kastenfrosch 1 in Singles & Dating

I just wana know, thats all.

2007-05-08 03:39:10 · 11 answers · asked by Belle B 1 in Family

What kind of girls do you like? What do they look like?

2007-05-08 03:38:50 · 11 answers · asked by steph 2 in Singles & Dating

My guy takes a really long time (30-45 min at least). He always takes care of me but he dosent always "finish". He will stop me from helping him (finish) is that normal? Mind you Im not complaining its just I dont feel like im doing my job..

2007-05-08 03:38:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

....and she said that she is not going to hold back, she is totally going to break out all the "naughty" stuff, so she said that I can choose who is invited to this so that i am not totally imbarrassed. I don't know what to do because I am very close to my future mother-in-law, who is also paying for the entire wedding, and I'm affraid that it would offend her if I didn't invite her, but I would be totally embarrassed if she came. It would be my prefference to just invite a few of my close friends... What should I do?

2007-05-08 03:36:26 · 18 answers · asked by Mrs. Wifey! 3 in Weddings

My questions got alot of seriously rude and well thoughtless answers.Try reading the question - I along with 400 million other Americans are strugggling financially in these difficult times. I thank God everyday I came from the tight family I did & they are willing to help me. I have been a strong woman and exellent Mother & I have overcome my ex husband being abusive to me and far more abusive to my children. I bought my house in cash & gave up a full time - 6 figure income to be there for my children and ended up living in an area that unfortunaltey - there's no employment - I took out a loan on my equity to make imporvements and pay old bills. The only job I could get was PT. It ended up not being enough & thank God my Mom stepped in to help what we all thought would be temporary. The guy I met is a wonderful man - nothing like my ex & we are taking things slow mostly because of my children and the level of maturity I am obviously NOT finding here today! BTW - Mom is only 57!!!

2007-05-08 03:35:19 · 47 answers · asked by martiek7 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi... i never thought this story will happen to me... i am married with a lovely husband and 4 years old daughter.. we are a happy family till i met this man 2 months ago.. at the start i didnt serious but now i feel like i am in love with him..i dont want to leave my family but also i dont want to hurt him aswell... what should i do?

2007-05-08 03:34:40 · 16 answers · asked by patitebrownie 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been fighting with my mom really bad for the past year ond a half!!! I try to bite my toung but it still wont work!!!! I mostly fight with her about grades,chores, or evan about my hair!!!!! how can i stop this madness!!!

2007-05-08 03:33:31 · 6 answers · asked by Barrleracerhotty 1 in Family

for who they are and they will love me for who I am. Does it even exist, I thought I had it and then it got took away.

2007-05-08 03:27:29 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex is always blaming me for something. For once, I wish we could just get along. He got in trouble for accidentally starting a fire and he told me not to tell anyone. I didn't, but I heard his friend telling some people. So he comes up to me and tells me to f*** off cuz I have a big mouth. He always chooses me to blame 1st before he finds out what REALLY happened.
What should I do?

2007-05-08 03:24:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

k so theres this guy, and were not going out but we both like each other.he just doesnt want a relationship right now becuase hes so busy and he doesnt wanna neglect me...but then i went to this party and this guy was totally hitting on me and he was cute but nothing happened. then later when i told the first guy, he got all jealous and told me that i cant go over there anymore! it made me sooo mad cuz like hes the one who doesnt want a relationship. than when i told him, he said we can be faithful to each other and stuff without having a relationship..WTF?!? hes totally messing with me right? grr..what should i do? im eighteen hes nineteen, and he occasionally sleeps over at my house, so were really close. he wants all the characteristics of a relationship( faithfulness, sex, being together alot,etc) but he just wont freaking commit! what should i do

2007-05-08 03:23:44 · 20 answers · asked by Leesh 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my fiance now for 10 months and engaged for 7 months. Lately I have been feeling like my feelings for her have faded compared to that like we first dated. She became ill with a sickness, one that my deceased mother had. I know that had a lot to do with our relationship. But I would think that since this is the girl I plan to marry that feeling would never leave? Or am I wrong and I am just missing the puppy love. She is in-love with me and says she can get butterflys in her stomach, but I don't... also she called a "no sex" until married on our 10months anniversary. Sad to say that hurt bad, she says she wants it to be special once we get married. But I dunno, this all has affected me bad and I don't want to lose her, but I can't stand to be with her and not feeling the same way!

2007-05-08 03:20:18 · 17 answers · asked by Ryan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-08 03:20:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been going out with my boyfriend for over a year and i am moving away to uni in england in 4 months (i live in ireland). he has been annoyed with the way the relationship is going, and wants to change things. i don't feel the same way and really think it will make it harder for me to leave in september. what do i do? end it now or wait until september?

2007-05-08 03:19:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my bf have been dating for 1 1/2 years and we are soon to get married!! But every guy that i know that has gotten married completey changes! usually they start out really good guys (helping around the house, cooking, doesn't look at porn)
But then they change, they start to do absolutley nothing, and they constantly talk about other pretty women, and look at porn, etc.
My bf says that he won't do that and that I should trust him, he says that he hates the fact that he has to be judged by his sex, because he is not like most men and he promises to stay that way!
But it's not that I don't trust him, it's that I don't trust who he might become!

2007-05-08 03:19:05 · 11 answers · asked by Kristen C 1 in Singles & Dating