My boyfriend told me that he was going to come and see me after he got off of work. By 4 a.m. when he had not called and had not shown up, I began to worry. I started making phone calls and started driving around trying to find him. I found him at home asleep in his bed. At that point I was pissed, i wont lie I sent some nasty messages. Well the next day he got mad at me for calling so much because he had left his phone at work, like i was suppose to know that. And his roommate told him that I came by to check up on him, and I told him the truth. Anyhow, I am now being punished and ignored for caring. Mind you I have gotten many drunk night phone calls insluting me and disrescepting me, but when he says sorry I accept it and move on. I have said sorry but apparently that is not good enough. At what point do you decide to keep going and putting up with it or just give up? So confused....
2007-05-08 03:47:37 · 4 answers · asked by Kassi B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It has been three days and he still has not called. I have not called also due to the fact that I don't think that I should beg and plead with him, that is beyond me.
2007-05-10 04:09:32 · update #1
Its understandable that you were worried..if my bf said that he would call over after work and didnt show up, I would be frantic with worry. How are you supposed to know that hes tucked up in bed not even given you a second thought. Its him that should be apoligising over and over again. You hear lots of bad things these days that happen to people and you genuinely worried because you didnt hear from him-I would be too. Tell him that he should be happy that there is someone in this world that actually cares for his safety and worries if he doesnt show up when he supposed to. Tell him that you were actually really worried and that you thought something happened to him and just move on and except it.
2007-05-08 04:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by Flowerpower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey the boy has some issues and if hes being drunk and direspecful, calling you names and that kind of thing you need to move on you dont deserve that no one does and the thing is that it will no doubt get worse because you keep forgiving him for the same things so in his mind he thinks he can treat you any old way and your gonna keep forgiving for his abuse and im not saying you shouldnt forgive him i am just saying dont keep putting your self back in the way of his abuse move on and find someone that treats you the way you want to be treated.
2007-05-08 04:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't appologize anymore and I wouldn't put up with the drunken phone calls.
2007-05-08 03:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by Taryn K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does not seem to care very much for your feelings and i dont think it will improve as time goes on ---- maybe it is time to reevaluate the relationship and decide if this is what you want --- best wishes to you
2007-05-08 04:09:05 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋