when a guy finds out this wife or girlfriend is cheating on him. how come the guy always goes after the other guy and doesnt do anything to the girl. I have never laid a finger on a girl but i think i would if i found out my wife was cheating on me
2007-05-08 03:40:06 · 36 answers · asked by kingofhearts6464 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the man thinks that its the other persons fault not the one they love. peopel don't want to think the worse of the one they love but you can't steal someone who isn't asked to be stolen. cheating is being asked to be caught you try to test the limits. personaly if "my husband" ever cheted on me i would blame them because they want to be together so if you break up with them thay can then they will get bored with the other person and come runningback and you can tell them to go get a life....lol so yeah....
girls never get hit cause of men are stronger then women and they can actually hurt a woman but if a man hit a woman then the woman could like almost die and stuff...
2007-05-08 03:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's an un written rule of shivery, a man protects his spouse that is part of why you get married. To have and hold, for better for worse..AND forsaking others ..etc. You are there to protect her, Love her and care for her. not bash her about, that's not a man, Women are not as strong as men so you NEVER NEVER hit a woman does not matter what she has done, there are other ways with out lashing out. Remember the man is the bread winner so the woman is dependent on him (USUALLY) although in this day and age women like to support themselves. But it's still not very nice for a man to physically hit a woman.
AGONY UNCLE
2007-05-08 03:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by coofooman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a cultural thing. You were probably raised with the idea that a boy shouldn't hit a girl, right? There's nothing to be gained by hitting ANYBODY in this kind of situation...it can either be fixed by talking it out, or it can't be fixed at all. Physical reactions won't help matters.
2007-05-08 03:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by MOM KNOWS EVERYTHING 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are doing your job as a man you don't have to worry about it. Most woman stray because they are missing something at home. Pray together and spend time doing things together. My future spouse and I have a motto ONE HEART, ONE MINE, ONE SOUL, ONE SPIRIT, ONE BODY. share every thing know who your wife's friends are and she should know your friends too. If there is a friend that neither one of you know about then you don't need those friends and GOD forbids you do come into a situation where wife cheats on you simple walk away, do not go after either and if you choose to stay seek counseling. Remember to Pray GOD BLESS
2007-05-08 03:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by S M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you start handing out the beatings to your woman you go to jail. Then you get to explain to your family, friends, and future GF's why you laid your ex out. A good man is in control of his emotions and reactions.
2007-05-08 03:56:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should result to violence at all. A real man would just say f*ck it, get his own place, and move on. There is no need to hit anyone. Not even the other guy. The other guy might not have even known she was married.
2007-05-08 03:46:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is my exact question. Also if a woman catches her husband cheating, she goes after the "other woman". That is skewed thinking. It is their spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend who is doing the cheating, not the "other" man or woman. If my husband cheated, unless the "other woman" was a good friend or relative of mine, I would not blame them one bit. Either way my husband would get the brunt of my wrath (including divorce). If it was my friend or relative who cheated with him, I would eliminate them from my life.
2007-05-08 03:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because women are the "weaker sex" physically, emotionally, etc.--they need a man's protection, not his abuse. God designed for man to be a protective covering over his wife, not an abuser.
2007-05-08 05:18:48 · answer #8 · answered by LaPrincesse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what your talking about im a girl ive had over 14 boy friends ive cheated on this one and ill never do it agian he broke my arm my nose and i had over 10 bruises on me
but FYI i wouldnt ever hit a girl for any reson you get more respect. and dudes want to prove that there the better man.
2007-05-08 03:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by Lips of an angel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think violence is a good solution either way, boy or girl, if my girl cheated, the BEST thing to do, is go get a new girl, like the next day, make sure shes knows how quickly, and easily she can be replaced.................................also i have read a story bout a guy in japan, who caught his wife cheating,he took a sword, and split her from her coo-coo, to her neck....whoa!
2007-05-08 03:48:59 · answer #10 · answered by ace 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋